I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

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Anonymous wrote:Op, have you ever paid to get a criminal background check on this guy? I'm guessing low level drug dealing or drug production.


OP here: I had my friend who is a cop look up his record back in January and nothing came up for him at all in the system.


Jesus OP, have you gotten off of DCUM at all since you started this thread? Don't you have a job or something that requires your attention? Because you sure don't have a boyfriend that deserves your attention!


OP here: Um, yes. It's 9:30pm at night so not sure what I would be doing for work right now. I also own my own business nad work from home so I am able to be on my iphone and laptop whenever I'd like to be.


Except earlier you said you had to get home from work to follow up on this. And with your negligible Internet skills, the likelihood of you running your own at-home business is basically nil. Hmmm..


OP here: I had to go to a clients house this afternoon so yes, that was me working outside of the house at that moment. I'm not going to argue with you whether I have my own business or not, I do...that's all I need to say.
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Where are you parents? Your friends? Have you told anyone else about what's going on and what you've discovered? Or are you hiding it from them because you know they'll call you on your self-destructive behavior?
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As an avid reader of this thread, I'm annoyed with all of the half-ass readers who are filling the pages up with questions that have already been answered. Guys, OP works from home but had an appointment this afternoon which delayed some of her earlier action and replies.

Now on with the show!
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I don't know about you guys, but I am planning on staying up all night.
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Oh goddammit, I made the mistake of showing my outdoorsy husband the uncles youtube channel and website. Now he want to plan a trip.
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Anonymous wrote:Where are you parents? Your friends? Have you told anyone else about what's going on and what you've discovered? Or are you hiding it from them because you know they'll call you on your self-destructive behavior?


OP here: My best friend has known about this since yesterday morning and I have updated her as the time has gone on. She's just as confused as I am about the whole situation. I don't feel the need to call every friend and family member to tell them what's going on.
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Anonymous wrote:Where are you parents? Your friends? Have you told anyone else about what's going on and what you've discovered? Or are you hiding it from them because you know they'll call you on your self-destructive behavior?


OP here: My best friend has known about this since yesterday morning and I have updated her as the time has gone on. She's just as confused as I am about the whole situation. I don't feel the need to call every friend and family member to tell them what's going on.



Is she really confused? In your last thread you said she didn't trust him. My gut tells me she's trying to get you to see the light like the rest of us are.
Anonymous
Holy crap. 76 pages now. I have been reading this train wreck since page 10. I need to get a life. I am embarrassed or myself.
Anonymous
OP, serious question. Why do you care anymore?

Not being mean, but this guy has done something really cruel to you.

Have you had many relationships? Are they mostly long distance?

Please cut this guy off and out of your life.
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Anonymous wrote:Where are you parents? Your friends? Have you told anyone else about what's going on and what you've discovered? Or are you hiding it from them because you know they'll call you on your self-destructive behavior?


OP here: My best friend has known about this since yesterday morning and I have updated her as the time has gone on. She's just as confused as I am about the whole situation. I don't feel the need to call every friend and family member to tell them what's going on.



Is she really confused? In your last thread you said she didn't trust him. My gut tells me she's trying to get you to see the light like the rest of us are.


OP here: yes she is confused also because after him and I worked things over, she had a long ass talk with him because as my best friend, she was concerned about what happened last time and he sort of redeemed himself with her after their talk. So now she's confused also especially because things have been so good with us lately and nothing leading up to this weekend made me think this would happen.
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I just discovered this thread. Can someone post the video of the uncle's dog fetching an Easter basket? Thanks!
Anonymous
OP, there are better men out there for you. I know this hurts a lot. But the pain will pass.
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Anonymous wrote:Where are you parents? Your friends? Have you told anyone else about what's going on and what you've discovered? Or are you hiding it from them because you know they'll call you on your self-destructive behavior?


OP here: My best friend has known about this since yesterday morning and I have updated her as the time has gone on. She's just as confused as I am about the whole situation. I don't feel the need to call every friend and family member to tell them what's going on.



Is she really confused? In your last thread you said she didn't trust him. My gut tells me she's trying to get you to see the light like the rest of us are.


OP here: yes she is confused also because after him and I worked things over, she had a long ass talk with him because as my best friend, she was concerned about what happened last time and he sort of redeemed himself with her after their talk. So now she's confused also especially because things have been so good with us lately and nothing leading up to this weekend made me think this would happen.



So here's a lesson to learn: Just because a guys says all the right things doesn't mean he is right for you. It just means he says all the right things to get what he wants.
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Anonymous wrote:OP, serious question. Why do you care anymore?

Not being mean, but this guy has done something really cruel to you.

Have you had many relationships? Are they mostly long distance?

Please cut this guy off and out of your life.


OP here: My last relationship was also long distance and we were together for almost 6 years. We broke up 6 months before I was supposed to move to his home state because I found out he was talking to some girl he met online and also, he was very emotionally abusive. So if you want the truth, I'm sure that relationship plays into why I stick around with my current relationship if we can even call it that.

& why do I care? Because I really am in love with him and thought this *could* maybe be the one and it's hard to just be like "oh okay...he lied to me...fuck him" and just move on. I want answers and I am the type of person who needs answers to move on.
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