I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm starting to lean more toward this guy just deciding to stay at the cabin with Grandpa for a few extra days. It isn't as if he has a real job, and he lives on his grandparents' property: he's probably stupid and irresponsible enough to just fail to realize that she'd be freaking out.

He's still sketchy as hell, though.

WHY WOULD YOU SAY THIS!!??!?? SHE IS FINALLY COMING TO HER SENSES! Right? Right?


Or no. She's still obsessively correcting details while ignoring the big picture.

Sigh.

I would correct people who were blatantly wrong too. Doesn't mean she's not coming around. The fact that she hasn't called the sheriff back means she realizes the odds that the guy is hurt instead of lying are too small to be mentioned.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:And so the search for the man she so desperately loves continues. In these 4 - 6 months despite seeing each other only 4 - 6 times in the form of late night hotel romps their love is infinitesimal and nothing can tear them apart not his lies not his disappearances and certainly not something so silly as her innate instinct of self-preservation or the even sillier notion of common f%king sense. No..moving on is not an option she's got to find him and once again give her heart to him despite the fact that he will shatter it once again soon enough.

OP here: Where are you getting 4-6 times we've seen eachother? I said I've been up there 4 times. Also, there is no "late night hotel rooms". I have my own condo and he has his own house on his grandparents property so.....

But I thought you didn't know any of his family? Can't you just scheme the property record and get his grandparents names?

OP here: His grandparents own a shit ton of land. Their house is on like 10+ acres of land. He has his own little house on their property, far away from their house on the property. I have looked up the address to try and find a phone number or something and nothing has come up.

OMG, LMAO. 10 acres is NOT a shit ton of land!

[Anonymous]

OP, my two cents:

Come to terms with the fact that you have a problem REALIZING you have a problem. Challenge yourself to end this and stay off dating websites for 8 months. Work on getting in to shape and choose one hobby to focus on-- knitting, rock climbing, whatever.

You need a break from your life right now. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

Even if this guy is given every benefit of the doubt and just decided to spend an extra day frolicking in the forest its still a shitty thing to do to your girlfriend who thought she would have heard from you for now.

Immature, you should dump him just for that

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op, have you ever paid to get a criminal background check on this guy? I'm guessing low level drug dealing or drug production.

OP here: I had my friend who is a cop look up his record back in January and nothing came up for him at all in the system.

Jesus OP, have you gotten off of DCUM at all since you started this thread? Don't you have a job or something that requires your attention? Because you sure don't have a boyfriend that deserves your attention!

OP here: Um, yes. It's 9:30pm at night so not sure what I would be doing for work right now. I also own my own business nad work from home so I am able to be on my iphone and laptop whenever I'd like to be.

[Anonymous]

he's still MIA?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Even if this guy is given every benefit of the doubt and just decided to spend an extra day frolicking in the forest its still a shitty thing to do to your girlfriend who thought she would have heard from you for now.

Immature, you should dump him just for that

It would be 2 days now, was supposed to be home Sunday night

[Anonymous]

Do I even want to read the other thread or do I want food, a bubble bath and bed...

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op, have you ever paid to get a criminal background check on this guy? I'm guessing low level drug dealing or drug production.

OP here: I had my friend who is a cop look up his record back in January and nothing came up for him at all in the system.

Jesus OP, have you gotten off of DCUM at all since you started this thread? Don't you have a job or something that requires your attention? Because you sure don't have a boyfriend that deserves your attention!

OP here: Um, yes. It's 9:30pm at night so not sure what I would be doing for work right now. I also own my own business nad work from home so I am able to be on my iphone and laptop whenever I'd like to be.

weren't you driving home from work this afternoon?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:he's still MIA?

yup

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op, have you ever paid to get a criminal background check on this guy? I'm guessing low level drug dealing or drug production.

OP here: I had my friend who is a cop look up his record back in January and nothing came up for him at all in the system.

Jesus OP, have you gotten off of DCUM at all since you started this thread? Don't you have a job or something that requires your attention? Because you sure don't have a boyfriend that deserves your attention!

OP here: Um, yes. It's 9:30pm at night so not sure what I would be doing for work right now. I also own my own business nad work from home so I am able to be on my iphone and laptop whenever I'd like to be.

Except earlier you said you had to get home from work to follow up on this. And with your negligible Internet skills, the likelihood of you running your own at-home business is basically nil. Hmmm..

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op, have you ever paid to get a criminal background check on this guy? I'm guessing low level drug dealing or drug production.

OP here: I had my friend who is a cop look up his record back in January and nothing came up for him at all in the system.

Jesus OP, have you gotten off of DCUM at all since you started this thread? Don't you have a job or something that requires your attention? Because you sure don't have a boyfriend that deserves your attention!

OP here: Um, yes. It's 9:30pm at night so not sure what I would be doing for work right now. I also own my own business nad work from home so I am able to be on my iphone and laptop whenever I'd like to be.

weren't you driving home from work this afternoon?

Getting busted, OP..

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op, have you ever paid to get a criminal background check on this guy? I'm guessing low level drug dealing or drug production.

OP here: I had my friend who is a cop look up his record back in January and nothing came up for him at all in the system.

Jesus OP, have you gotten off of DCUM at all since you started this thread? Don't you have a job or something that requires your attention? Because you sure don't have a boyfriend that deserves your attention!

OP here: Um, yes. It's 9:30pm at night so not sure what I would be doing for work right now. I also own my own business nad work from home so I am able to be on my iphone and laptop whenever I'd like to be.

weren't you driving home from work this afternoon?

Getting busted, OP..

I think she said something about a meeting earlier.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Well then what was Chapin Farms? That was how a PP found him on Facebook

OP here: I believe its a farm he used to work for.

& yes PP, he is still gone and phone is still off.

OP, it was Sunday that he was supposed to call you; it's now Tuesday. You've realized that he lied as to his whereabouts? You don't think you're clingy but you're still calling him? STOP.

I realize you're sad and hurt, but try to salvage some self-respect. You're 27 not 16.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op, have you ever paid to get a criminal background check on this guy? I'm guessing low level drug dealing or drug production.

OP here: I had my friend who is a cop look up his record back in January and nothing came up for him at all in the system.

Jesus OP, have you gotten off of DCUM at all since you started this thread? Don't you have a job or something that requires your attention? Because you sure don't have a boyfriend that deserves your attention!

OP here: Um, yes. It's 9:30pm at night so not sure what I would be doing for work right now. I also own my own business nad work from home so I am able to be on my iphone and laptop whenever I'd like to be.

weren't you driving home from work this afternoon?

Getting busted, OP..

Earlier she said she worked from home and was driving back from an appointment.

Not saying shes not a troll, I just read way too much of this shit today