I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:On the uncle's Facebook page there's a picture from four people fishing over the weekend – it's one of those guys a boyfriend?

OP here: nope and weirdly enough, he doesn't have one picture of my boyfriend on his page

Is he even FB friends with him (there's a different SV that Uncle J is friends with, but your SV didn't come up in the list).

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why, when it was verified pages ago where he worked, why OP ( or any of us sleuths here) didn't call his work and ask if he was in.
Did I miss something?

He doesn't work for a company- he hauls cows for a couple of farms.

Now that is a good quality job. HA. Exactly how would this guy provide for a family hauling cows? Unless he owns the trucking firm, that is a lack of higher education, dead end job.

It's the perfect job for hooking up with various girls in different towns.

[Anonymous]

OP is determined to make this work.
She'll never give him up - never!!
He's THE ONE!!

[Anonymous]

What do you see in this guy? He is essentially an unemployed, lying (other thread), inconsiderate baby who lives off his grandparents. At best! I actually said drugs ages ago in the other thread, and I'm sticking to it.

[Anonymous]

Op, have you ever paid to get a criminal background check on this guy? I'm guessing low level drug dealing or drug production.

[Anonymous]

I've been following since last night, and I think the OP is coming to terms with what a jerk this guy is. So sorry, OP. I had hoped this would end differently with you as the heroine who sent out forest rangers to rescue BF and grandpa from otherwise certain death in the Maine wilderness. Real life is less exciting and more sucky.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op, have you ever paid to get a criminal background check on this guy? I'm guessing low level drug dealing or drug production.

OP here: I had my friend who is a cop look up his record back in January and nothing came up for him at all in the system.

[Anonymous]

Well then what was Chapin Farms? That was how a PP found him on Facebook

[Anonymous]

74 pages in and boyfriend has still not surfaced? OP give up already

[Anonymous]

Someone friend this dbag and ask him where the hell he's been.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well then what was Chapin Farms? That was how a PP found him on Facebook

OP here: I believe its a farm he used to work for.

& yes PP, he is still gone and phone is still off.

[Anonymous]

OP you are gullible. Thats okay we all have been at one point in our lives. The things is this STOP BEING GULLIBLE!

You are not the first girl this guy has done this to, you will not be the last. Don't let that upset you, that is no reflection on you.

I'm going to give you some advice. Block your now exboyfriend on everything. Don't let him worm back in, because he will try. Go full no contact with him. I know, you can't contact him right now, but he WILL try to contact you.

Go cold turkey on this jerk. Take a month or two off dating. Do something just for yourself in the meantime.

Then find yourself a nice local boy.

Don't let this sour you on men, but keep one eye open.

Don't be gullible! If it sounds like it smells like a rotting bobcat carcass it is likely a cheating lying ass rotting bobcat carcass!

Okay?

Hugs, darling, because we've all been there in some capacity before.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op, have you ever paid to get a criminal background check on this guy? I'm guessing low level drug dealing or drug production.

OP here: I had my friend who is a cop look up his record back in January and nothing came up for him at all in the system.

Jesus OP, have you gotten off of DCUM at all since you started this thread? Don't you have a job or something that requires your attention? Because you sure don't have a boyfriend that deserves your attention!

[Anonymous]

Maybe he's MOOOOved on to greener pastures...

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sirry, I am lost. Do we finally know what happened?

No. But we know he lied about something.

About what?!

Well his uncle does not seem to have been in Maine.

Maybe he has another uncle...