I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

I'm starting to lean more toward this guy just deciding to stay at the cabin with Grandpa for a few extra days. It isn't as if he has a real job, and he lives on his grandparents' property: he's probably stupid and irresponsible enough to just fail to realize that she'd be freaking out.

He's still sketchy as hell, though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And so the search for the man she so desperately loves continues. In these 4 - 6 months despite seeing each other only 4 - 6 times in the form of late night hotel romps their love is infinitesimal and nothing can tear them apart not his lies not his disappearances and certainly not something so silly as her innate instinct of self-preservation or the even sillier notion of common f%king sense. No..moving on is not an option she's got to find him and once again give her heart to him despite the fact that he will shatter it once again soon enough.

OP here: Where are you getting 4-6 times we've seen eachother? I said I've been up there 4 times. Also, there is no "late night hotel rooms". I have my own condo and he has his own house on his grandparents property so.....

But I thought you didn't know any of his family? Can't you just scheme the property record and get his grandparents names?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm starting to lean more toward this guy just deciding to stay at the cabin with Grandpa for a few extra days. It isn't as if he has a real job, and he lives on his grandparents' property: he's probably stupid and irresponsible enough to just fail to realize that she'd be freaking out.

He's still sketchy as hell, though.

WHY WOULD YOU SAY THIS!!??!?? SHE IS FINALLY COMING TO HER SENSES! Right? Right?


Or no. She's still obsessively correcting details while ignoring the big picture.

Sigh.

[Anonymous]

Sirry, I am lost. Do we finally know what happened?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sirry, I am lost. Do we finally know what happened?

No. But we know he lied about something.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And so the search for the man she so desperately loves continues. In these 4 - 6 months despite seeing each other only 4 - 6 times in the form of late night hotel romps their love is infinitesimal and nothing can tear them apart not his lies not his disappearances and certainly not something so silly as her innate instinct of self-preservation or the even sillier notion of common f%king sense. No..moving on is not an option she's got to find him and once again give her heart to him despite the fact that he will shatter it once again soon enough.

OP here: Where are you getting 4-6 times we've seen eachother? I said I've been up there 4 times. Also, there is no "late night hotel rooms". I have my own condo and he has his own house on his grandparents property so.....

But I thought you didn't know any of his family? Can't you just scheme the property record and get his grandparents names?

OP here: His grandparents own a shit ton of land. Their house is on like 10+ acres of land. He has his own little house on their property, far away from their house on the property. I have looked up the address to try and find a phone number or something and nothing has come up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm starting to lean more toward this guy just deciding to stay at the cabin with Grandpa for a few extra days. It isn't as if he has a real job, and he lives on his grandparents' property: he's probably stupid and irresponsible enough to just fail to realize that she'd be freaking out.

He's still sketchy as hell, though.

WHY WOULD YOU SAY THIS!!??!?? SHE IS FINALLY COMING TO HER SENSES! Right? Right?


Or no. She's still obsessively correcting details while ignoring the big picture.

Sigh.

Didn't someone say they saw Grandpa's obituary?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sirry, I am lost. Do we finally know what happened?

No. But we know he lied about something.

About what?!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm starting to lean more toward this guy just deciding to stay at the cabin with Grandpa for a few extra days. It isn't as if he has a real job, and he lives on his grandparents' property: he's probably stupid and irresponsible enough to just fail to realize that she'd be freaking out.

He's still sketchy as hell, though.

WHY WOULD YOU SAY THIS!!??!?? SHE IS FINALLY COMING TO HER SENSES! Right? Right?


Or no. She's still obsessively correcting details while ignoring the big picture.

Sigh.

Didn't someone say they saw Grandpa's obituary?

There wasn't any confirmation that it was the correct person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm starting to lean more toward this guy just deciding to stay at the cabin with Grandpa for a few extra days. It isn't as if he has a real job, and he lives on his grandparents' property: he's probably stupid and irresponsible enough to just fail to realize that she'd be freaking out.

He's still sketchy as hell, though.

WHY WOULD YOU SAY THIS!!??!?? SHE IS FINALLY COMING TO HER SENSES! Right? Right?


Or no. She's still obsessively correcting details while ignoring the big picture.

Sigh.

WHAT? I just pretty much outlined what a loser this guy is. To help her break free. Right? So she can move on to find an honest, mature guy with a real job.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sirry, I am lost. Do we finally know what happened?

No. But we know he lied about something.

About what?!

Well his uncle does not seem to have been in Maine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And so the search for the man she so desperately loves continues. In these 4 - 6 months despite seeing each other only 4 - 6 times in the form of late night hotel romps their love is infinitesimal and nothing can tear them apart

Well, maybe his.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm starting to lean more toward this guy just deciding to stay at the cabin with Grandpa for a few extra days. It isn't as if he has a real job, and he lives on his grandparents' property: he's probably stupid and irresponsible enough to just fail to realize that she'd be freaking out.

He's still sketchy as hell, though.

WHY WOULD YOU SAY THIS!!??!?? SHE IS FINALLY COMING TO HER SENSES! Right? Right?


Or no. She's still obsessively correcting details while ignoring the big picture.

Sigh.

WHAT? I just pretty much outlined what a loser this guy is. To help her break free. Right? So she can move on to find an honest, mature guy with a real job.

All she's going to read is, "Oh! He really did go to the cabin with grandpa and just passed out and forgot! He's so crazy! I love that guy!"

[Anonymous]

This is a fascinating read. 72 pages. Had to skim it.

Does the op live in a major metropolitan area? Still trying to figure out how she was dating some farm hand....weird.

And how she didn't have more contact info, didn't know his employer. Heck by the 2nd date? I knew my wife number at home, her cell. I knew where she worked from conversation. I could have easily found the number.

OP: Pick a in town BF next time and really get to know him.

[Anonymous]

Re: meth & "hauling cows": there is an article by Jennifer Dukes Lee called "Meatpacking Towns Seen As Key Funnel For Meth" (Des Moines Register, March 7, 1999. The book Fast Food Nation cites it.