I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

Op here: quick update and some will flame me but whatever. After a thorough Google search like so many people said I needed to do, I found a number for someone who I thought may be another set of grandparents. I just called and a woman answered and I pretty much told her I was looking for my boyfriend and a bit of a back story of this weekend and her response was "oh that's my nephew. Unfortunately I haven't been in touch with him or his father in years so I would have no idea where he would be or even who could help you track him down. I'm really sorry I can't be of more help". So that's a dead end.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One more question. Without getting into specifics. Can anyone tell me the type of bushiness the uncle is in? I missed all that, I'm more curious than anything. So I'm happy to see 'It's like...'

Some kind of fishing thing

He's a fishing guide.

[Anonymous]

Did the sheriff call back?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here: quick update and some will flame me but whatever. After a thorough Google search like so many people said I needed to do, I found a number for someone who I thought may be another set of grandparents. I just called and a woman answered and I pretty much told her I was looking for my boyfriend and a bit of a back story of this weekend and her response was "oh that's my nephew. Unfortunately I haven't been in touch with him or his father in years so I would have no idea where he would be or even who could help you track him down. I'm really sorry I can't be of more help". So that's a dead end.

Why not call the uncle?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here: quick update and some will flame me but whatever. After a thorough Google search like so many people said I needed to do, I found a number for someone who I thought may be another set of grandparents. I just called and a woman answered and I pretty much told her I was looking for my boyfriend and a bit of a back story of this weekend and her response was "oh that's my nephew. Unfortunately I haven't been in touch with him or his father in years so I would have no idea where he would be or even who could help you track him down. I'm really sorry I can't be of more help". So that's a dead end.

The complete lack of contacts and online oresence etc for someone so young. It's just odd and suspicious, given everyone else.

Do you really want to make a life with this guy? Do you really want to build a home? Raise a family? Do you want him as a role model for your sons?

Come on, seriously. What is the point?

[Anonymous]

I notice you won't answer the drug questions, OP. That's relevant in a case like this, surely.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One more question. Without getting into specifics. Can anyone tell me the type of bushiness the uncle is in? I missed all that, I'm more curious than anything. So I'm happy to see 'It's like...'

Fishing.

Or bobcat pelt poaching, depending on who you believe.

Considering he was home posting pics on facebook all weekend, let's assume he's a legit fisherman and not some bobcat poacher.

[Anonymous]

And so the search for the man she so desperately loves continues. In these 4 - 6 months despite seeing each other only 4 - 6 times in the form of late night hotel romps their love is infinitesimal and nothing can tear them apart not his lies not his disappearances and certainly not something so silly as her innate instinct of self-preservation or the even sillier notion of common f%king sense. No..moving on is not an option she's got to find him and once again give her heart to him despite the fact that he will shatter it once again soon enough.

[Anonymous]

It took the Wolf almost 6 weeks to get to 70 pages.
Bravo!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I notice you won't answer the drug questions, OP. That's relevant in a case like this, surely.

OP Here: As far as I know, he doesn't do any drugs. I actually jokingly made a joke about doing cocaine once (which I never have) and he got SO MAD at me, thinking I actually did drugs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It took the Wolf almost 6 weeks to get to 70 pages.
Bravo!

What a slog that was. Though it was more interesting reading, being that the content evolved.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And so the search for the man she so desperately loves continues. In these 4 - 6 months despite seeing each other only 4 - 6 times in the form of late night hotel romps their love is infinitesimal and nothing can tear them apart not his lies not his disappearances and certainly not something so silly as her innate instinct of self-preservation or the even sillier notion of common f%king sense. No..moving on is not an option she's got to find him and once again give her heart to him despite the fact that he will shatter it once again soon enough.

OP here: Where are you getting 4-6 times we've seen eachother? I said I've been up there 4 times. Also, there is no "late night hotel rooms". I have my own condo and he has his own house on his grandparents property so.....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here: quick update and some will flame me but whatever. After a thorough Google search like so many people said I needed to do, I found a number for someone who I thought may be another set of grandparents. I just called and a woman answered and I pretty much told her I was looking for my boyfriend and a bit of a back story of this weekend and her response was "oh that's my nephew. Unfortunately I haven't been in touch with him or his father in years so I would have no idea where he would be or even who could help you track him down. I'm really sorry I can't be of more help". So that's a dead end.

Why not call the uncle?

OP here: I tried three times today. Two times it just rang and rang and the third time, an answering machine for his business picked up. I don't think anyone found a personal number for him, I looked and couldn't find one...just his business number.

[Anonymous]

I don't think there's a complicated story here. Insecure guys prey on insecure women. OP, I'm assuming you don't have a great track record with relationships. This is not likely to change until you get therapy to help you identify why you can't take a guy's actions at face value and keep looking for excuses for poor behavior.

(But man, I love his Uncle. Easter baskets for a dog! Ice fishing gear seminars! Bass cover photos!)

[Anonymous]

Well in OPs defense, she seems like she's spreading the word of this issue with his family. So either his story is she went full on crazy TODAY. Or her worry is acute and triggered by something. If people in my family started having their FBs blown up and calls made to us, then we'd think crazy, but at some point I'd hold BF/nephew accountable for exposing us to the crazy. Especially if he has the reputation as the family douche.