DH shoved me to the floor while screaming shut your f’ing mouth…

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Anonymous wrote:Op, any reason magistrate/judge refused to give you a restraining order. Did you go with your lawyer?

Temp or permanent? Big difference.

Temporary ROs are very easy to get. As a woman, you just need to go in front of a magistrate and say something and you would get it for 15 days.

So what’s the point? Trigger an ahole to get violent on day 16 when allowed back home? Love to see the judge track records of physical abuse and deaths after that.

No, on 15th day, you go in front of the judge and get a permanent RO or move out. There is no more life with a person like this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:you may want to read why does he do that? by lundy bancroft (or a similar introduction on the dynamics of abuse and coercive control). if you are in an abusive relationship, there are likely to also be other controlling, manipulative, and/or verbally abusive behaviors that you are have overlooked.

This book would completely brain wash you though and everything you would see is an abuse then. There is no turning back after reading this book. If the situation is 2 on a spectrum of 10 then you would suddenly reach to 8 or 9.

[Anonymous]

I agree about the extremity of this book. It is well written but going to spin your mind in wrong direction.