Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Judging by the amount of SELF love, and SELF centerless it looks like your hubby is a Narcissist on Autism Spectrum with serious Midas touch issues putting money first and like the concept of love never entered his blood pump organ.
You on the other hand also seem a bit cold when you talk about all this and while money is important the family seems to be somewhere far in the background.
Where is LOVE in your family? Who loves your child if anyone? I mean love, not just farm the kid.
I don't think OP isn't a loving mother. Her situation is complex & I think she explained it assuming it would be common knowledge that her child is a priority.
It's been a crazy year with the pandemic; most people have had less than ideal situations regarding the kids school & social life. OP, see a divorce lawyer ASAP. I'd put aside the bar for right now. You're kid will be back in school next year, work is returning to normal (slowly), you're not being lazy. At all.
You're getting a divorce- that's a lot to sink in to begin with. I think it's crazy to move & plan a home purchase with your DH as he's telling you he wants a divorce & plans to spend as little as possible in support.
He seems like a moron. You do not. See a therapist if you need to have an unbiased viewpoint.
You got this!