How many dates before sex is reasonable?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:After years of dating I know that I like to have sex on date 3. I really hate to say this but if a guy does not have a large penis I am not interested. Why fake it and waste one's time? I am not opposed to the friend category if we have common interests.

I'm curious about this. Is it physical (small or medium can't satisfy you) or psychological (you only crave large men because the large size makes you feel certain emotions)?

And why after so much P mileage she’s still so clueless that there are extensions like c..k sneathes. She’s discarding perfectly normal men because of her dumbness !

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, I don’t think it’s crazy at the moment. Last call at bars in DC is 10pm...typically good dates don’t end that early, in my experience, and with limited/no options I think offering to go back to your place is fine. I wouldn’t have any sexual expectations, though.

Good lord, what kind of lame ass bars are you taking dates to that have last call at 10 pm? Seriously?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not sure if age matters for this and know it varies by person, but is it crazy to ask a girl back to my place after the first date if it’s going well? Feels risky, but I don’t personally have any hang ups around it. And I’m definitely someone that really values chemistry in the bedroom.

If she says “no hookups” in her profile, she is totally DTF. Ask me how I know…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've been told by women of the 3 day minimum rule but most women I've been with had sex with me on the first real date, almost all the rest by the second. Just my experience. You can always try. Follow her lead. While you may not know if you're going to have sex that nigjt, she knows for certain. That's a fact.

Aren't you the stud (or so you think).

It sounds like he actually IS the stud if he’s dipping his wick that easily and frequently. Who are you to suggest otherwise? Jealous much?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've been told by women of the 3 day minimum rule but most women I've been with had sex with me on the first real date, almost all the rest by the second. Just my experience. You can always try. Follow her lead. While you may not know if you're going to have sex that nigjt, she knows for certain. That's a fact.

Aren't you the stud (or so you think).

It sounds like he actually IS the stud if he’s dipping his wick that easily and frequently. Who are you to suggest otherwise? Jealous much?

I think I'm pretty average. I'm just reporting my experience with dating a fair amount of women over the years. Sex on first or second date is not uncommon, especially if you've spoken and texted a lot before meeting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:After years of dating I know that I like to have sex on date 3. I really hate to say this but if a guy does not have a large penis I am not interested. Why fake it and waste one's time? I am not opposed to the friend category if we have common interests.

I'm curious about this. Is it physical (small or medium can't satisfy you) or psychological (you only crave large men because the large size makes you feel certain emotions)?

And why after so much P mileage she’s still so clueless that there are extensions like c..k sneathes. She’s discarding perfectly normal men because of her dumbness !

Extensions?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:After years of dating I know that I like to have sex on date 3. I really hate to say this but if a guy does not have a large penis I am not interested. Why fake it and waste one's time? I am not opposed to the friend category if we have common interests.

I'm curious about this. Is it physical (small or medium can't satisfy you) or psychological (you only crave large men because the large size makes you feel certain emotions)?

And why after so much P mileage she’s still so clueless that there are extensions like c..k sneathes. She’s discarding perfectly normal men because of her dumbness !

Extensions?

Yes - google c..k sneathe. It’s very cool

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:During my dating years I really appreciated the guys who left it up to me to make the move. I never responded well to pressure which I found to be a real turnoff. My now DH and I had been good friends for a couple of years and our first date was at a party at his house. After everyone had left and while helping him clean up the kitchen I asked what he had in the refrigerator for breakfast. The look on his face was priceless.

What a great line!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Need to wait at least 5-10 dates. Anything less and I presume you are a promiscuous man and will likely have an STD.

+1

36 hours of conversation.

https://www.iflscience.com/how-long-should-couples-in-relationships-wait-before-getting-intimate-70897

That article also quotes a female psychologist recommending a wait of three months if you want a committed relationship. I used to sleep around a lot, but when my psychologist recommended the same length of time, and to go away somewhere special, I followed her advice. We’ve been married for 25 years.

[Anonymous]

Sheathe not sneathe. Took me a minute to find. You like that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Need to wait at least 5-10 dates. Anything less and I presume you are a promiscuous man and will likely have an STD.

+1

36 hours of conversation.

https://www.iflscience.com/how-long-should-couples-in-relationships-wait-before-getting-intimate-70897

That article also quotes a female psychologist recommending a wait of three months if you want a committed relationship. I used to sleep around a lot, but when my psychologist recommended the same length of time, and to go away somewhere special, I followed her advice. We’ve been married for 25 years.

Are you a man or a woman ? I am F and 3 months seem excessive to me. Max 2 in modern dating

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sheathe not sneathe. Took me a minute to find. You like that?

It was a typo. Yes, they are great . Both on a real P and on a toy.

Size is not an issue at all !! People just have terrible sex Ed

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was a virgin until I was 21 and still very much a prude after that so it took plenty of dates before I was willing to have sex. Looking back I regret my hesitancy especially while in college as I missed out on a lot of fun. I had sex with my now husband on our first date as I had known him for awhile and I just decided to go for it. I definitely was the aggressor which I’m sure surprised him.

I was pretty prudish too with my only am I crazy experience being with my now DH. We had been good friends for a couple of years and one day I asked him if I could come over to his place to do my laundry given my washer was broken. So I brought my laundry and dinner for the two of us over to his place and I had plenty of clothes for the next morning. Many years later we still laugh about how easy I was but he was pretty easy too.

[Anonymous]

Really depends on how much I can find out about his personal wealth and family background.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not sure if age matters for this and know it varies by person, but is it crazy to ask a girl back to my place after the first date if it’s going well? Feels risky, but I don’t personally have any hang ups around it. And I’m definitely someone that really values chemistry in the bedroom.

No do not do this.