Dating Divorced Older Men

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm also 50, overweight, and more men fall in love with me than is appropriate. I certainly wouldn't expect it given cultural expectations about men, women's weight, and so on. I don't think the statements in this thread about the "commodity trading" ethos on dating apps really get at what goes on with many middle-aged people who are grappling with their life, their purpose, their legacy. This thread misses all of that.

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[Anonymous]

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Your post is so funny . . . I guess it is a matter of perspective. There are so many successful woman to date in the DC area that you would gain half of their retirement if you divorced after marriage. And it would be much more than 400k.

Way to miss the point, genius. The number of such "successful women" in DC is way smaller than the number of potential gold-diggers. And $400k might mean nothing to you, but I'll be damned if I'll sign a piece of paper that puts it at risk when there is absolutely no positive reason to do so.

Yep. I have run into very few divorced women in their 50s who have their financial house in order.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Many 50 yeard old men are not FWB material.

Many 50+ women are fat, sagging, wrinkled, not worth FWB.

This is me! Yet, men are coming out of the woodwork to climb into my hole. I don't get it.

It’s news to you that men will say yes to easy pussy if it is available?

Some men say yes to easy pussy. I don't. I respect myself too much to be with a fat woman.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:
Your post is so funny . . . I guess it is a matter of perspective. There are so many successful woman to date in the DC area that you would gain half of their retirement if you divorced after marriage. And it would be much more than 400k.

Way to miss the point, genius. The number of such "successful women" in DC is way smaller than the number of potential gold-diggers. And $400k might mean nothing to you, but I'll be damned if I'll sign a piece of paper that puts it at risk when there is absolutely no positive reason to do so.

Yep. I have run into very few divorced women in their 50s who have their financial house in order.

You are hanging with the wrong crowd.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Your post is so funny . . . I guess it is a matter of perspective. There are so many successful woman to date in the DC area that you would gain half of their retirement if you divorced after marriage. And it would be much more than 400k.

Way to miss the point, genius. The number of such "successful women" in DC is way smaller than the number of potential gold-diggers. And $400k might mean nothing to you, but I'll be damned if I'll sign a piece of paper that puts it at risk when there is absolutely no positive reason to do so.

Yep. I have run into very few divorced women in their 50s who have their financial house in order.

You are hanging with the wrong crowd.

agreed. he's got too many divorced women in his life. He's right.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Your post is so funny . . . I guess it is a matter of perspective. There are so many successful woman to date in the DC area that you would gain half of their retirement if you divorced after marriage. And it would be much more than 400k.

Way to miss the point, genius. The number of such "successful women" in DC is way smaller than the number of potential gold-diggers. And $400k might mean nothing to you, but I'll be damned if I'll sign a piece of paper that puts it at risk when there is absolutely no positive reason to do so.

Yep. I have run into very few divorced women in their 50s who have their financial house in order.

You are hanging with the wrong crowd.

I agree.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Many 50 yeard old men are not FWB material.

Many 50+ women are fat, sagging, wrinkled, not worth FWB.

This is me! Yet, men are coming out of the woodwork to climb into my hole. I don't get it.

It’s news to you that men will say yes to easy pussy if it is available?

Some men say yes to easy pussy. I don't. I respect myself too much to be with a fat woman.

SO much wrong with this statement, feel sorry for any woman that ends up saddled with you