| NFW |
| No. He is damaged. He has psychological issues. |
| Is he primarily a "bottom"? From what I understand, most gay guys are bottoms, or generally lean that way. Gay guys who are true "total tops" are relatively rare and are likely to be bi. If he was primarily a top, he might be sexually compatible with a woman. A man who is primarily a bottom is probably going to have trouble feeling satisfied with a woman. |
Maybe. But if we went by that criteria, anyone who was ever abused or had a difficult life would be off-limits. |
I love my good friends who are also gay. I would never date a man who was gay or bisexual. It has nothing to do with hate or ignorance. What is ignorant is you pretending that most women would have no issues dating or marrying a bisexual man. |
Who is claiming that? Pps response had nothing to do with not wanting to date a bi man and everything to do with hate and ignorance. Saying I wouldn’t want to date a bi man is far different from using terms like sodomized and saying you wouldn’t respect a gay man as a man. Finally, a sure way to identify yourself as a racist or homophobe is to claim you have many friends of x minority while making your disgusting statements and claims that have no basis in what was actually said. |
Cool it. Shouting homophobia hardly helps your cause. Your last comment is the typical refuge of the childish mind. It’s trite and nonsensical. Plenty of gay men wouldn’t date bisexuals either. Are they homophobic? Most people do not have complicated sexuality or sexual interests despite what some on here want to believe. |
Are you stupid or are you dumb? Maybe Fox News is on too loud in the background and you are having trouble comprehending what you are reading... 1. Never said you or anyone else needs to date a bisexual person 2. You are a homophobe because of the language you used. Your language makes it clear your disgust and ignorance for gay people. |
Some gay men, especially older ones, dislike bi men. I think this is partly because men used to come out as “bi” to avoid being gay. But in 2018, it is more socially acceptable to be gay than bi and has been for some time. Gays are accepted as long as the stay in their lane. Bis don’t really have a lane and are not really accepted by gays or straights. |
DP here, and new to this thread. I just highlighted the "language [you] used." What of that is homophobic? |
Also a DP and new to this thread. You didn’t got far enough up for the homophobic language. It’s in the very top quote: “I can’t imagine being attracted to a man who’s been voluntarily sodomized. I could never take him seriously as a man.” |
People say that homophobia is fake, but it’s really not. And, as long as he does feel attracted to women, it’s fine. |
| Hell no! |
Biphobia is more prevalent and socially acceptable
-monogamous Bisexual |
How is it hateful to be repelled by a man having receptive anal sex? Some people are repelled by some sex acts. That’s their right. |