What goes through a man’s mind when he sees a woman he’s attracted to?

[Anonymous]

Does her lingerie match?

If not I don’t waste my time.

[Anonymous]

If she has a tight, firm butt, I’m all in.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:There is a woman I've had a crush on for months. Every time I look at her I wonder what she looks like naked, what she tastes like, her favorite position and other things I won't share on this forum.

Someday we will be together...

Were you thinking about this while both of you were on the metro platform, by chance?

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Is she workin' a big old hairy coot? #WoolyMammoth

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Women, do you mind that every time your DH or boyfriend sees another woman he is imagining what she looks like naked? As a man, I don't have any problems with my wife imagining what another man looks like nude. I assume everyone does it and it's healthy.

Yes. I do have a problem with it. I don’t really like to think about my husband fantasizing about having sex with other women all day long, and I don’t like thinking that he is imagining I am one of his co-workers when we are having sex.

I agree, it's gross. I get that it's normal and healthy and all, but it makes me never want to have sex ever again. Blech.

+1

Agree. Huge turn off. Don’t know if “all men” think like this but it’s just creepy and disgusting.

So we can assume that neither you nor the pp you quote ever fantasize or imagine sex with other men?

PP here. I don't fantasize about other men when I'm in a relationship, I am always 100% into my partner. I'd be very hurt if I knew they were fantasizing about other women or pretending I was another woman.

Sort of like, if a man took a woman on a nice vacation that he planned and paid for, and the entire time she secretly wished she were with a richer guy who could afford a better vacation.

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Anonymous wrote:Women, do you mind that every time your DH or boyfriend sees another woman he is imagining what she looks like naked? As a man, I don't have any problems with my wife imagining what another man looks like nude. I assume everyone does it and it's healthy.

Yes. I do have a problem with it. I don’t really like to think about my husband fantasizing about having sex with other women all day long, and I don’t like thinking that he is imagining I am one of his co-workers when we are having sex.

I agree, it's gross. I get that it's normal and healthy and all, but it makes me never want to have sex ever again. Blech.

+1

Agree. Huge turn off. Don’t know if “all men” think like this but it’s just creepy and disgusting.

So we can assume that neither you nor the pp you quote ever fantasize or imagine sex with other men?

PP here. I don't fantasize about other men when I'm in a relationship, I am always 100% into my partner. I'd be very hurt if I knew they were fantasizing about other women or pretending I was another woman.

Sort of like, if a man took a woman on a nice vacation that he planned and paid for, and the entire time she secretly wished she were with a richer guy who could afford a better vacation.

Please stop using the word "fantasize". That's not what men are talking about. It's just a quick (few seconds) thought about what she would look like naked. It's really not a big deal. Also, I don't really care what a woman secretly wishes for. I can't stop her from thinking that. Everyone secretly wishes they had more (bigger wedding ring, bigger house, etc.) but we have to live in reality. Let me guess, you probably think you're the most attractive woman your husband or BF ever met.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If she has a tight, firm butt, I’m all in.

Yep. And with so many women wearing tight jeans and yoga pants, there's not too much to guess about. It's right there in front of you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Women, do you mind that every time your DH or boyfriend sees another woman he is imagining what she looks like naked? As a man, I don't have any problems with my wife imagining what another man looks like nude. I assume everyone does it and it's healthy.

Yes. I do have a problem with it. I don’t really like to think about my husband fantasizing about having sex with other women all day long, and I don’t like thinking that he is imagining I am one of his co-workers when we are having sex.

Then text him your boobs while he's at work, and a hint of what you'd like to do to him when he gets home. This really is simple.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If she has a tight, firm butt, I’m all in.

Same here. If she has a nice butt, the rest seems to fall into place. Butt...that's just me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Woman here, this is intriguing, slightly alarming, but mostly intriguing.

So is it safe to assume that the amount of looks women receive from men on a daily basis are all related to sexual thoughts??

Yes. 100% of the men you get looks from are thinking sexual thoughts. Also 100% of the men you DON'T get looks from are also thinking sexual thoughts.

How old are you? And really this is all news to you?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Woman here, this is intriguing, slightly alarming, but mostly intriguing.

So is it safe to assume that the amount of looks women receive from men on a daily basis are all related to sexual thoughts??

Yes. 100% of the men you get looks from are thinking sexual thoughts. Also 100% of the men you DON'T get looks from are also thinking sexual thoughts.

How old are you? And really this is all news to you?

Are you serious? I’m not the PP your replying to, but I have extreme difficulties wrapping my head around this. This is news to me.

So what you’re trying to say is any man who looks at a woman, is thinking sexual thoughts about her? Bizarre.

Can a few men here, please confirm if this is true, for the sake of my sanity?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you serious? I’m not the PP your replying to, but I have extreme difficulties wrapping my head around this. This is news to me.

So what you’re trying to say is any man who looks at a woman, is thinking sexual thoughts about her? Bizarre.

Can a few men here, please confirm if this is true, for the sake of my sanity?

My answer:

If you are attractive, yes.

If you are not attractive, no.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Are you serious? I’m not the PP your replying to, but I have extreme difficulties wrapping my head around this. This is news to me.

So what you’re trying to say is any man who looks at a woman, is thinking sexual thoughts about her? Bizarre.

Can a few men here, please confirm if this is true, for the sake of my sanity?

My answer:

If you are attractive, yes.

If you are not attractive, no.

I agree. It doesn’t mean we will try to make it happen in real life though.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you serious? I’m not the PP your replying to, but I have extreme difficulties wrapping my head around this. This is news to me.

So what you’re trying to say is any man who looks at a woman, is thinking sexual thoughts about her? Bizarre.

Can a few men here, please confirm if this is true, for the sake of my sanity?

My answer:

If you are attractive, yes.

If you are not attractive, no.

I agree. It doesn’t mean we will try to make it happen in real life though.

This and this.

[Anonymous]

So is you are married to an attractive woman, does it bother you that every man you encounter us thinking about having sex with her? That would bother me for sure.