What goes through a man’s mind when he sees a woman he’s attracted to?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I feel bad for whoever this older male poster is. He needs to let it go.

I'd bet good money he doesn't even get laid.

You'd lose your money. Do you really think it's hard for an older man in this area to get laid? As I said, I'm thankful for the daddy issues or whatever the reason so many younger woman like older guys. They are NOT hard to find. Not around here anyway. Don't know about the rest of the country.

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Anonymous wrote:The thing men seem to overlook is that they hit the wall just as hard, and then they are equally as invisible and irrelevant to those hot young women.

Nah. The things that make men attractive - wealth and status - improve with age, and compensate for any decline in looks. Any decline in male looks is easily mitigated at the gym - it's mainly a matter of not being weak and fat.

Meanwhile, the thing that makes women attractive - their looks - declines with age in an inevitable and irreversible way. Sad!

Lol! If you really believe this, you are sadly mistaken. Old men are old men, whether or not they hit the gym, and for the most part unattractive. As for money, very very few men have the type of wealth to attract younger women, and those who do are just being used for their money while their hot young wives bang younger, hotter men who can still get it up without a pill on the side. Sad!

Don't forget the minority of younger women with Daddy issues. They are out there for the taking if you're a reasonably attractive middle-aged man.

That's sort of like....bragging about how you get to eat at Michelin restaurants....by raiding their dumpsters after closing. Sure, it's better than McDonald's, but you're still a dumpster diver eating garbage.

Nice assumption that these women are "garbage". Misogyny much? Their choices about whom they find attractive and date are just as valid as any other woman's.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The thing men seem to overlook is that they hit the wall just as hard, and then they are equally as invisible and irrelevant to those hot young women.

Nah. The things that make men attractive - wealth and status - improve with age, and compensate for any decline in looks. Any decline in male looks is easily mitigated at the gym - it's mainly a matter of not being weak and fat.

Meanwhile, the thing that makes women attractive - their looks - declines with age in an inevitable and irreversible way. Sad!

Lol! If you really believe this, you are sadly mistaken. Old men are old men, whether or not they hit the gym, and for the most part unattractive. As for money, very very few men have the type of wealth to attract younger women, and those who do are just being used for their money while their hot young wives bang younger, hotter men who can still get it up without a pill on the side. Sad!

Don't forget the minority of younger women with Daddy issues. They are out there for the taking if you're a reasonably attractive middle-aged man.

LOL at the aging, jealous women who always say that younger women are only attracted to older men if the younger women are after money or have "daddy issues". Meow, meow, hiss, hiss! You don't know what you're talking about, and your motives are transparent. Sad!

Sounds like you are having experiences with other species here, but. Weird.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I've been reading this thread and still can't believe that this is a surprise. It might not be the best thing to hear but come on people, where have you been?

We’ve been busy being women who don’t think this way— that’s where we’ve been. Duh.

His thread is about what men think. Not what women think. I don’t find it a surprise or offensive. I’m shocked that there are so many clueless women chiming in. It’s biology, and feminism (and I am a proud feminist) doesn’t change evolutionary biology. I am happy to let men be men.

[Anonymous]

I’m a woman and I look at men and immediately wonder if he’s good in bed. Hands tell me all I need to know. I think it’s pretty normal/human nature to have sex fantasies throughout the day. Sometimes, an interesting (beautiful or not)female will cross my mind and I’ll fantasize about 3sone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman and I look at men and immediately wonder if he’s good in bed. Hands tell me all I need to know. I think it’s pretty normal/human nature to have sex fantasies throughout the day. Sometimes, an interesting (beautiful or not)female will cross my mind and I’ll fantasize about 3sone.

I think you posted this in the wrong thread but I enjoyed reading it regardless. Want to look at my hands?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If he’s attracted to her he’s probably wondering, or imagining, what she looks like naked.
You asked.

This. Mentally undress immediately.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If he’s attracted to her he’s probably wondering, or imagining, what she looks like naked.
You asked.

This. Mentally undress immediately.

Not me! 95% of people don't look good naked. My thought might include her being naked!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman and I look at men and immediately wonder if he’s good in bed. Hands tell me all I need to know. I think it’s pretty normal/human nature to have sex fantasies throughout the day. Sometimes, an interesting (beautiful or not)female will cross my mind and I’ll fantasize about 3sone.

Most women don’t have sex fantasies though. This is why they are so scandalized over the idea that most men are thinking about sex with most women most of the time.

Funny that women are said to be the perceptive / empathetic gender because it’s really shocking how many women did not realize the most basic, defining fact about 50% of the earth population.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman and I look at men and immediately wonder if he’s good in bed. Hands tell me all I need to know. I think it’s pretty normal/human nature to have sex fantasies throughout the day. Sometimes, an interesting (beautiful or not)female will cross my mind and I’ll fantasize about 3sone.

Most women don’t have sex fantasies though. This is why they are so scandalized over the idea that most men are thinking about sex with most women most of the time.

Funny that women are said to be the perceptive / empathetic gender because it’s really shocking how many women did not realize the most basic, defining fact about 50% of the earth population.

Um, what? This is not accurate. At all.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman and I look at men and immediately wonder if he’s good in bed. Hands tell me all I need to know. I think it’s pretty normal/human nature to have sex fantasies throughout the day. Sometimes, an interesting (beautiful or not)female will cross my mind and I’ll fantasize about 3sone.

Most women don’t have sex fantasies though. This is why they are so scandalized over the idea that most men are thinking about sex with most women most of the time.

Funny that women are said to be the perceptive / empathetic gender because it’s really shocking how many women did not realize the most basic, defining fact about 50% of the earth population.

Um, what? This is not accurate. At all.

A once per month fleeting notion during the peak of your cycle does not really count.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman and I look at men and immediately wonder if he’s good in bed. Hands tell me all I need to know. I think it’s pretty normal/human nature to have sex fantasies throughout the day. Sometimes, an interesting (beautiful or not)female will cross my mind and I’ll fantasize about 3sone.

Most women don’t have sex fantasies though. This is why they are so scandalized over the idea that most men are thinking about sex with most women most of the time.

Funny that women are said to be the perceptive / empathetic gender because it’s really shocking how many women did not realize the most basic, defining fact about 50% of the earth population.

Um, what? This is not accurate. At all.

A once per month fleeting notion during the peak of your cycle does not really count.

Look, I'm sorry that women don't like you, but the fact that women enjoy, pursue, and think about sex is extensively documented in research.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman and I look at men and immediately wonder if he’s good in bed. Hands tell me all I need to know. I think it’s pretty normal/human nature to have sex fantasies throughout the day. Sometimes, an interesting (beautiful or not)female will cross my mind and I’ll fantasize about 3sone.

Most women don’t have sex fantasies though. This is why they are so scandalized over the idea that most men are thinking about sex with most women most of the time.

Funny that women are said to be the perceptive / empathetic gender because it’s really shocking how many women did not realize the most basic, defining fact about 50% of the earth population.

Um, what? This is not accurate. At all.

A once per month fleeting notion during the peak of your cycle does not really count.

Look, I'm sorry that women don't like you, but the fact that women enjoy, pursue, and think about sex is extensively documented in research.

Female here, and I am in the once per month fleeting crowd. I find men attractive, but I simply do not think about sex when I look at them, like almost never.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman and I look at men and immediately wonder if he’s good in bed. Hands tell me all I need to know. I think it’s pretty normal/human nature to have sex fantasies throughout the day. Sometimes, an interesting (beautiful or not)female will cross my mind and I’ll fantasize about 3sone.

Most women don’t have sex fantasies though. This is why they are so scandalized over the idea that most men are thinking about sex with most women most of the time.

Funny that women are said to be the perceptive / empathetic gender because it’s really shocking how many women did not realize the most basic, defining fact about 50% of the earth population.

Um, what? This is not accurate. At all.

A once per month fleeting notion during the peak of your cycle does not really count.

Look, I'm sorry that women don't like you, but the fact that women enjoy, pursue, and think about sex is extensively documented in research.

Female here, and I am in the once per month fleeting crowd. I find men attractive, but I simply do not think about sex when I look at them, like almost never.

K, well, I am a woman and I'm definitely in the multiple times an hour category and always have been-- there are extremes on both ends. Some women have hormonal issues just like some men do, but that's not the norm.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman and I look at men and immediately wonder if he’s good in bed. Hands tell me all I need to know. I think it’s pretty normal/human nature to have sex fantasies throughout the day. Sometimes, an interesting (beautiful or not)female will cross my mind and I’ll fantasize about 3sone.

Most women don’t have sex fantasies though. This is why they are so scandalized over the idea that most men are thinking about sex with most women most of the time.

Funny that women are said to be the perceptive / empathetic gender because it’s really shocking how many women did not realize the most basic, defining fact about 50% of the earth population.

Um, what? This is not accurate. At all.

A once per month fleeting notion during the peak of your cycle does not really count.

Look, I'm sorry that women don't like you, but the fact that women enjoy, pursue, and think about sex is extensively documented in research.

Female here, and I am in the once per month fleeting crowd. I find men attractive, but I simply do not think about sex when I look at them, like almost never.

K, well, I am a woman and I'm definitely in the multiple times an hour category and always have been-- there are extremes on both ends. Some women have hormonal issues just like some men do, but that's not the norm.

Definitely the norm for married mothers (ie the DCUM demographic). Any research to the contrary must be overly represented by women trying to secure a mate (which obviously does not happen if you reveal once-per-month fleeting notion). Sorry you did not realize how above normal you (11:37) are for a female.