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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women, do you mind that every time your DH or boyfriend sees another woman he is imagining what she looks like naked? As a man, I don't have any problems with my wife imagining what another man looks like nude. I assume everyone does it and it's healthy.[/quote]

Yes.  I do have a problem with it.  I don’t really like to think about my husband fantasizing about having sex with other women all day long, and I don’t like thinking that he is imagining I am one of his co-workers when we are having sex. [/quote]

I agree, it's gross. I get that it's normal and healthy and all, but it makes me never want to have sex ever again. Blech. [/quote]

Agree.  Huge turn off.  Don’t know if “all men” think like this but it’s just creepy and disgusting.  [/quote]

So we can assume that neither you nor the pp you quote ever fantasize or imagine sex with other men?  [/quote]

PP here. I don't fantasize about other men when I'm in a relationship, I am always 100% into my partner. I'd be very hurt if I knew they were fantasizing about other women or pretending I was another woman.

Sort of like, if a man took a woman on a nice vacation that he planned and paid for, and the entire time she secretly wished she were with a richer guy who could afford a better vacation. [/quote]
Please stop using the word "fantasize". That's not what men are talking about. It's just a quick (few seconds) thought about what she would look like naked. It's really not a big deal. Also, I don't really care what a woman secretly wishes for. I can't stop her from thinking that. Everyone secretly wishes they had more (bigger wedding ring, bigger house, etc.) but we have to live in reality. Let me guess, you probably think you're the most attractive woman your husband or BF ever met.[/quote]

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