Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He can get as mad as he wants....fuss + fume away, but it was wrong of him to involve the kids.
They are not pawns that he can use for his power trip. Temper tantrums are for little boys.
Let him cool down and yourself as well.
Then if he still doesn't "get" how important it is for you to have some down time every now & then, tell him you will hire a 1-2x week babysitter and he will pay for it.
She should pay for it. Wait- she can't. Ask your husband, OP, or get a job.