Do you think having sex on the same bed while 13mo child is sleeping consider child abused?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am the poster who called out the woman on the other thread for being a child abuser for having sex with her 13 mo in the bed.

First, I have no problem with people being naked in front of their children, etc.

However, why in the hell would ANYONE think this is appropriate behavior for parents. I do not care if your child is a newborn or 10 years old, its completely inappropriate.

I actually think the other woman was bragging about it. Like it was cool they did this. Exposing a child to a sexual act whether you are their parents or not is child abuse and I am horrified that I even stooped to the level of having to type this.

All time low for DCUM on this one.

And to the OP- obviously you know there is something wrong with this because you started a thread about it. Had I just been some "crazy lady" you would not think twice about this huh?

Anyone who can justify this is horrible. I am no prude and my sex life is perfect but I have no need to risk any exposure of it to my kids.

I'll tell you "why in the hell" I would find having sex with a newborn in the bed totally fine: because my newborn was getting poked in the head by his dad's dick just a few weeks prior to him being a newborn. Oh, and we didn't just have sex with baby in the same bed, but with baby in the same BODY! Can you believe it? How perverted and abusive are we? Please call CPS now!

Wow I truly hope you were drunk or high when you posted. You are one f-ed up woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am the poster who called out the woman on the other thread for being a child abuser for having sex with her 13 mo in the bed.

First, I have no problem with people being naked in front of their children, etc.

However, why in the hell would ANYONE think this is appropriate behavior for parents. I do not care if your child is a newborn or 10 years old, its completely inappropriate.

I actually think the other woman was bragging about it. Like it was cool they did this. Exposing a child to a sexual act whether you are their parents or not is child abuse and I am horrified that I even stooped to the level of having to type this.

All time low for DCUM on this one.

And to the OP- obviously you know there is something wrong with this because you started a thread about it. Had I just been some "crazy lady" you would not think twice about this huh?

Anyone who can justify this is horrible. I am no prude and my sex life is perfect but I have no need to risk any exposure of it to my kids.

I'll tell you "why in the hell" I would find having sex with a newborn in the bed totally fine: because my newborn was getting poked in the head by his dad's dick just a few weeks prior to him being a newborn. Oh, and we didn't just have sex with baby in the same bed, but with baby in the same BODY! Can you believe it? How perverted and abusive are we? Please call CPS now!

Wow I truly hope you were drunk or high when you posted. You are one f-ed up woman.

So you don't think a pregnant woman should have sex? I think we need a spin off thread folks!

For all of the posters calling it gross, filthy, etc. Are you really adults? I think we have been invaded by a bunch of 12-13 year olds who can't fathom married people with kids having sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:P.S. 13 months does NOT qualify as a new born to watch your nasty acts - and I am sure at that age your child is more than well aware of the filthy mouth you are sharing on the internet.

Once again, congratulations Mother of the Year. Hope you are proud!!!

Can we all please start listing our religion and how dedicated/involved in it we are when we post our opinion about this topic?

The way you used the words "nasty" and "filthy" leads me to believe you are Christian and conservative.

I'm not the poster, but please don't slander all Christians. I don't think sex is nasty or filthy, but a gift from God.

[Anonymous]

Second mandated reporter PP back online.

Look I get that people hunk the situation described is not a good parenting choice. What my colleague and I were trying to convey was that there are a lot of bad parenting choices that do not rise to the level of "child abuse" as an actionable issue. It's not about excusing it because it's a good decision or callig family services because it's abuse. There are a variety of things that in my family are not acceptable, that I do not think are appropriate parenting choices (spanking being the main thing that came to mind). However, in other families, that's an acceptable discipline choice and the law says that provided the spanking does not exceed certain guidelines, it shall not be deemed child abuse. You can agree or disagree, but my point was that in the universe of sex abuse, what was described is the swat on the butt that many on this forum consider a valid disciplinary action.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am the poster who called out the woman on the other thread for being a child abuser for having sex with her 13 mo in the bed.

First, I have no problem with people being naked in front of their children, etc.

However, why in the hell would ANYONE think this is appropriate behavior for parents. I do not care if your child is a newborn or 10 years old, its completely inappropriate.

I actually think the other woman was bragging about it. Like it was cool they did this. Exposing a child to a sexual act whether you are their parents or not is child abuse and I am horrified that I even stooped to the level of having to type this.

All time low for DCUM on this one.

And to the OP- obviously you know there is something wrong with this because you started a thread about it. Had I just been some "crazy lady" you would not think twice about this huh?

Anyone who can justify this is horrible. I am no prude and my sex life is perfect but I have no need to risk any exposure of it to my kids.

I'll tell you "why in the hell" I would find having sex with a newborn in the bed totally fine: because my newborn was getting poked in the head by his dad's dick just a few weeks prior to him being a newborn. Oh, and we didn't just have sex with baby in the same bed, but with baby in the same BODY! Can you believe it? How perverted and abusive are we? Please call CPS now!

Wow I truly hope you were drunk or high when you posted. You are one f-ed up woman.

So you don't think a pregnant woman should have sex? I think we need a spin off thread folks!

For all of the posters calling it gross, filthy, etc. Are you really adults? I think we have been invaded by a bunch of 12-13 year olds who can't fathom married people with kids having sex.

No you idiot. I dont think its necessary to write about having your husbands dick hit your babys head when you are having sex. What is wrong with you people? Are you this nasty in real life as well or just on the internet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am the poster who called out the woman on the other thread for being a child abuser for having sex with her 13 mo in the bed.

First, I have no problem with people being naked in front of their children, etc.

However, why in the hell would ANYONE think this is appropriate behavior for parents. I do not care if your child is a newborn or 10 years old, its completely inappropriate.

I actually think the other woman was bragging about it. Like it was cool they did this. Exposing a child to a sexual act whether you are their parents or not is child abuse and I am horrified that I even stooped to the level of having to type this.

All time low for DCUM on this one.

And to the OP- obviously you know there is something wrong with this because you started a thread about it. Had I just been some "crazy lady" you would not think twice about this huh?

Anyone who can justify this is horrible. I am no prude and my sex life is perfect but I have no need to risk any exposure of it to my kids.

I'll tell you "why in the hell" I would find having sex with a newborn in the bed totally fine: because my newborn was getting poked in the head by his dad's dick just a few weeks prior to him being a newborn. Oh, and we didn't just have sex with baby in the same bed, but with baby in the same BODY! Can you believe it? How perverted and abusive are we? Please call CPS now!

Wow I truly hope you were drunk or high when you posted. You are one f-ed up woman.

So you don't think a pregnant woman should have sex? I think we need a spin off thread folks!

For all of the posters calling it gross, filthy, etc. Are you really adults? I think we have been invaded by a bunch of 12-13 year olds who can't fathom married people with kids having sex.

Sex while pregnant is not filthy. Your language is gross and filthy. Getting poked in the head by dad's dick? Really? Is that how it works, huh? I think you are a 13 yr old.

[Anonymous]

Inappropriate and weird, but not child abuse. If the child was 5 and they made him watch, sure, child abuse.

You realize that for most of human history (and even now, outside of wealthy societies like ours, which are in the minority) entire families used to share one room? Not mucb privacy with that. Humanity survived.

Would I want to hang out with someone who discussed that they did that sort of thing? No, for many reasons. Do I think that this is a good idea? No. I am sure the person does not live their whole life in one room. Do I think it's something reportable and prosecutable? No.

[Anonymous]

Technically the husband's dick isn't anywhere near the baby's head...there's a thick cervix in between them, not to mention and aminotic sac and fluid. The fetus has no idea what is going on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am the poster who called out the woman on the other thread for being a child abuser for having sex with her 13 mo in the bed.

First, I have no problem with people being naked in front of their children, etc.

However, why in the hell would ANYONE think this is appropriate behavior for parents. I do not care if your child is a newborn or 10 years old, its completely inappropriate.

I actually think the other woman was bragging about it. Like it was cool they did this. Exposing a child to a sexual act whether you are their parents or not is child abuse and I am horrified that I even stooped to the level of having to type this.

All time low for DCUM on this one.

And to the OP- obviously you know there is something wrong with this because you started a thread about it. Had I just been some "crazy lady" you would not think twice about this huh?

Anyone who can justify this is horrible. I am no prude and my sex life is perfect but I have no need to risk any exposure of it to my kids.

I'll tell you "why in the hell" I would find having sex with a newborn in the bed totally fine: because my newborn was getting poked in the head by his dad's dick just a few weeks prior to him being a newborn. Oh, and we didn't just have sex with baby in the same bed, but with baby in the same BODY! Can you believe it? How perverted and abusive are we? Please call CPS now!

Your knowledge of human anatomy is...interesting. Psst, this is not how it works, even when you are nine months pregnant. If your husband's appendages of any sort can touch the baby's head in utero, you have much bigger problems than CPS. See a doctor ASAP. Also, NASA since you are possibly an alien.

[Anonymous]

I'm quite willing to bet PP knows anatomy and was exaggerating for effect. Looks like it worked.

[Anonymous]

I'd say inappropriate and a bad parenting choice. (I mean how many of us are actually in huts, PP?) But not abusive - at most you'd scare your baby if s/he woke up. That said, I really cannot fathom why anyone would have sex with baby in the *same bed* given that 99% of the PPs likely have a sofa in another room (and probably another bed somewhere in the house).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm quite willing to bet PP knows anatomy and was exaggerating for effect. Looks like it worked.

Dont care. Who the hell thinks thats funny to write...like a pp said a 12 or 13 year-old thats who. Thats just disturbing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd say inappropriate and a bad parenting choice. (I mean how many of us are actually in huts, PP?) But not abusive - at most you'd scare your baby if s/he woke up. That said, I really cannot fathom why anyone would have sex with baby in the *same bed* given that 99% of the PPs likely have a sofa in another room (and probably another bed somewhere in the house).

I spoke with my DH about this thread last night and he thinks couples who do this actually "get off" on the fact they have the kid in the bed. Thats what makes this so sick to me. Most people would not even be able to get in the mood with a child in the bed...let alone in the same room.

[Anonymous]

There's a movie with Diane Keaton like this where she loses custody of her (older) daughter. I forget the name, it was made in the 80s late 80s I believe.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd say inappropriate and a bad parenting choice. (I mean how many of us are actually in huts, PP?) But not abusive - at most you'd scare your baby if s/he woke up. That said, I really cannot fathom why anyone would have sex with baby in the *same bed* given that 99% of the PPs likely have a sofa in another room (and probably another bed somewhere in the house).

I spoke with my DH about this thread last night and he thinks couples who do this actually "get off" on the fact they have the kid in the bed. Thats what makes this so sick to me. Most people would not even be able to get in the mood with a child in the bed...let alone in the same room.

Something tells me you guys don't cosleep.