Do you think having sex on the same bed while 13mo child is sleeping consider child abused?

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Anonymous wrote:I'm more disturbed a 13 mo old is still co sleeping in parents' bed. Cut the apron strings and move the kid to his/her own crib already.

I am sure in other countries that other PP mentioned, 5 year old kid still sleep with their parents because they don't have rooms for everyone. Their house is one big room you can see from the door to the end of the house.

Sorry, off topic..

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Anonymous wrote:You people are just sick saying that an infant who cannot even speak yet can possibly fathom that intercourse is happening and/or gives a shit. Grow up and to each his own, do what makes you comfortable and stay out of others business.

A 13 month old is not an infant. Mine has words and mimics much of what she sees. She is like sponge taking in everything around her. She isn't some inanimate brainless blob.

How about while she's asleep?

Let's be serious, a 13 month old who still cosleeps isn't a good sleeper. Probably wakes up 6 times a night to breastfeed only to find the boob in dad's mouth.

Bad assumption and ugly post.

1) Not all baby is good sleeper, even some adults.
2) Cosleeping isn't necessary involving breastfeeding.
3) If they baby woke up that often, they were probably both deadly tired and want sleep more than sex.

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Anonymous wrote:You people are just sick saying that an infant who cannot even speak yet can possibly fathom that intercourse is happening and/or gives a shit. Grow up and to each his own, do what makes you comfortable and stay out of others business.

A 13 month old is not an infant. Mine has words and mimics much of what she sees. She is like sponge taking in everything around her. She isn't some inanimate brainless blob.

How about while she's asleep?

Let's be serious, a 13 month old who still cosleeps isn't a good sleeper. Probably wakes up 6 times a night to breastfeed only to find the boob in dad's mouth.

Bad assumption and ugly post.

1) Not all baby is good sleeper, even some adults.
2) Cosleeping isn't necessary involving breastfeeding.
3) If they baby woke up that often, they were probably both deadly tired and want sleep more than sex.

Learned verb tenses will make take serious more.

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Anonymous wrote:"Forms of CSA include asking or pressuring a child to engage in sexual activities (regardless of the outcome), indecent exposure of the genitals to a child, [\b] displaying pornography to a child, actual sexual contact with a child, physical contact with the child's genitals, viewing of the child's genitalia without physical contact, or using a child to produce child pornography."

I think having sex in front of a child qualifies as [b]indecent exposure.

This. NO matter what age.

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Anonymous wrote:Get real people. Before you all had 6000sf homes, generations have been living in one room huts. Parents have been fucking in front of sleeping kids for ages.

And, as noted, they live in native huts. They probably wipe with their hands and don't use cutlery either.

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Anonymous wrote:Get real people. Before you all had 6000sf homes, generations have been living in one room huts. Parents have been fucking in front of sleeping kids for ages.

And, as noted, they live in native huts. They probably wipe with their hands and don't use cutlery either.

This post offends me more than posts about sex with children sleeping in the same room.

[Anonymous]

Holy Puritans. No, it's not abuse. In most of the world, it's totally normal.

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If the child is sleeping and is not aware that the parents are having sex - it would be a moot point. No?

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Anonymous wrote:Holy Puritans. No, it's not abuse. In most of the world, it's totally normal.

THIS!

Also, this pales in comparison to real abuse. Actually this is insulting to victims of real abuse to equate this with child abuse. Holy moly!

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No, absolutely nothing wrong with it.

Indecent exposure is an act designed to titillate - that's not what's going on when the baby is sleeping.

[Anonymous]

Good for OP! I have a 16 month old and DH and I have had sex all of twice since he's been born. So having sex with a baby on the bed is better than us. Having no sex and marching towards depression/divorce.