WWYD - DH's Ex-Mistress Sent Him "I Miss You" Email

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Transparency schmarency
Not giving you my passwords if you need security hire a bodyguard don't spy on me

Good heavens, why would anyone want your passwords? You sound like someone who is incapable of having a healthy relationship. Good luck with that.

[Anonymous]

If my DH cheated on me for three weeks or three months and came clean, I could try marriage counseling. If he carried on an affair for FIVE YEARS, that is such a long time to say it was a mistake. I can't imagine a marriage surviving that. I give you credit for trying but I would always feel that I was being deceived.

[Anonymous]

And he only stopped bc she found out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And he only stopped bc she found out.

Sadly, that's the way it usually happens. Very few cheaters come clean without a confrontation. That unfortunate reality stacks the deck against most recovery efforts, which is why so many infidelities end in divorce. Good luck to OP.