Why Aren’t More People Getting Married? Ask Women What Dating Is Like.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you really think most men or even a significant minority of men, all other things being equal, want to:

1) raise another man's or men's child or children?

2) marry a woman in her late 30's or older?

3) do NOT want a partner who will give him time and togetherness?

4) marry an obese partner?

5) marry a partner who is in her late 30s or 40s (of the issue is people who have never previously been married)?

6) want to take the risk of marrying a possible head case woman who has never married in her late 30s or 40s?

Where are all these men then? I've never met a single one. Because they don't exist.

Why do you keep posting on here, you beat-off Trumpian loser? Very manly of you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you really think most men or even a significant minority of men, all other things being equal, want to:

1) raise another man's or men's child or children?

2) marry a woman in her late 30's or older?

3) do NOT want a partner who will give him time and togetherness?

4) marry an obese partner?

5) marry a partner who is in her late 30s or 40s (of the issue is people who have never previously been married)?

6) want to take the risk of marrying a possible head case woman who has never married in her late 30s or 40s?

Where are all these men then? I've never met a single one. Because they don't exist.

Why do you keep posting on here, you beat-off Trumpian loser? Very manly of you.

He posts facts, you post name-calling. Why do you bother posting such garbage? It only makes you look like an idiot.

[Anonymous]

I mean, no wonder our young women are exploring their sexuality and seeking out other young women as partners. Young men (as a group, not individuals) are failing at being good partners.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I mean, no wonder our young women are exploring their sexuality and seeking out other young women as partners. Young men (as a group, not individuals) are failing at being good partners.

Lol. I thought being gay wasn't a choice. Apparently it's optional after all?

You must be very homophobic if you believe people choose whether or not to be gay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many women, myself included, do not want to be married. There are many reasons. 1. I can take care of myself. 2. I do not want to take care of a man (or a woman). 3. I don't want children in this world we live in. 4. GET OVER IT!

I don't understand your reasons. I have been married for 25+ years and 1) I can take care of myself (and always did so). 2. I do not want to take care of a man (I've never done, we always had domestic help, including live in maid). 3. I live in a wonderful world and gave life to 5 amazing people.

You have a charmed life. Most marriages are not like yours. Marriage is awful for most women. Thankfully, I am divorced.

Marriage is what you make out of it. You are the one who pick your own partner. Don't pick awful partner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many women, myself included, do not want to be married. There are many reasons. 1. I can take care of myself. 2. I do not want to take care of a man (or a woman). 3. I don't want children in this world we live in. 4. GET OVER IT!

I don't understand your reasons. I have been married for 25+ years and 1) I can take care of myself (and always did so). 2. I do not want to take care of a man (I've never done, we always had domestic help, including live in maid). 3. I live in a wonderful world and gave life to 5 amazing people.

You have a charmed life. Most marriages are not like yours. Marriage is awful for most women. Thankfully, I am divorced.

Marriage is what you make out of it. You are the one who pick your own partner. Don't pick awful partner.

You don't always know in advance. Stop priding yourself on being lucky. You are not smarter than other people.

[Anonymous]

I'm the jerk / bum / douche bag who posted "the couple of points."

Here's a few points for today's man:

A good man provides. Women do not respect a man who stays at home and takes care of the kids. As Cardi B said: “Broke boys don’t deserve no pussy! I know that’s right!” Always offer to pay for your date's meal.

You have to make more money / have more intelligence or be at least as successful as the woman you want to date to be seen as "worthy." Why? Evolutionary biology. Most women do not date down. That’s why DC is full of unhappily single women, there are too many successful women who will only date successful men. (Women: I’m not telling you to date losers, but maybe your PHD in economics isn’t what will attract a mate, see my first post.) Men are very happy to date someone less successful, so that creates a glut of women who perceive themselves as being successful but having no one to go out with. The NYT article talked about women taking their PHD brag out of their online profiles. That’s why!


Sexual and personal health: People (both men and women) think they are in love if they have great sex. It’s how people are supposed to connect and find their mate. For men, strong erections means good cardiovascular health, exercise every day, eat a healthy diet, drinking moderately, no smoking, no doing drugs, and get enough sleep. Also, reduce your stress levels and don’t take anti-depressants unless you absolutely have to. Happiness and true joy are some of the best aphrodisiac. Love who you are and what you do, and you’ll be a much better lover. Finally, confidence! Most women want a man who is sexy and knows it, and can F’ her right. Self confidence is attractive in anyone.


Stop watching porn! I can’t emphasize this enough. Porn gives you a hollow fantasy world of masturbation that denies you actual love, passion, virility and emotion connection. Instead of masturbating, go make passionate love to your partner. If you need it every night, great! That’s what we are designed for. If she doesn’t want you, do better as a man and lover, or find someone who will appreciate what you bring.


Sexual intelligence: Sex is important, unfortunately many people don’t know much about how to do it right. Do some homework. Every woman is different and you get the incredible opportunity of exploring and figure out what works best. Have empathy, listen to your woman’s body, finally ask her what she wants and do it so she gets off too. You have to innovate at work, be creative in the bedroom. Have an awesome oral game (some women orgasm best this way). Sex IS NOT 2-5 minutes of humping and falling asleep. It is about building passion, foreplay, emotional connection, and tidal waves of hormonal release. Why wouldn’t you do this every night? (Because you have to watch TV or play in your phone? Grow some balls.)


Your time is valuable, don’t waste it: Computer games and social media are a stupid waste of time. You are a man! You should be exercising, having sex with your partner, or making money. If you want to be seen as a stupid child, waste your time on meaningless games.


Have basic emotional intelligence: Most women don’t like jerks. Don’t be one. The world is bigger than you. Women and men want someone who cares about them. The best relationships and sex are based on an emotional connection, rather than superficial aspects. Here’s a primer: be a loving friend to your partner; always be honest; communicate what you need / want; know when your partner is asking for help and when to just listen; don’t sweat the small stuff; show grace and forgiveness; tell/show your partner everyday how much you love them. Blam! Love! Thank me in 50 years.

[Anonymous]

Nah. You don't need to do all that stuff. It's just not that hard but you need to avoid the bitter feminists. Get you a nice girl from an intact family. A traditional girl.

It's not so much what the guy does. It's who the guy is looking to do it with. The girl has to actually like men, not resent them, and be capable of giving and receiving love. In other words s normal person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm the jerk / bum / douche bag who posted "the couple of points."

Here's a few points for today's man:

A good man provides. Women do not respect a man who stays at home and takes care of the kids. As Cardi B said: “Broke boys don’t deserve no pussy! I know that’s right!” Always offer to pay for your date's meal.

You have to make more money / have more intelligence or be at least as successful as the woman you want to date to be seen as "worthy." Why? Evolutionary biology. Most women do not date down. That’s why DC is full of unhappily single women, there are too many successful women who will only date successful men. (Women: I’m not telling you to date losers, but maybe your PHD in economics isn’t what will attract a mate, see my first post.) Men are very happy to date someone less successful, so that creates a glut of women who perceive themselves as being successful but having no one to go out with. The NYT article talked about women taking their PHD brag out of their online profiles. That’s why!


Sexual and personal health: People (both men and women) think they are in love if they have great sex. It’s how people are supposed to connect and find their mate. For men, strong erections means good cardiovascular health, exercise every day, eat a healthy diet, drinking moderately, no smoking, no doing drugs, and get enough sleep. Also, reduce your stress levels and don’t take anti-depressants unless you absolutely have to. Happiness and true joy are some of the best aphrodisiac. Love who you are and what you do, and you’ll be a much better lover. Finally, confidence! Most women want a man who is sexy and knows it, and can F’ her right. Self confidence is attractive in anyone.


Stop watching porn! I can’t emphasize this enough. Porn gives you a hollow fantasy world of masturbation that denies you actual love, passion, virility and emotion connection. Instead of masturbating, go make passionate love to your partner. If you need it every night, great! That’s what we are designed for. If she doesn’t want you, do better as a man and lover, or find someone who will appreciate what you bring.


Sexual intelligence: Sex is important, unfortunately many people don’t know much about how to do it right. Do some homework. Every woman is different and you get the incredible opportunity of exploring and figure out what works best. Have empathy, listen to your woman’s body, finally ask her what she wants and do it so she gets off too. You have to innovate at work, be creative in the bedroom. Have an awesome oral game (some women orgasm best this way). Sex IS NOT 2-5 minutes of humping and falling asleep. It is about building passion, foreplay, emotional connection, and tidal waves of hormonal release. Why wouldn’t you do this every night? (Because you have to watch TV or play in your phone? Grow some balls.)


Your time is valuable, don’t waste it: Computer games and social media are a stupid waste of time. You are a man! You should be exercising, having sex with your partner, or making money. If you want to be seen as a stupid child, waste your time on meaningless games.


Have basic emotional intelligence: Most women don’t like jerks. Don’t be one. The world is bigger than you. Women and men want someone who cares about them. The best relationships and sex are based on an emotional connection, rather than superficial aspects. Here’s a primer: be a loving friend to your partner; always be honest; communicate what you need / want; know when your partner is asking for help and when to just listen; don’t sweat the small stuff; show grace and forgiveness; tell/show your partner everyday how much you love them. Blam! Love! Thank me in 50 years.

Jordan Peterson?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm the jerk / bum / douche bag who posted "the couple of points."

Here's a few points for today's man:

A good man provides. Women do not respect a man who stays at home and takes care of the kids. As Cardi B said: “Broke boys don’t deserve no pussy! I know that’s right!” Always offer to pay for your date's meal.

You have to make more money / have more intelligence or be at least as successful as the woman you want to date to be seen as "worthy." Why? Evolutionary biology. Most women do not date down. That’s why DC is full of unhappily single women, there are too many successful women who will only date successful men. (Women: I’m not telling you to date losers, but maybe your PHD in economics isn’t what will attract a mate, see my first post.) Men are very happy to date someone less successful, so that creates a glut of women who perceive themselves as being successful but having no one to go out with. The NYT article talked about women taking their PHD brag out of their online profiles. That’s why!


Sexual and personal health: People (both men and women) think they are in love if they have great sex. It’s how people are supposed to connect and find their mate. For men, strong erections means good cardiovascular health, exercise every day, eat a healthy diet, drinking moderately, no smoking, no doing drugs, and get enough sleep. Also, reduce your stress levels and don’t take anti-depressants unless you absolutely have to. Happiness and true joy are some of the best aphrodisiac. Love who you are and what you do, and you’ll be a much better lover. Finally, confidence! Most women want a man who is sexy and knows it, and can F’ her right. Self confidence is attractive in anyone.


Stop watching porn! I can’t emphasize this enough. Porn gives you a hollow fantasy world of masturbation that denies you actual love, passion, virility and emotion connection. Instead of masturbating, go make passionate love to your partner. If you need it every night, great! That’s what we are designed for. If she doesn’t want you, do better as a man and lover, or find someone who will appreciate what you bring.


Sexual intelligence: Sex is important, unfortunately many people don’t know much about how to do it right. Do some homework. Every woman is different and you get the incredible opportunity of exploring and figure out what works best. Have empathy, listen to your woman’s body, finally ask her what she wants and do it so she gets off too. You have to innovate at work, be creative in the bedroom. Have an awesome oral game (some women orgasm best this way). Sex IS NOT 2-5 minutes of humping and falling asleep. It is about building passion, foreplay, emotional connection, and tidal waves of hormonal release. Why wouldn’t you do this every night? (Because you have to watch TV or play in your phone? Grow some balls.)


Your time is valuable, don’t waste it: Computer games and social media are a stupid waste of time. You are a man! You should be exercising, having sex with your partner, or making money. If you want to be seen as a stupid child, waste your time on meaningless games.


Have basic emotional intelligence: Most women don’t like jerks. Don’t be one. The world is bigger than you. Women and men want someone who cares about them. The best relationships and sex are based on an emotional connection, rather than superficial aspects. Here’s a primer: be a loving friend to your partner; always be honest; communicate what you need / want; know when your partner is asking for help and when to just listen; don’t sweat the small stuff; show grace and forgiveness; tell/show your partner everyday how much you love them. Blam! Love! Thank me in 50 years.

Jordan Peterson?

Common F'N sense!

[Anonymous]

Your time is valuable, don’t waste it: Computer games and social media are a stupid waste of time. You are a man! You should be exercising, having sex with your partner, or making money... or repeatedly posting your douchey lectures to complete strangers on a women's message board... If you want to be seen as a stupid child, waste your time on meaningless games.

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm the jerk / bum / douche bag who posted "the couple of points."

Here's a few points for today's man:

A good man provides. Women do not respect a man who stays at home and takes care of the kids. As Cardi B said: “Broke boys don’t deserve no pussy! I know that’s right!” Always offer to pay for your date's meal.

You have to make more money / have more intelligence or be at least as successful as the woman you want to date to be seen as "worthy." Why? Evolutionary biology. Most women do not date down. That’s why DC is full of unhappily single women, there are too many successful women who will only date successful men. (Women: I’m not telling you to date losers, but maybe your PHD in economics isn’t what will attract a mate, see my first post.) Men are very happy to date someone less successful, so that creates a glut of women who perceive themselves as being successful but having no one to go out with. The NYT article talked about women taking their PHD brag out of their online profiles. That’s why!


Sexual and personal health: People (both men and women) think they are in love if they have great sex. It’s how people are supposed to connect and find their mate. For men, strong erections means good cardiovascular health, exercise every day, eat a healthy diet, drinking moderately, no smoking, no doing drugs, and get enough sleep. Also, reduce your stress levels and don’t take anti-depressants unless you absolutely have to. Happiness and true joy are some of the best aphrodisiac. Love who you are and what you do, and you’ll be a much better lover. Finally, confidence! Most women want a man who is sexy and knows it, and can F’ her right. Self confidence is attractive in anyone.


Stop watching porn! I can’t emphasize this enough. Porn gives you a hollow fantasy world of masturbation that denies you actual love, passion, virility and emotion connection. Instead of masturbating, go make passionate love to your partner. If you need it every night, great! That’s what we are designed for. If she doesn’t want you, do better as a man and lover, or find someone who will appreciate what you bring.


Sexual intelligence: Sex is important, unfortunately many people don’t know much about how to do it right. Do some homework. Every woman is different and you get the incredible opportunity of exploring and figure out what works best. Have empathy, listen to your woman’s body, finally ask her what she wants and do it so she gets off too. You have to innovate at work, be creative in the bedroom. Have an awesome oral game (some women orgasm best this way). Sex IS NOT 2-5 minutes of humping and falling asleep. It is about building passion, foreplay, emotional connection, and tidal waves of hormonal release. Why wouldn’t you do this every night? (Because you have to watch TV or play in your phone? Grow some balls.)


Your time is valuable, don’t waste it: Computer games and social media are a stupid waste of time. You are a man! You should be exercising, having sex with your partner, or making money. If you want to be seen as a stupid child, waste your time on meaningless games.


Have basic emotional intelligence: Most women don’t like jerks. Don’t be one. The world is bigger than you. Women and men want someone who cares about them. The best relationships and sex are based on an emotional connection, rather than superficial aspects. Here’s a primer: be a loving friend to your partner; always be honest; communicate what you need / want; know when your partner is asking for help and when to just listen; don’t sweat the small stuff; show grace and forgiveness; tell/show your partner everyday how much you love them. Blam! Love! Thank me in 50 years.

Jordan Peterson?

+1 This reeks of incel youtube content

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm the jerk / bum / douche bag who posted "the couple of points."

Here's a few points for today's man:

A good man provides. Women do not respect a man who stays at home and takes care of the kids. As Cardi B said: “Broke boys don’t deserve no pussy! I know that’s right!” Always offer to pay for your date's meal.

You have to make more money / have more intelligence or be at least as successful as the woman you want to date to be seen as "worthy." Why? Evolutionary biology. Most women do not date down. That’s why DC is full of unhappily single women, there are too many successful women who will only date successful men. (Women: I’m not telling you to date losers, but maybe your PHD in economics isn’t what will attract a mate, see my first post.) Men are very happy to date someone less successful, so that creates a glut of women who perceive themselves as being successful but having no one to go out with. The NYT article talked about women taking their PHD brag out of their online profiles. That’s why!


Sexual and personal health: People (both men and women) think they are in love if they have great sex. It’s how people are supposed to connect and find their mate. For men, strong erections means good cardiovascular health, exercise every day, eat a healthy diet, drinking moderately, no smoking, no doing drugs, and get enough sleep. Also, reduce your stress levels and don’t take anti-depressants unless you absolutely have to. Happiness and true joy are some of the best aphrodisiac. Love who you are and what you do, and you’ll be a much better lover. Finally, confidence! Most women want a man who is sexy and knows it, and can F’ her right. Self confidence is attractive in anyone.


Stop watching porn! I can’t emphasize this enough. Porn gives you a hollow fantasy world of masturbation that denies you actual love, passion, virility and emotion connection. Instead of masturbating, go make passionate love to your partner. If you need it every night, great! That’s what we are designed for. If she doesn’t want you, do better as a man and lover, or find someone who will appreciate what you bring.


Sexual intelligence: Sex is important, unfortunately many people don’t know much about how to do it right. Do some homework. Every woman is different and you get the incredible opportunity of exploring and figure out what works best. Have empathy, listen to your woman’s body, finally ask her what she wants and do it so she gets off too. You have to innovate at work, be creative in the bedroom. Have an awesome oral game (some women orgasm best this way). Sex IS NOT 2-5 minutes of humping and falling asleep. It is about building passion, foreplay, emotional connection, and tidal waves of hormonal release. Why wouldn’t you do this every night? (Because you have to watch TV or play in your phone? Grow some balls.)


Your time is valuable, don’t waste it: Computer games and social media are a stupid waste of time. You are a man! You should be exercising, having sex with your partner, or making money. If you want to be seen as a stupid child, waste your time on meaningless games.


Have basic emotional intelligence: Most women don’t like jerks. Don’t be one. The world is bigger than you. Women and men want someone who cares about them. The best relationships and sex are based on an emotional connection, rather than superficial aspects. Here’s a primer: be a loving friend to your partner; always be honest; communicate what you need / want; know when your partner is asking for help and when to just listen; don’t sweat the small stuff; show grace and forgiveness; tell/show your partner everyday how much you love them. Blam! Love! Thank me in 50 years.

There must have been a way to condense this, no?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A couple of points:

As a man I don't want to raise someone else's kids. (You want a good man? Don't have kids outside of marriage.)

Many women in DC are smart, that's great! But many are ~40+ and have prioritized their careers over family for most of their lives. I don't care about the status-level of my partner's job. I don't care how much money my partner makes. I do care if someone will be a good partner and can give me time and togetherness. (The DC area dating apps are filled with attractive, single, smart, 40 year old female attorneys.)

Women who are fat aren't attractive. (Most women who are online dating are obese. You want a good man? Have good hygiene, go to the gym regularly and diet.)

Women who are old aren't attractive. (You want a man? Lock one down before you turn 35-40. After 45 most women are invisible to men and you'll be stuck dating 60 year old men.)

Most people (men or women) who are still dating and never married by their late 30s-40s aren't partner material. (Emotional, psychological, sexual, commitment issues...)

Are looks important to men? Yes! And sex and a real emotional connection.

One easy fact about dating: if you want to find someone who will commit to you, date someone who is less attractive than you are. If you are a 6, date a 4 or 5.

You sound like just the type of man who makes many of us eschew marriage.

But thanks for the tips on how to land someone like you!

[Anonymous]

It is funny how that verbose misogynist thinks he is God’s gift to women.