New boyfriend loves this comedy routine- red flag? Or am I overthinking?

[Anonymous]

I think the whole situation made you feel some kind of way, and deep down inside you do have some questions about this guy. Are there any other red flags?

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Anonymous wrote:I love how many people are justifying this. Can you imagine a woman joking about how men can't get it up, they're bald, and other demeaning shit. Then the GF says that's what all women secretly think and don't want me to know. Do you think me would think this is okay?

That’s basically Amy Schumer’s comedy. That or about some dude finishing on her or something about her vag. Yet people here are fine with it.

How do you know people here are fine with Amy Schumer's comedy? I think most people, men and women, find her pretty annoying.

Most people? She was selling out everywhere so lots of people find her funny, although not me

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Anonymous wrote:I love how many people are justifying this. Can you imagine a woman joking about how men can't get it up, they're bald, and other demeaning shit. Then the GF says that's what all women secretly think and don't want me to know. Do you think me would think this is okay?

Men do that constantly to each other. The difference is men don’t care what other people think.

That is such a sexist stereotype. Men care. They may act like they don't, but that means nothing.

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Men have the most fragile egos.

Ohh yes. So so fragile and thus, unfortunately, easy to manipulate. But we don't. Really, most of us are very well behaved. But we could. 🤷‍♀️

Men do? This whole thread is about a lady keeping her guy on eggshells for laughing at a comedian. There isn’t one thing a comedian can say on stage that offends me.

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Anonymous wrote:I love how many people are justifying this. Can you imagine a woman joking about how men can't get it up, they're bald, and other demeaning shit. Then the GF says that's what all women secretly think and don't want me to know. Do you think me would think this is okay?

Men do that constantly to each other. The difference is men don’t care what other people think.

That is such a sexist stereotype. Men care. They may act like they don't, but that means nothing.

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Men have the most fragile egos.

Ohh yes. So so fragile and thus, unfortunately, easy to manipulate. But we don't. Really, most of us are very well behaved. But we could. 🤷‍♀️

Men do? This whole thread is about a lady keeping her guy on eggshells for laughing at a comedian. There isn’t one thing a comedian can say on stage that offends me.

Not one thing? That’s really not the brag you think it is.

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Anonymous wrote:I love how many people are justifying this. Can you imagine a woman joking about how men can't get it up, they're bald, and other demeaning shit. Then the GF says that's what all women secretly think and don't want me to know. Do you think me would think this is okay?

That’s basically Amy Schumer’s comedy. That or about some dude finishing on her or something about her vag. Yet people here are fine with it.

I was absolutely not fine with her comedy, and even if I was I wouldn’t go to my Mexican boyfriend and say “yeah most people like me think that Mexican men are rapists.”

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Anonymous wrote:I love how many people are justifying this. Can you imagine a woman joking about how men can't get it up, they're bald, and other demeaning shit. Then the GF says that's what all women secretly think and don't want me to know. Do you think me would think this is okay?

Men do that constantly to each other. The difference is men don’t care what other people think.

That is such a sexist stereotype. Men care. They may act like they don't, but that means nothing.

+1

Men have the most fragile egos.

Ohh yes. So so fragile and thus, unfortunately, easy to manipulate. But we don't. Really, most of us are very well behaved. But we could. 🤷‍♀️

You could…what? That sentence sounds very disturbing.

But most men are not well-behaved. Most men oogle women, say sexist stuff when they’re around their bros, believe women are being b****es when they get rejected, etc. It would be boring if it weren’t the fact that women are so frequently victims of sexual assault at the hands of men who they rejected.

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Anonymous wrote:I love how many people are justifying this. Can you imagine a woman joking about how men can't get it up, they're bald, and other demeaning shit. Then the GF says that's what all women secretly think and don't want me to know. Do you think me would think this is okay?

Men do that constantly to each other. The difference is men don’t care what other people think.

That is such a sexist stereotype. Men care. They may act like they don't, but that means nothing.

+1

Men have the most fragile egos.

Ohh yes. So so fragile and thus, unfortunately, easy to manipulate. But we don't. Really, most of us are very well behaved. But we could. 🤷‍♀️

Men do? This whole thread is about a lady keeping her guy on eggshells for laughing at a comedian. There isn’t one thing a comedian can say on stage that offends me.

Not one thing? That’s really not the brag you think it is.

Yes it is because I take comedy for just that, comedy. I love stand up, and although I might not find certain comedians as funny as others, it’s still comedy and I don’t care what they say on stage. This country being overly sensitive is what’s turning life long democrats to switch parties because the ‘gotcha’ police comes from one side. It’s tragic. Lots of other things to worry about than what a comedian says. I don’t want comedians to be PC

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Anonymous wrote:I love how many people are justifying this. Can you imagine a woman joking about how men can't get it up, they're bald, and other demeaning shit. Then the GF says that's what all women secretly think and don't want me to know. Do you think me would think this is okay?

Men do that constantly to each other. The difference is men don’t care what other people think.

That is such a sexist stereotype. Men care. They may act like they don't, but that means nothing.

+1

Men have the most fragile egos.

Ohh yes. So so fragile and thus, unfortunately, easy to manipulate. But we don't. Really, most of us are very well behaved. But we could. 🤷‍♀️

Men do? This whole thread is about a lady keeping her guy on eggshells for laughing at a comedian. There isn’t one thing a comedian can say on stage that offends me.

Not one thing? That’s really not the brag you think it is.

Yes it is because I take comedy for just that, comedy. I love stand up, and although I might not find certain comedians as funny as others, it’s still comedy and I don’t care what they say on stage. This country being overly sensitive is what’s turning life long democrats to switch parties because the ‘gotcha’ police comes from one side. It’s tragic. Lots of other things to worry about than what a comedian says. I don’t want comedians to be PC

OP's BF does not take it as just comedy. He literally said "this is how I think." It's not the gotcha police when he's the one who said it about himself.

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Anonymous wrote:I love how many people are justifying this. Can you imagine a woman joking about how men can't get it up, they're bald, and other demeaning shit. Then the GF says that's what all women secretly think and don't want me to know. Do you think me would think this is okay?

Men do that constantly to each other. The difference is men don’t care what other people think.

That is such a sexist stereotype. Men care. They may act like they don't, but that means nothing.

+1

Men have the most fragile egos.

Ohh yes. So so fragile and thus, unfortunately, easy to manipulate. But we don't. Really, most of us are very well behaved. But we could. 🤷‍♀️

Men do? This whole thread is about a lady keeping her guy on eggshells for laughing at a comedian. There isn’t one thing a comedian can say on stage that offends me.

Not one thing? That’s really not the brag you think it is.

Yes it is because I take comedy for just that, comedy. I love stand up, and although I might not find certain comedians as funny as others, it’s still comedy and I don’t care what they say on stage. This country being overly sensitive is what’s turning life long democrats to switch parties because the ‘gotcha’ police comes from one side. It’s tragic. Lots of other things to worry about than what a comedian says. I don’t want comedians to be PC

OP's BF does not take it as just comedy. He literally said "this is how I think." It's not the gotcha police when he's the one who said it about himself.

I was responding to someone that was questioning me not being offended by what comedians say. As far as agreeing with comedians, that’s a different thing altogether.

[Anonymous]

Bill Burr’s schtick “no reason to hit a woman” is hilarious. So is his take on entitled white women.

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Anonymous wrote:Bill Burr’s schtick “no reason to hit a woman” is hilarious. So is his take on entitled white women.

Bill burr is hysterical. I know that bit

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Anonymous wrote:I love how many people are justifying this. Can you imagine a woman joking about how men can't get it up, they're bald, and other demeaning shit. Then the GF says that's what all women secretly think and don't want me to know. Do you think me would think this is okay?

The sad part is that's not even an equivalent scenario. 50% of all female murder victims are killed in domestic violence. This guy turns around and tells his new girlfriend, a DV survivor, "yeah, we all want to kill you to shut you up, we're just not supposed to say it out loud," and then the lesser males of DCUM rally to tell a woman that trusting her gut about avoiding violence makes her miserable and humorless and annoying.

This. This is why it would be a dealbreaker for me.