Did you meet your spouse too young?

[Anonymous]

What age did you meet your spouse? If you could do it over, would you have waited to settle down?

[Anonymous]

18 and no

[Anonymous]

Met at 15. Got married at 22. We are 54 and still very happily married. No. Definitely not too young.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Met at 15. Got married at 22. We are 54 and still very happily married. No. Definitely not too young.

You were too young, but it has worked out.

[Anonymous]

me: 24
spouse: 19

absolutely wish I could have a “do-over”.

they’re a good person, but we are very different and they have traits that were overlooked when we were young.

I wish I would have waited until I was older and had more dating experience.

[Anonymous]

28. I was a late bloomer and mentally, probably closer to 22 than 28. It was way too early and I did a poor job picking my spouse. Wish I had waited until my early 30s to settle down.

[Anonymous]

20 yo when we met. Just celebrated 22 years married. Still very much in love.

[Anonymous]

I was 17 when we met. He was 21. I was 19 when we started dating. 26 when we got married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:me: 24
spouse: 19

absolutely wish I could have a “do-over”.

they’re a good person, but we are very different and they have traits that were overlooked when we were young.

I wish I would have waited until I was older and had more dating experience.

How many people are you married to?

If you’re just trying to hide whether your spouse is male or female, you’re using “they” as a singular pronoun and you should say “they is” as opposed to “they are.”

[Anonymous]

21 and 22
We’re right for each other in many ways so glad we didn’t part ways at some point just because.

And now we have an open marriage so best of both worlds.

[Anonymous]

Met at 25, married at 30. In a perfect world, I would have met her 2-5 years later so I could have played the field longer but men always feel we left some on the field.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:me: 24
spouse: 19

absolutely wish I could have a “do-over”.

they’re a good person, but we are very different and they have traits that were overlooked when we were young.

I wish I would have waited until I was older and had more dating experience.

How many people are you married to?

If you’re just trying to hide whether your spouse is male or female, you’re using “they” as a singular pronoun and you should say “they is” as opposed to “they are.”

That is totally wrong. You don’t say “you is” when the “you” is singular. “They” is always paired with “are.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Met at 15. Got married at 22. We are 54 and still very happily married. No. Definitely not too young.

Another one like you. Met at 18, married at 25. We are 59 and still very happily married as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:me: 24
spouse: 19

absolutely wish I could have a “do-over”.

they’re a good person, but we are very different and they have traits that were overlooked when we were young.

I wish I would have waited until I was older and had more dating experience.

This except I was 22 and he was 27. I would love a do-over.

[Anonymous]

Met at 22, but dated off/on until we were serious at 25 and then married at 28. Still together 20 years later.