Men, if you have ever wanted to have an affair but didn't

[Anonymous]

What stopped you?

[Anonymous]

I had the opportunity a couple of months ago. I was having marriage issues and it was really, really tempting. Just decided not to do it. Would have been so easy. Glad I didn't.

[Anonymous]

my vows

[Anonymous]

Golden rule. I knew I’d feel bad if DW cheated on me, did not want her to feel bad due to me cheating on her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:my vows

+1

[Anonymous]

never have wanted to have an affair. love and respect my wife too much to do something that would completely obliterate my integrity, our vows, and reduce me to a morally bankrupt assh*le.

[Anonymous]

It's always funny to me when women answer as men and I'm not saying all men cheat because they definitely don't but only one of the responses so far is written by a man

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's always funny to me when women answer as men and I'm not saying all men cheat because they definitely don't but only one of the responses so far is written by a man

Agree. First response was a guy, rest are women.

[Anonymous]

Agreed. Who remebers their vows??

[Anonymous]

I’ve had the opportunity multiple times and have passed it up every time. There are a couple reasons why I won’t but the biggest one is that I see myself as a good person and crossing that line would completey change what I think about myself. Aside from that, I’ve been cheated on in the past and would never put my best friend (dw) through that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's always funny to me when women answer as men and I'm not saying all men cheat because they definitely don't but only one of the responses so far is written by a man

Yes, it's pretty obvious.

[Anonymous]

Man here. Fear of getting caught.

[Anonymous]

I've got no game.

[Anonymous]

Not sure if this counts....

I turned down an offer to sleep with a woman. She was REALLY into me, and I am hesitant to sleep with single women in case they get attached.

I had an affair in the past, sex was of course incredible and amazing to feel desired again. But the headaches that come with it - the need for attention, time that I don't have, of course the risk of getting caught - it doesn't seem worth it on average. I suppose an NSA on a business trip would be harder to turn down.

[Anonymous]

I’d have a hard time explaining it to my kids.