SAHM with a second on the way. Need more help!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow you guys are a lot of bitter little b!ches because a stay at home mom wants to get help. I don't understand the idea that because you had to struggle you need to be angry at anyone else who doesn't struggle as much as you

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This is not just bitterness and envy...it is also a sense of entitlement. Their rage comes from someone else having a better life instead of them.

[Anonymous]

Don’t be embarrassed to use money to make your life easier. I got full time help when I was pregnant with my 1st. When I had my second, my husband was traveling 4 days a week so I added nighttime and weekend help. Have you thought of hiring live in help?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You shouldn’t be a SAHM if you need that much hired help. Just work. I stayed at home for 10 years with 3 kids and a spouse who traveled weekly. No hired help. I just can’t believe you think you need that much help with two kids when you don’t work.

Not everyone was raised on a farm.

DH and I were raised in homes that had domestic staff. So, we have found it worth our money to have help. When we were starting out and did not make enough money, then we did not have help. When we made enough money, we paid for help.

If it makes you feel better - we only have two kids, no pets, and we don't smoke, drink or do drugs. No hair extensions. No fake nails. No tattoos. No strip clubs. No gambling. No AM accounts. No alimony. No child support. No IVF. No divorce. No botox. No plastic surgery. No designer bags. No mink coats. No prozac. No ozempic.

There -- we saved money to spend on outsourcing chores.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow you guys are a lot of bitter little b!ches because a stay at home mom wants to get help. I don't understand the idea that because you had to struggle you need to be angry at anyone else who doesn't struggle as much as you

As a SAHP I think its excessive to have a nanny all day and part or all of the night plus other help. Your kids need your time. Many of us did it fine without help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow you guys are a lot of bitter little b!ches because a stay at home mom wants to get help. I don't understand the idea that because you had to struggle you need to be angry at anyone else who doesn't struggle as much as you

As a SAHP I think its excessive to have a nanny all day and part or all of the night plus other help. Your kids need your time. Many of us did it fine without help.

Nope you didn't. You raised shitty kids. You are shitty people. Most of you did not go to college. 50% of you voted for Trump. Most of you are overweight. 50% of you are or will be divorced. Y'all are immune to gun violence. Dying like flies from opioid crisis. Racist AF. Your schools suck. Your kids are illiterate. Y'all are unhappy and broke. Your future is dim.

lol what. It’s quite the opposite over here, our NW is very high.