How to politely shut down super-privileged boomer parents' complaints?

[Anonymous]

If you and step mom are so close why can’t you have a conversation with her, and downplay your resentment. “Sorry I seemed distracted when you were talking about your light switches being delayed Larla, it’s hard to focus on it I’ve just had so much on my mind lately constantly thinking about xyz. I hope you didn’t think I was being rude.” Maybe she will get the point.

[Anonymous]

If they are selfish with money now who knows what your inheritance will look like. Maybe they will spend it all before they die. Or they won't leave it to you. Who knows

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You aren’t getting anything OP. If they were going to give you a dime, they’d help you now.

He will die, she will get it all and 99.99% chance you never hear from her again, or maybe she will outright tell you that you’re no longer family. When she dies, money will go to a blood relative niece OR charitable donation in her name.

My thoughts exactly