My NF won't leave an outdoor light on for me

[Anonymous]

All a few if you did was make fun of a rape survivor and not apologize. You're despicable. Points can be be made and advice given without resorting to such behavior. I'm sad that you are the ones in charge of children.

[Anonymous]

Ah, dcum 1 on 1 arguments at their finest today.

[Anonymous]

Actually, there were quite a few posters on this thread. Several were quite nasty. I'd ground my daughter for a month if not more if I caught her being so shitty. It astounds me how mean people can be online.

[Anonymous]

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Everyone copes differently. This is part of what's wrong with humans. Each one expects the others to be just like them. It's acting more like the toddlers we care for , than enlightened adults. It's. Just. A. Light.


And everyone on the other side of the discussion is saying It's.Just.A.Flashlight, how can't you see that.


Everyone on the other side of the argument keeps saying Carrying. Extra. Things. Makes. You. A. Target.
How can't you see that?


Everyone on the other side of the chat says If.You.Are.So.Scared.Maybe.Don't.Carry.Two.Big.Bags.In.The.First.Place.And.Leave.A.Hand.Available.For.A.Flashlight. Seems like common sense to me, it is a safety issue after all.


You're correct. Having a light on in the dark is a safety issue.


Finally! We have all agreed OP should buy a flashlight so she always has the safety of a light in the dark.... WHY DID IT TAKE 100 POSTS to get to this point? Do you just like to argue?


Huh? Who is this "we have all" you speak of? I see many, many posts saying that flashlights are just one more thing to carry and that a porch light should be left on for nannies. Why is this so hard for you to understand?
You haven't won here.

Sure we have. Nanny needs to be a responsible adult and buy a flashlight. If nanny needs two bags of junk that she can't manage to carry them in one hand, nanny needs a cart. If nanny is too afraid of the dark (although I bet she has no problem going out at night socially) she needs a new job. What she doesn't need is to whine and make her employers take care of her like another child.

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Everyone copes differently. This is part of what's wrong with humans. Each one expects the others to be just like them. It's acting more like the toddlers we care for , than enlightened adults. It's. Just. A. Light.


And everyone on the other side of the discussion is saying It's.Just.A.Flashlight, how can't you see that.


Everyone on the other side of the argument keeps saying Carrying. Extra. Things. Makes. You. A. Target.
How can't you see that?


Everyone on the other side of the chat says If.You.Are.So.Scared.Maybe.Don't.Carry.Two.Big.Bags.In.The.First.Place.And.Leave.A.Hand.Available.For.A.Flashlight. Seems like common sense to me, it is a safety issue after all.


You're correct. Having a light on in the dark is a safety issue.


Finally! We have all agreed OP should buy a flashlight so she always has the safety of a light in the dark.... WHY DID IT TAKE 100 POSTS to get to this point? Do you just like to argue?


Huh? Who is this "we have all" you speak of? I see many, many posts saying that flashlights are just one more thing to carry and that a porch light should be left on for nannies. Why is this so hard for you to understand?
You haven't won here.

Sure we have. Nanny needs to be a responsible adult and buy a flashlight. If nanny needs two bags of junk that she can't manage to carry them in one hand, nanny needs a cart. If nanny is too afraid of the dark (although I bet she has no problem going out at night socially) she needs a new job. What she doesn't need is to whine and make her employers take care of her like another child.

You really need to stop. Really.

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Everyone copes differently. This is part of what's wrong with humans. Each one expects the others to be just like them. It's acting more like the toddlers we care for , than enlightened adults. It's. Just. A. Light.


And everyone on the other side of the discussion is saying It's.Just.A.Flashlight, how can't you see that.


Everyone on the other side of the argument keeps saying Carrying. Extra. Things. Makes. You. A. Target.
How can't you see that?


Everyone on the other side of the chat says If.You.Are.So.Scared.Maybe.Don't.Carry.Two.Big.Bags.In.The.First.Place.And.Leave.A.Hand.Available.For.A.Flashlight. Seems like common sense to me, it is a safety issue after all.


You're correct. Having a light on in the dark is a safety issue.


Finally! We have all agreed OP should buy a flashlight so she always has the safety of a light in the dark.... WHY DID IT TAKE 100 POSTS to get to this point? Do you just like to argue?


Huh? Who is this "we have all" you speak of? I see many, many posts saying that flashlights are just one more thing to carry and that a porch light should be left on for nannies. Why is this so hard for you to understand?
You haven't won here.

Sure we have. Nanny needs to be a responsible adult and buy a flashlight. If nanny needs two bags of junk that she can't manage to carry them in one hand, nanny needs a cart. If nanny is too afraid of the dark (although I bet she has no problem going out at night socially) she needs a new job. What she doesn't need is to whine and make her employers take care of her like another child.

You really need to stop. Really.

If things are so dangerous for nanny then why not also ask the family to leave the door slightly ajar for her when she arrives each morning so she doesn't have to fumble with her keys (remember OP is miss uncoordinated fumbly hands) and she can just run in and drop her bags and lock the door. That plus the light seems like the perfect solution.

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Everyone copes differently. This is part of what's wrong with humans. Each one expects the others to be just like them. It's acting more like the toddlers we care for , than enlightened adults. It's. Just. A. Light.


And everyone on the other side of the discussion is saying It's.Just.A.Flashlight, how can't you see that.


Everyone on the other side of the argument keeps saying Carrying. Extra. Things. Makes. You. A. Target.
How can't you see that?


Everyone on the other side of the chat says If.You.Are.So.Scared.Maybe.Don't.Carry.Two.Big.Bags.In.The.First.Place.And.Leave.A.Hand.Available.For.A.Flashlight. Seems like common sense to me, it is a safety issue after all.


You're correct. Having a light on in the dark is a safety issue.


Finally! We have all agreed OP should buy a flashlight so she always has the safety of a light in the dark.... WHY DID IT TAKE 100 POSTS to get to this point? Do you just like to argue?


Huh? Who is this "we have all" you speak of? I see many, many posts saying that flashlights are just one more thing to carry and that a porch light should be left on for nannies. Why is this so hard for you to understand?
You haven't won here.

Sure we have. Nanny needs to be a responsible adult and buy a flashlight. If nanny needs two bags of junk that she can't manage to carry them in one hand, nanny needs a cart. If nanny is too afraid of the dark (although I bet she has no problem going out at night socially) she needs a new job. What she doesn't need is to whine and make her employers take care of her like another child.

You really need to stop. Really.

If things are so dangerous for nanny then why not also ask the family to leave the door slightly ajar for her when she arrives each morning so she doesn't have to fumble with her keys (remember OP is miss uncoordinated fumbly hands) and she can just run in and drop her bags and lock the door. That plus the light seems like the perfect solution.

Again...you should really stop. You're making yourself look really silly.

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The parking lot at my office is dark and shadowy. To whom do I report this to?

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Anonymous wrote:The parking lot at my office is dark and shadowy. To whom do I report this to?

HR. Ask them to leave a light on.

[Anonymous]

11:29, you are talking to more than one poster.

It is you who looks silly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:11:29, you are talking to more than one poster.

It is you who looks silly.

Not quite.