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Anonymous wrote:I seriously can not act. I would suck at this stuff.

Me too. Can't act. Feel corny and stupid also feel ugly because when I usually see women in these get ups they have perfect bodies. I out the outfits on and only see my flab and saggy boobs makes me feel worse.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I seriously can not act. I would suck at this stuff.

Me too. Can't act. Feel corny and stupid also feel ugly because when I usually see women in these get ups they have perfect bodies. I out the outfits on and only see my flab and saggy boobs makes me feel worse.

My husband bought me a leather bra, crotch less leather pants, and stiletto heels. I have a seriously flabby stomach and cellulite issues. Had no interest in putting them on, but I did. Holy hell my husband was done in like 3 minutes. He LOVED seeing me in them (even though I was kinda mortified). Took me a while to realize that he didn't want to do it with some random hot chick in leather, he wanted to do it with ME in leather.

Try it. You may be surprised at the results.

Anonymous wrote:PS. I suspect you hate strippers, boob jobs, false eyelashes, thong tan lines .. Or anything else men lust after.


Real men gotta have it and gonna get it.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I seriously can not act. I would suck at this stuff.

Me too. Can't act. Feel corny and stupid also feel ugly because when I usually see women in these get ups they have perfect bodies. I out the outfits on and only see my flab and saggy boobs makes me feel worse.

My husband bought me a leather bra, crotch less leather pants, and stiletto heels. I have a seriously flabby stomach and cellulite issues. Had no interest in putting them on, but I did. Holy hell my husband was done in like 3 minutes. He LOVED seeing me in them (even though I was kinda mortified). Took me a while to realize that he didn't want to do it with some random hot chick in leather, he wanted to do it with ME in leather.

Try it. You may be surprised at the results.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a DH whose wife reacted very negatively when I tried to share fantasies, I can tell you that he will find a way to explore them with or without you. I would posit that the more vehemently you reject him for his fantasies, the more threatening to your marriage his outlet will be. The man bared his soul to you and you shut him down and basically told him he is a deviant.

What could possibly go wrong?

Another DH who had a very common fantasy shot down by my wife, with a "that's weird" attached. Rest assured, I stopped sharing fantasies. I found someone online who has the same reciprocal fantasy so it's a safe outlet although the temptation to meet irl is strong.

Op, I don't think you realize how destructive you are being to your relationship

That's right ladies you better do whatever your man wants and never hint that it isn't something you wouldn't enjoy.

Know your role!

Grow up.

"Good, giving and game" works both ways. Both partners (regardless of gender) should be open to hearing their partner's fantasies. If the fantasy is not something that is physically difficult or morally repulsive (children, animals, necrophilia, rape), they should consider it. Either way, no shaming someone for fessing up to a fantasy.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a DH whose wife reacted very negatively when I tried to share fantasies, I can tell you that he will find a way to explore them with or without you. I would posit that the more vehemently you reject him for his fantasies, the more threatening to your marriage his outlet will be. The man bared his soul to you and you shut him down and basically told him he is a deviant.

What could possibly go wrong?

Another DH who had a very common fantasy shot down by my wife, with a "that's weird" attached. Rest assured, I stopped sharing fantasies. I found someone online who has the same reciprocal fantasy so it's a safe outlet although the temptation to meet irl is strong.
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Op, I don't think you realize how destructive you are being to your relationship

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I seriously can not act. I would suck at this stuff.

Me too. Can't act. Feel corny and stupid also feel ugly because when I usually see women in these get ups they have perfect bodies. I out the outfits on and only see my flab and saggy boobs makes me feel worse.

My husband bought me a leather bra, crotch less leather pants, and stiletto heels. I have a seriously flabby stomach and cellulite issues. Had no interest in putting them on, but I did. Holy hell my husband was done in like 3 minutes. He LOVED seeing me in them (even though I was kinda mortified). Took me a while to realize that he didn't want to do it with some random hot chick in leather, he wanted to do it with ME in leather.

Try it. You may be surprised at the results.

This is so true. My DH hasn't expressed interest in role playing or costumes, but I've tried spicing things up with slutty lingerie. I am not hot. I have, like, 3 bellies. But he went freaking nuts. Surpassed my wildest expectations. With the obligatory caveat for unhappy marriages, men want their wives. Whatever fantasies they have, they would rather fulfill with their wives than random hotties/daughter's friends ( at that - come on, people, really?). I would never say it's the wife's fault if the husband cheats, but I do think that a pattern of rejection in the bedroom, whether of sex in general or particular sexual requests, can make him feel unwanted and unappreciated in a way that increases the likelihood he'll look elsewhere.

I just do not get the unwillingness to engage and explore with your husband this way.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I seriously can not act. I would suck at this stuff.

Me too. Can't act. Feel corny and stupid also feel ugly because when I usually see women in these get ups they have perfect bodies. I out the outfits on and only see my flab and saggy boobs makes me feel worse.

My husband bought me a leather bra, crotch less leather pants, and stiletto heels. I have a seriously flabby stomach and cellulite issues. Had no interest in putting them on, but I did. Holy hell my husband was done in like 3 minutes. He LOVED seeing me in them (even though I was kinda mortified). Took me a while to realize that he didn't want to do it with some random hot chick in leather, he wanted to do it with ME in leather.

Try it. You may be surprised at the results.

This is so true. My DH hasn't expressed interest in role playing or costumes, but I've tried spicing things up with slutty lingerie. I am not hot. I have, like, 3 bellies. But he went freaking nuts. Surpassed my wildest expectations. With the obligatory caveat for unhappy marriages, men want their wives. Whatever fantasies they have, they would rather fulfill with their wives than random hotties/daughter's friends ( at that - come on, people, really?). I would never say it's the wife's fault if the husband cheats, but I do think that a pattern of rejection in the bedroom, whether of sex in general or particular sexual requests, can make him feel unwanted and unappreciated in a way that increases the likelihood he'll look elsewhere.

I just do not get the unwillingness to engage and explore with your husband this way.

These two women get it! You two should teach a class!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I seriously can not act. I would suck at this stuff.

Me too. Can't act. Feel corny and stupid also feel ugly because when I usually see women in these get ups they have perfect bodies. I out the outfits on and only see my flab and saggy boobs makes me feel worse.

My husband bought me a leather bra, crotch less leather pants, and stiletto heels. I have a seriously flabby stomach and cellulite issues. Had no interest in putting them on, but I did. Holy hell my husband was done in like 3 minutes. He LOVED seeing me in them (even though I was kinda mortified). Took me a while to realize that he didn't want to do it with some random hot chick in leather, he wanted to do it with ME in leather.

Try it. You may be surprised at the results.

This is so true. My DH hasn't expressed interest in role playing or costumes, but I've tried spicing things up with slutty lingerie. I am not hot. I have, like, 3 bellies. But he went freaking nuts. Surpassed my wildest expectations. With the obligatory caveat for unhappy marriages, men want their wives. Whatever fantasies they have, they would rather fulfill with their wives than random hotties/daughter's friends ( at that - come on, people, really?). I would never say it's the wife's fault if the husband cheats, but I do think that a pattern of rejection in the bedroom, whether of sex in general or particular sexual requests, can make him feel unwanted and unappreciated in a way that increases the likelihood he'll look elsewhere.

I just do not get the unwillingness to engage and explore with your husband this way.

These two women get it! You two should teach a class!

19:17 here.

Why thank you! You may not like the class, tho, b/c despite my willingness to try the leather, no matter how many times he asks, anal ain't happening. I gotta draw my line somewhere!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I seriously can not act. I would suck at this stuff.

Me too. Can't act. Feel corny and stupid also feel ugly because when I usually see women in these get ups they have perfect bodies. I out the outfits on and only see my flab and saggy boobs makes me feel worse.

My husband bought me a leather bra, crotch less leather pants, and stiletto heels. I have a seriously flabby stomach and cellulite issues. Had no interest in putting them on, but I did. Holy hell my husband was done in like 3 minutes. He LOVED seeing me in them (even though I was kinda mortified). Took me a while to realize that he didn't want to do it with some random hot chick in leather, he wanted to do it with ME in leather.

Try it. You may be surprised at the results.

This is so true. My DH hasn't expressed interest in role playing or costumes, but I've tried spicing things up with slutty lingerie. I am not hot. I have, like, 3 bellies. But he went freaking nuts. Surpassed my wildest expectations. With the obligatory caveat for unhappy marriages, men want their wives. Whatever fantasies they have, they would rather fulfill with their wives than random hotties/daughter's friends ( at that - come on, people, really?). I would never say it's the wife's fault if the husband cheats, but I do think that a pattern of rejection in the bedroom, whether of sex in general or particular sexual requests, can make him feel unwanted and unappreciated in a way that increases the likelihood he'll look elsewhere.

I just do not get the unwillingness to engage and explore with your husband this way.

These two women get it! You two should teach a class!

19:17 here.

Why thank you! You may not like the class, tho, b/c despite my willingness to try the leather, no matter how many times he asks, anal ain't happening. I gotta draw my line somewhere!

Other potential co-teacher here. Sadly, my class will also not include anal. I draw the line at OUCH!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a DH whose wife reacted very negatively when I tried to share fantasies, I can tell you that he will find a way to explore them with or without you. I would posit that the more vehemently you reject him for his fantasies, the more threatening to your marriage his outlet will be. The man bared his soul to you and you shut him down and basically told him he is a deviant.

What could possibly go wrong?

Another DH who had a very common fantasy shot down by my wife, with a "that's weird" attached. Rest assured, I stopped sharing fantasies. I found someone online who has the same reciprocal fantasy so it's a safe outlet although the temptation to meet irl is strong.
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Op, I don't think you realize how destructive you are being to your relationship

Did you ever tell your wife how much you were hurt by having your fantasies shut down by her? She must have done so more than once and with enough disdain for you to go outside your marriage. And how did you find this online friend? Someone you know in real life?

Anonymous wrote:It's always little creepy when someone you know as well as your spouse reveals a hidden desire like this. Makes you wonder if it's the tip of the iceberg for other...desires that they haven't told you about.

Yet.