My 13 year old looking at porn

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[Post New]07/22/2013 05:32
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Anonymous wrote:Totally normal. It has nothing to do with the smart phone, contrary to the PP stupid assertation. If he didn't find it on his smart phone, he would have found it someplace else- just like thousands and thousands of other 13 year olds.

This is an opportunity to talk with him about sexuality, not to embarrass or shame him. Ideally your DH should be the one to talk with him. He needs to know that his feelings are 100% healthy and normal.

~Mom to three grow college-aged kids. No baby mamas. No baby daddys. We were always very open about sex. I am positive that our attitude towards sexuality is the reason we don't have grandchildren right now.


I don't get it. So you have a talk with your child about porn, and if the child doesn't stop looking at it, then what?


Then the child looks at porn?


But that's my point! Then why even talk to him about it? Other than to embarrass him. It's natural and ok to look at porn.




Most porn is absolutely revolting. It's a sad sign of the times that porn has become so prevalent that it's seen as "natural and ok" to view sites with names such as "slut load".
[Post New]07/22/2013 06:05
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Anonymous wrote:I was looking at porn long before 13 and I was a virgin until 19. Most of my friends were going through their parents or older siblings' stash of Playboy or porn stash by middle school. Totally normal.



Are you a male or female?
[Post New]07/22/2013 06:38
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Anonymous wrote:I was looking at porn long before 13 and I was a virgin until 19. Most of my friends were going through their parents or older siblings' stash of Playboy or porn stash by middle school. Totally normal.



Are you a male or female?


What difference does it make? FWIW, I'm female and I could have written that post. I remember seeing Playboys/Playgirls/Hustlers by the time I was middle school age. And I didn't actually have sex until I was in college...

But no way was I watching graphic XXX rated movie material as a kid/teen and that stuff is pretty much available 24/7 on the internet these days. It's important to limit computer time.
[Post New]07/22/2013 10:12
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Anonymous wrote:I was looking at porn long before 13 and I was a virgin until 19. Most of my friends were going through their parents or older siblings' stash of Playboy or porn stash by middle school. Totally normal.



Are you a male or female?


Not PP but could be. Porn long before 13; virgin till 21. Of course that was a while back - pre internet; no hardcore stuff.
[Post New]07/22/2013 10:13
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Oh, and I'm female.
[Post New]08/20/2013 21:07
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Lol hey dumbass he probably found out his to delete his history and you can't watch porn at school (as far as they know heheh)
[Post New]08/29/2013 01:29
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I'm a 41 year old man, and I think teen boys should be allowed to look at porn on the internet. I remember my experiences as a hormonal young man who wants sex so badly, its impossible to put into words. I know you think this is 31 year old hormones talking, but moms will never understand because a.) you never went through it and b.)you're moms. It is normal to be overprotective, but you have to believe me when I say it's not bad. Sure, discuss with them about the rape and stuff, but don't forbid it. They'll do it anyway. I'm married with three sons in their mid teens and we let them look at what they want. There are things we men will never understand about girls' puberty, so please don't control things you will never understand. I looked at porn and masturbated frequently when I was a teen, still do, as do my kids, and they all get great grades and have jobs and are good kids. Ease up on the censorship, kids need exposure!
[Post New]08/29/2013 02:01
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Anonymous wrote:Is there a monastery you can hand him over to? Or an asylum for lost boys? That's what they used to do to girls who didn't act like what proper girls should act like.
you are insane this is normal my three teen boys look at porn and jack off and every teen boy does it in the world, if you don't know that then you haven't been living on earth, my sons are smart and good people and understand porn is unrealistic, and it's healthy for a young man who is sooooooo hormonal to express his urges, you will never understand what it's like for a boy that age and to have all this technology and information at your fingertips for the first time in history...seriously, sending him to a monastery?!!!!!!!! you will ruin your relationship with him!!!!
[Post New]08/29/2013 02:05
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Anonymous wrote:Mom of a 12 year old here--yeah, a 13 year old has no need for Internet on his phone. Disable it.
for the first time in history children have any information they need at their fingertips and you want to disable it??????!!! im open about porn and jacking off with my three teen sons, and its healthy, theyre smart and good people, absolutely nothing wrong with it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and im male
[Post New]08/29/2013 16:21
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Anonymous wrote:Mom of a 12 year old here--yeah, a 13 year old has no need for Internet on his phone. Disable it.
for the first time in history children have any information they need at their fingertips and you want to disable it??????!!! im open about porn and jacking off with my three teen sons, and its healthy, theyre smart and good people, absolutely nothing wrong with it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and im male



And you are clearly on drugs.
[Post New]08/29/2013 16:38
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What genre does he prefer?
[Post New]09/08/2013 01:59
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I let me son watch is all the time and he jerks off to it
[Post New]09/08/2013 07:33
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You lie. You are completely full of shit.



Good heavens, how can you possibly know this? You don't know me. Now perhaps you think, "Any normal, reasonable person would be appalled to find out that their child is gay, because ick". But as an adult, you must surely have learned by now that normal, reasonable people can have very different opinions on all kinds of things.


No, I think that it is completely ABNORMAL for you to imply that most ordinary parents wouldn't be surprised or disappointed to learn a child was gay.

I'm also a little shocked that THIS would be acceptable for some people but viewing porn is not. So many mixed messages.

Isn't a mixed message at all. Not all of us as straight reading this board.
[Post New]09/13/2013 00:48
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I watch porn
[Post New]09/13/2013 08:53
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What difference does it make? FWIW, I'm female and I could have written that post. I remember seeing Playboys/Playgirls/Hustlers by the time I was middle school age. And I didn't actually have sex until I was in college...


There is a big difference between Playboy and Hustler and the graphic debasement of women you see on internet sites. I think some of the stuffing videos, group anal sex videos and some of the fetishes can really fuck up a developing healthy sexuality. A 13 year old kid watching this stuff has no basis in real relationships to filter what he/she is seeing.
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