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| According to the article, not only did they have sex, and pictures were taken, but this guy was stupid enough to email those pictures.... The whole thing was wrong.. Nothing about this was right. |
That the salacious details of this Young Girl Gone Bad titillate a reporter or the general public doesn't move me. I see the core of this story as a well-off adult man who paid to have sex with a young runaway/prostitute because he could, because who cares about this girl, no one will care even if they find out. That she was a "slut" was just a convenient detail to him, but doesn't matter to me (and in a just world, won't matter to a jury/judge). If it had't been her, it would have been someone else. |
| Just so long as you understand the difference between what this grown girl did consensually and a small child who cannot speak/does not know about sex/does not realize they are innocent/etc etc. |
| I definitely see that there is a difference, however, I also believe that what he did was also quite wrong. |
Here is why I think people took note of this case. We either consciously or unconsciously assume that people who do really bad things are "different" from us. When we hear of someone, say the old guy who did the shooting at the holocaust museum, we file that away as old, racist nutjob going senile. Not us. We feel comfortably distant from some kid in a small drug gang (even though he may deal near our house). He's poor, from a broken family, etc. Not us. Chandra Levy accused killer? He's from another country, and he's got gang tatoos across his neck. Not us. But when someone who looks like us, went to college like us, works in our profession, shops for suits and ties like us does something that we think is really deviant, it causes us to confront the fact that people like us - even we ourselves - are capable of bad things. We realize that the line between good and bad is not all that wide. We want to know how a guy did something like that. I think it's exactly why this board got so busy with the LAX killer. The kid looks like a DCUM kid. I'm sure there are people familiar with the Stanford Prison experiment, and the Milgram Experiment. The lesson is that anyone is capable of evil. And that is uncomfortable. But it's good to recognize it. |
| I agree. I think that's also why so many PPs are fixated on this girl's sexual history. She wasn't a good girl, she was dirty and not like us. |
| Really? Because when I read it, the first thing I thought was, big firm big money asshole who thought he was entitled to do whatever he wants, no suprise. |
Do we know for certain that she didn't lie about her age? If she told him she was older why is it his fault that she was 15? I think it's wrong that he slept with her for money, and he certainly should not have been sleeping with a 15 year old, but did she lie about her age? |
| She isn't a slut and she isn't a whore. She is a mixed up 15 year old girl. Stop calling her names. |
So if he thought she was 18 (and I strongly suspect he didn't ask or care either way), then what? |
He is an attorney so he should know ignorance of the law is no excuse. What she told him is irrelevant--he paid to have sex with a minor, took photographs, and God only knows what else he did or has done to other 15 yr. old girls. The man is lower than pond scum. How can anyone one any redeeming quality in him, If he want to pay to have sex he should have gone to 14th stret and pickd up one of the street walkers. |
The law does not care whether he thought she was 18. If that doesn't sound fair, I'm pretty sure that the reason is because it was the universal excuse for people caught having sex with a minor "she looked 18 to me, your honor". |
I'm not sure we know, but the point is that it does not matter. His crime is independent of the degree of her consent. |
| He is charged with child pornography, and he used a lot of bondage prop for the photos. |
Sounds like a relly great guy. Wonder what his "former" clients are thinking about his work. I also wonder what Managing partner is scurrying around to hush up all this bad publicity for A&P. |