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Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:They are both equally hot. The reason I asked here (would love Rico/R
ca to respond) is bc it was almost exactly as described in his/her seduction posts.
So tell us more about how the Estudiante de Rico executed his seduction.
I can't give too many details. I don't want to risk my identity.
Did you want to be seduced?
well, it wasn't something I was looking for or thinking about, but once it started happening I relished every minute of it.
One of those "I wasn't looking for or even wanting an affair, but he just had something about him." type of things
So he is responding but not to the level of excitement that you need. I do understand. He probably knows what he is doing to your self esteem but doesn't know how to correct it. But still even if he isn't totally feeling it, he does need to put on his happy face and make a concerted go. We often tell women that when they aren't feeling especially sexy after giving birth due to hormones and body issues to "fake it until you make it" in regards to keeping up the sex life with their husbands so that the men in their lives don't feel neglected. This advice should apply to your husband too.
Have you tried seducing and paying attention to him. Marriages sometimes fall in to the rut of having to live life. Perhaps you both have become a bit complacent that the other will be there when you need them. You sometimes need to remind them that you needs to go beyond the basic "slap and tickle" that is the most that even loving couples seem to have time for anymore.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:http://www.cnn.com/2012/06/11/justice/texas-abuser-killed/index.html?hpt=hp_t2
Hope he gets off. Sounds like the police are recognizing him for the hero that he is.
In this country, we do not take the laws into our own hands. Murder is murder. This is not a case of self defense
Yes it is. At least in Texas it is. You can protect your home and your family within your home with deadly force in the midst of a felony.
This man deserves a medal for standing up to evil and protecting his daughter. Like a PP said above, she will never forget that her daddy did all he could to protect her when he was faced with the worst thing a father could see.
The "castle doctrine" applies to your family as well so the homocide is completely justifiable. Besides so DA in his right mind will bring charges up on this man.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My doctor uses an Ipad. That makes me feel a LOT better....who uses books anymore anyway?
I don't think most medical journals are accessible on the internet. If my 7th grader isn't allowed to use Wikipedia as a primary source, neither is my doctor!!
If you don't know then maybe you should look it up.
Also the American Legion or VFW should have a banquet hall tho it helps if you know someone that is a member.
A very expensive regular expense
Anonymous wrote:ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:A real Muffalatta from Central Grocery. A required stop every time I go home.
Pastrami and swiss on marble rye with stone ground mustard
Rueben
Prime rib sliced thin soaked with au jus on pumpernickle with farmers cheese and horseradish
Hi fellow New Orleanian! Yup, that muffaletta's a good one, thanks for the big smile
Nothing like them anywhere else.
So if I'm walking along and some women are blocking my path it's now wrong to say "Ladies, if you would excuse me."?
A real Muffalatta from Central Grocery. A required stop every time I go home.
Pastrami and swiss on marble rye with stone ground mustard
Rueben
Prime rib sliced thin soaked with au jus on pumpernickle with farmers cheese and horseradish
Pastrami and swiss on marble rye with stone ground mustard
Rueben
Prime rib sliced thin soaked with au jus on pumpernickle with farmers cheese and horseradish
If he was open to it but didn't then yes I do think it more fear than loyalty. If you are rebuffed from the beginning then loyalty comes into play
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP -
Just curious, are you a man or a woman?
After reading this very interesting thread, I got to thinking that men and women must use different techniques if they are trying to seduce someone of the opposite sex. Men and women also have different ideas of what will work on them.
Women on this thread have greatly inputted what works to seduce them, but what if a woman wants to seduce a man? How does she realistically do that? After all men are not always the chasers. Sometimes the woman is the one going after the man.
im a man.
im not rico suave though so i havent been the one giving advice or anything.
and i would think a woman would be hesitant in a work environment to seduce someone at the office. especially a married man, even if they are married. thats just my guess.
thats why i started the thread to sort of get an idea of the thoughts of both sides
I am a married woman and I have been interested in an affair with married men. I think women are more subtle then men when they are interested. The sticky situation for a woman is the fine line of not being too subtle that the man doesn't get your point or too bold that the man is turned off because you seem too needy, aggressive, etc.
The first thing a woman does if she wants to attract a man is wear outfits that makes her look good (in work place, not too sexy to be unprofessional, but flattering enough to get a man's attention). If she needs to loose a few pounds, she will start dieting and exercising more to improve her appearance and desirability. She may change her hair, get manicures, etc. to present herself in the best light as possible.
After all this, the woman will begin to interact more with her targeted man. Correct me if I am wrong, but I think men tend to be attracted to women who are easy to talk to and have personal self confidence. If I know a man is into a particular sport, I may use that as a topic of conversation to start up with. Once a man is comfortable with talking with you, I have been surprised as to what they reveal about themselves and their personal lives. Once the topic gets personal, if it swings to sexual topics, then man is hooked and affair can start.
OP - as a man, what do you think? Would this work on you?
Not the OP but yes your plan would work rather nicely. He still might not go for the affair, fear of getting caught is a powerful thing. But, he would be interested and think about you alot and maybe even masturbate to thought of time spent with you.
Anonymous wrote:ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:It may not be an ego boost or game playing, but he is probably sure that he is going to get caught
Hey, nice to see you joining the chat. I was wondering when you would chime in.
I don't know how he could get caught unless he told his wife or someone else he knows and word got back to her. His wife and my husband work long hours in DC. We are in the burbs during the day, about 15 minutes from each other.
An after work hookup would be difficult because of childcare situations, but not impossible. A mid-day hookup, even over lunch breaks, would be more realistic and would service both our needs.
However, I do have a fantasy of visiting his man cave and giving him the best BJ while he plays his violent video games. Probably would never happen, just a turn on when he described the games to me.
Up to this point I was happily reading along with everyone else. Hookups through work can be difficult. Especially if his co-workers maybe already giving him crap about the obvious tension between the two of you. You gave him your number and once things calm down a little in his office he might call. But right now I think he may realize that others may suspect something is up and is nervous about contacting you.
It may not be an ego boost or game playing, but he is probably sure that he is going to get caught
Anonymous wrote:I employ many different techniques.
1. I ask specifically for him to accomplish certain tasks. For example, "I am swamped at work this week. You said you needed to work late on Wed. How about I email you the grocery list and you do the shopping on the way home when it's less crowded. That way we can all go to the pool today instead of you taking the kids on your own and me shopping." He will either say yes or he will say he will go shopping today and I can go to the pool. I hate grocery shopping so either option is fine with me.
2. When he hasn't prepared for a task, I don't help him. Ever. I let him fail. Even if it affects my kids. For example, it is his chore to put laundry away after I have washed, dried, and folded it. If I see the clean, folded laundry waiting in the basement, I bring up enough underwear for me and I leave it there. So he has to run up and downstairs for his own clothing and kids clothing. If it is his turn to pack lunch and he doesn't do it at night like I do, he is stuck running around in the morning getting lunch together and breakfast. And he is only responsible for packing lunch one night a week when I am driving to one sports practice that goes late.
It took a few times, but having to turn his underwear inside out because he was too lazy to go downstairs got to him. He doesn't forget much these days. Please note. I also say NOTHING when I know he is running around. I do not say, "if you did things like I do, this wouldn't happen," I might say, "oh hey, let me check if there are some kids' undies in the corner someplace in a drawer," but that is it.
3. I thank him for when he does something that has really helped. I also praise him to other people. I don't criticize him or suggest that my way of doing something is better.
4. I let him do his own thing with the children. Period. If they watch TV all day and eat hot dogs for dinner with a side of ice cream. Don't care. Right now he is at the gym and I am dorking around on the internet and my kids are watching TV and playing video games. If he came home and said, "why isn't the house clean or did you get their homework done?" I would be pissed. So I try to remember that when he is on his own with them.
This is a big one. I know a few women that complain about the amount their husbands do around the house and every one of the husbands say that she was never happy with how I did something so I stopped. It's easier to let her do it her way the first time instead of doing something and then having her go behind and do it all over again.