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Anonymous wrote:ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:Anonymous wrote:Red's my favorite color - you know, passion is everythingI'm a pale brunette, so I've always thought color is better on me than either white or black.
I'm sure you do.
But then just having a woman willing to wear the "funtime" lingerie for her man is wonderful enough as it is
I love it! Love the reaction
We are certainly that
Plus we feel that you are doing it just for us. Personally I like it when you leave some of it on as things progress.
Anonymous wrote:Red's my favorite color - you know, passion is everything
I'm sure you do.
But then just having a woman willing to wear the "funtime" lingerie for her man is wonderful enough as it is
Anonymous wrote:I didn't realize black was so much the favorite, over white and red. Live and learn.
Thanks for the conversation. If there's ever an update, I'll post
All three colors are quite nice, it looks really sexy against a contrasting skin tone, so black (at least to me) looks great against paler skin, white is my prefrence against tanned or darker skin, and well red does them both justice.
I look forward to any updates you might have.
Anonymous wrote:ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:Anonymous wrote:ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:Anonymous wrote:"Sure think about it, it's not a decision to be made lightly. As for never being alone, all you need is three minutes to wrap him in your arms and kiss him soundly. "
There's another factor here. I have a higher libido than my husband, so if I'm going to have a passionate affair, I'd like to be the one pursued. Make sense?
Sure it does, who doesn't want to be pursued?
But then if you don't step on the gas once in awhile, the car never goes anywhere
Maybe I should broaden my horizons and look beyond this guy....
Maybe, if you want to do it there are plenty of men to choose from. But then also you feel comfortable around this person which may explain how it bagan in the first place.
You're right. I'm not really interested in cheating in general. There is a spark with this guy, but I can't blame him if he has cold feet. His life is probably complicated enough. I just keep thinking that it's probably been years since he saw his wife in lingerie, and I know he likes black....
What man doesn't
But I also think you've answered your own questions. I hope whatever you decide, you end up a happier woman for it.
Anonymous wrote:ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:Anonymous wrote:"Sure think about it, it's not a decision to be made lightly. As for never being alone, all you need is three minutes to wrap him in your arms and kiss him soundly. "
There's another factor here. I have a higher libido than my husband, so if I'm going to have a passionate affair, I'd like to be the one pursued. Make sense?
Sure it does, who doesn't want to be pursued?
But then if you don't step on the gas once in awhile, the car never goes anywhere
Maybe I should broaden my horizons and look beyond this guy....
Maybe, if you want to do it there are plenty of men to choose from. But then also you feel comfortable around this person which may explain how it bagan in the first place.
Anonymous wrote:"Sure think about it, it's not a decision to be made lightly. As for never being alone, all you need is three minutes to wrap him in your arms and kiss him soundly. "
There's another factor here. I have a higher libido than my husband, so if I'm going to have a passionate affair, I'd like to be the one pursued. Make sense?
Sure it does, who doesn't want to be pursued?
But then if you don't step on the gas once in awhile, the car never goes anywhere
Anonymous wrote:ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Have you specifically talked about this, or was it vague but definite flirting that has now stopped with no explanation?
We have specifically talked about this. The flirting hasn't stopped. Things just haven't progressed.
Well then, if you are sure to want to take it further, then make the next move. Get him alone and kiss him.
I'll have to think about that. Other than one time, when he gave me a very short ride somewhere, we've never been alone.
Sure think about it, it's not a decision to be made lightly. As for never being alone, all you need is three minutes to wrap him in your arms and kiss him soundly.
Halloween is for the young and the young at heart.
So I refuse to grow up completely.
So I refuse to grow up completely.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Have you specifically talked about this, or was it vague but definite flirting that has now stopped with no explanation?
We have specifically talked about this. The flirting hasn't stopped. Things just haven't progressed.
Well then, if you are sure to want to take it further, then make the next move. Get him alone and kiss him.
MommyFTW wrote:For those of you who said you bought on Craigslist - I was wondering how you transport the swingset from one place to another. I've seen them for sale and considered it.... but I'm not sure how I'd get it to my house.
Have freind with a pickup and trailer. Buy him beer.
Think of it this way, is it better to take the hour to draft the letter and get it notarized and not need it; or sit on your couch for an hour, not have the letter and then have to scramble to get it at the last minute or even worse be barred from entering the plane.
I'll agree that the Big Bird is a bit rediculous, but the Ninja Turtle?? Va Va Voom
Anonymous wrote:I must say, bold as it is, we're not really friends now. No friendship to ruin.
So then if you aren't worried about that, then go flirt agressively, enjoy yourself. Either he will or he won't. But, either way you will remember what it feels like to be a sexually confident woman. That could be enough to put the spark back in to your marriage.
Anonymous wrote:ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:Anonymous wrote:He might be all flirt and no action, though, as I said. I guess that's safer. Is feeling someone's lust just as good as indulging in it?
It can be, especially if you are unsure if you really want to take it to the next step. Just knowing that you are still sexually desireable to men other then DH, certainly as we get older, can often be enough to encourage you to be the woman that they see. The woman that they lust after.
You know, I would take it to the next step, but not if he's going to be wracked with guilt. I want him to want it as much as I do.
AS to his guilt afterward, who can say. He could agressivly move things forward with you, be with you, and then afterward feel the guilt. You could as well. One thing to remember, is it worth losing him as a freind to sleep with him?
Thanks.