Just be honest with him! Tell him how you feel and what your intentions are. Then the both of you can decide the next step. Good luck!!

Sounds like the two of you formed a nice bond while hospitalized. I believe sometimes the Lord places friends before us for a season. Perhaps, this is what the two of you had. Friends for a season? There is nothing wrong with placing boundaries in your life. Only we know what we can handle and if this friendship is causing you some challenges then I think it is okay to explain to your friend what it is you are feeling. Honesty is the best policy! Good luck to you!!

Potty training can be challenging as well as frustrating. I’m wondering if a routine toileting schedule would help? Have you tried using pull-ups instead of diapers? This may allow your child to feel more grown up and independent. I know we used them for my daughter when she was potty training and I do remember her doing pretty well. It was during the night that took the longest! I think any encouragement and praise that you can offer your child while in this process is great. This is a tricky and vulnerable time. He will get it! Keep at it! You are doing a great job!

Picky eaters can be a challenge! Good job on preparing healthy meals and doing your best to encourage your child to eat a balanced meal. My daughter was the same way. There was a handful of foods that she liked and it was in phases. Pasta and peas for awhile and then on to something else. I found that basic meals helped. She could distinguish which foods were before her. If it was in a casserole or a stir-fry...forget it! Your pediatrician could certainly help you figure out if your child has allergies to certain foods. The doctor could also give you tips on how to keep your child’s meals balanced. I recently came across this article, http://bit.ly/2sDQ7NX, about a picky preschooler. Perhaps, you can find some helpful information here. It sounds like you are doing all you can and I give you a high-five for your efforts!

I’m wondering if your husband feels slightly uncomfortable with the child since he doesn’t get a chance to spend much time with him during the week due to his work schedule. He may have trouble interacting due to nervousness or lack of knowledge of what the child enjoys doing. He may not be secure in his roll as a father on his own. Would you have some time to spend with them so that he can witness what it is that you do with the toddler? What parks the child enjoys, walks that they can take restaurants to visit, games to play or books to read. Does your husband have a friend with a child of similar age? The men can hang out and the children can play. I understand you have responsibilities as well and that is great that your husband helps out so that you can have some free time. He may just need a little training to feel comfortable. Best of luck!