Turning boyfriend into booty call
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Anonymous
| I just don't have time for the drama. I like him but he is a dude, through and through - not what I'm looking for in a partner right now as I'm a single mom, working, and getting ready to do back to school. We are compatible, though, and have hot sex. How do I make the shift? Have a conversation about it or simply have actions speak for themselves? |
Anonymous
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Why keep seeing him if you don't have long term interest?
What makes him good in the bedroom? Just be up front with him. |
Anonymous
I could potentially have long-term interest, but he needs to get his sh** together and I'm not his mother. Despite him being 34 and having a PhD, he's pretty effing immature. We just click in bed. It's awesome. |
Anonymous
| You already have your answer. Just tell him what you wrote here. He might be okay with a friends with benefits type situation. |
Anonymous
| Break up and keep having sex. Sounds great to me. |
Anonymous
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This is easy. Lucky guy.
Enjoy! |
Anonymous
| Wow I could have written this post. |
Anonymous
| NSA sex? He'll think he hit the lottery. |
Anonymous
| Just do what dudes do. Break up. Then text at 2AM "u awake?" |
Anonymous
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Anonymous
| Lucky guy! But I guess this is part of the reason for the rise in STDs. |
Anonymous
| I don't understand why you would do this unless he's got some sexual super power like a huge D or something. |
Anonymous
| Or you could do it de facto |
Anonymous
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Anonymous
He does 
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