Anonymous wrote:In truth, maybe he was just looking for something sexual. I'm 46 and texting wasn't a thing back when I was dating.
The fact that this guy got "steamy" so quickly before they had even been intimate -- is this the norm nowadays? Even when the guy is looking for something more enduring? I don't remember that happening before I had sex with a guy -- but this was back in the 90s, so I know I'm a dinosaur.
Mid-50s man's experience: Yes, it's a thing. I've had steamy phone calls and text sessions with women within 30 minutes of getting their number, before ever meeting. Almost always met them on a personals site. But those sex sluts are more likely to be flaky and less likely to truly be relationship material. But they are fun and serve their purpose.