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I have a him. Wasn't meant to be. Focus on your future.
Could you please just empty it... Sometimes...

Walked up to a ridiculous can tonight, including a massive plastic veggie tray stuffed on top of yesterday's trash. Really?!? FINE... I'll deal with this. ?
Anonymous wrote:Personally, I wouldn't stick my fingers in or on my wife's vagina while she was sleeping. She likes her sleep too much. So, based on my knowledge of her, I know she wouldn't appreciate it.

But, to the larger point, the idea that couples have specifically hashed things out in advance just doesn't fit with the real world experience of (I would guess) most couples. For example, on the other end of the spectrum, I often scratch my wife's back without her consent. I like doing it. She seems to enjoy it as well. But, I've never asked. I don't specifically recall, but I imagine I just did it unannounced one day, she didn't recoil, and so I kept doing it. But I certainly wouldn't do that with a stranger. So, the prior relationship informed my impression of what she had consented to. Thankfully I was right.

Hands in the vagina of a sleeping woman seems a little far to me. But, I will admit that I don't know precisely where or why the line is drawn if hands in the vagina is on the bad side and scratching a back is on the good side.


Err on the side of communication and knowing each other's boundaries. DH open to middle of the night advances, but I'm not pegging him in his sleep as my sexual foreplay. Come on people. This is rape. Black and white.
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Anonymous wrote:Too many ... and yet, not enough.




+1. Don't even ask me about power cords. We have 386577 cords... Mostly all misplaced.
If you haven't figured out men at this point. OK. I'll school you. Here are the reasons:

1. He's not that into you. You are #2 or #3 on his food chain.

2. He's very into you and anxious as hell about appearing over eager.

Of the two, it should be obvious.
Major slut here, not minor. I'm talking record numbers of men that slut-shamers would spend 50+ pages on a spinoff thread discussing.

No regrets. Happy housewife. I married a sexy, fun partner and we are very, very, very exponentially happy!

When you experience n+ cocks, you learn a thing or two about yourself, men and human sexuality.

P.S. Google bought Nest!
Stop waiting for opportunists to recognize your value and become an opportunist.

Silly advice. No one cares more about you than you. Go get 'em!

Ignore the naysayers and push ahead.

If you watched Mad Men, be more Don and less Pete.
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