I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I do not believe that the sheriff did not call back, so...what did the sheriff say, OP?

Why would you not believe it? Because cops never lie?

I am not OP, btw. Just someone who has caught many, many cops in lies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many times did you insist in this thread how out of character this behavior is for him? And then suddenly you act like that other thread was no big deal.

This is completely IN CHARACTER for him. You are willingly continuing to have a relationship with a guy you KNOW lies and cheats and takes advantage of you. You KNOW he doesn't respect you or the time and emotions you have invested in him. You WILL get hurt. You DO NOT have a future with this guy. You DO NOT have a life with this guy.

If you choose to continue in this farce you call a relationship, go in with open eyes and take responsibility. You SHOULD NOT let anyone treat you like this. But if you do, then be prepared for the very obvious consequences.

And after all that, you actually LIED to people (though we may be strangers), who actually were genuinely trying to help you.

It's pretty pathetic. You are at a crossroads now. Continuing in this behavior is shameful, but it is your choice.

This is what's killing me.

I said it was out of character for him to just not call me/text me when he said he would...and it is out of character. He will literally tell me he will call me at say, 6:30 and won't call me 5 mins past.....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I do not believe that the sheriff did not call back, so...what did the sheriff say, OP?

Why would you not believe it? Because cops never lie?

I am not OP, btw. Just someone who has caught many, many cops in lies.

OP here: he did not call me back at all

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Also this makes sitting in rush hour bearable

Please get off your phone while driving. Eyes on the road.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I do not believe that the sheriff did not call back, so...what did the sheriff say, OP?

Why would you not believe it? Because cops never lie?

I am not OP, btw. Just someone who has caught many, many cops in lies.

OP here: he did not call me back at all

If I had reported someone missing and the sheriff hadn't called me back by now, I would call the sheriff back. I can't imagine not doing that, as if you were really worried but then just...got over it? Forgot? That's why I don't believe that he didn't call you back.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many times did you insist in this thread how out of character this behavior is for him? And then suddenly you act like that other thread was no big deal.

This is completely IN CHARACTER for him. You are willingly continuing to have a relationship with a guy you KNOW lies and cheats and takes advantage of you. You KNOW he doesn't respect you or the time and emotions you have invested in him. You WILL get hurt. You DO NOT have a future with this guy. You DO NOT have a life with this guy.

If you choose to continue in this farce you call a relationship, go in with open eyes and take responsibility. You SHOULD NOT let anyone treat you like this. But if you do, then be prepared for the very obvious consequences.

And after all that, you actually LIED to people (though we may be strangers), who actually were genuinely trying to help you.

It's pretty pathetic. You are at a crossroads now. Continuing in this behavior is shameful, but it is your choice.

This is what's killing me.

I said it was out of character for him to just not call me/text me when he said he would...and it is out of character. He will literally tell me he will call me at say, 6:30 and won't call me 5 mins past.....

IT IS NOT OUT OF CHARACTER FOR HIM.

It is only out of character for the fictional version that exists in your head.

THE REAL GUY DOESN'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOU OR YOUR FEELINGS OR YOUR TIME.

Have some respect for yourself. Spend some time thinking about why you chase people who obviously don't think you're worth their respect.

I don't mean to be mean. I just think you are in such fierce denial, you will engage in increasingly destructive relationships. PLEASE STOP. YOU CAN CHOOSE TO BE DIFFERENT.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, are you going to confront him if you can reach him?

Don't be unhelpful. He's not worth any more of OP's time. Confronting a liar is pointless.[/quote

I'm sorry, I've invested my day in this (I know that's my own fault) and I want some closure! So I don't think it's crazy to think that OP might want some closure, or at least to be able to say her peace.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many times did you insist in this thread how out of character this behavior is for him? And then suddenly you act like that other thread was no big deal.

This is completely IN CHARACTER for him. You are willingly continuing to have a relationship with a guy you KNOW lies and cheats and takes advantage of you. You KNOW he doesn't respect you or the time and emotions you have invested in him. You WILL get hurt. You DO NOT have a future with this guy. You DO NOT have a life with this guy.

If you choose to continue in this farce you call a relationship, go in with open eyes and take responsibility. You SHOULD NOT let anyone treat you like this. But if you do, then be prepared for the very obvious consequences.

And after all that, you actually LIED to people (though we may be strangers), who actually were genuinely trying to help you.

It's pretty pathetic. You are at a crossroads now. Continuing in this behavior is shameful, but it is your choice.

This is what's killing me.

I said it was out of character for him to just not call me/text me when he said he would...and it is out of character. He will literally tell me he will call me at say, 6:30 and won't call me 5 mins past.....

That's what he did in February OP, when he would 'go to his grandparents' and 'forget' to text you?
I get that you are trying to say 'well if he told me a time he'd text, he wod text back by that time' but you are missing it. He had a habit of disappearing for hours longer than this new habit of texting when he said he would.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, are you going to confront him if you can reach him?

Don't be unhelpful. He's not worth any more of OP's time. Confronting a liar is pointless.[/quote

I'm sorry, I've invested my day in this (I know that's my own fault) and I want some closure! So I don't think it's crazy to think that OP might want some closure, or at least to be able to say her peace.

You're assuming she's going to get some sort of honest explanation or admission of guilt. People who play these games do not respond that way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I do not believe that the sheriff did not call back, so...what did the sheriff say, OP?

Why would you not believe it? Because cops never lie?

I am not OP, btw. Just someone who has caught many, many cops in lies.

OP here: he did not call me back at all

If I had reported someone missing and the sheriff hadn't called me back by now, I would call the sheriff back. I can't imagine not doing that, as if you were really worried but then just...got over it? Forgot? That's why I don't believe that he didn't call you back.

She got over it as the day went on and we discovered that he was never hunting with his uncle, etc.

[Anonymous]

why can i not see the pic on fb? i know the name - see one guy who isn't him (pic with girl) and then a blank face.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:why can i not see the pic on fb? i know the name - see one guy who isn't him (pic with girl) and then a blank face.

Search the name on FB, not Google. Select "see more."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:why can i not see the pic on fb? i know the name - see one guy who isn't him (pic with girl) and then a blank face.

A) He either doesn't have a profile picture (I know some people do this for security reasons)
B) He has his profile on the strictest security levels so that no non-friends can see anything
C) He used to have a picture but took it down when all this craziness started.

[Anonymous]

And why wasn't she calling those grandparents he seems to be ok spending hours upon hours in the evenings and overnights with? Just finished reading the other thread.

I WANT MY TUESDAY BACK!!!

[Anonymous]

Or on the google search use the green arrow at the end of the search resultt address and select cached site.