| I think this is highly inappropriate. Am I crazy? He’s telling me I have the one with issues and am looking for problems. |
| Are they on a football team? Otherwise, not only no... hell no! |
| His kids, fine as long as it doesn't bother the kids. |
| Did he all of the sudden start this now, at these ages? Or has he always done it? I come from a family of bum pinchers/swatters, so I don't think it's inherently weird. |
I agree. |
Why is it okay on a football team, but not in this situation? It's either weird or it isn't. |
| Need more context. There's a difference between slapping butt when walking by and a back of the hand slap to tell them to bug off or move out of the way. |
| Is this new behavior or something that has been the norm in your family? |
| It is inappropriate. Like Joe Biden kissing his granddaughter full on the mouth kind of inappropriate. Anyone doing those things needs permission from the person it's being done to. |
| Highly inappropriate. |
+1 Also how are you DD reacting? If they're fine, I'd be fine. |
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Disturbing. My friend (female) used to do this to her daughter (in a see an ass, give it a slap way) and her daughter really didn't like it. Not okay.
But this is probably a troll so no need to get too bothered. |
| OP here. When they’re walking by. He’s always been like this but at their ages I think it’s weird. It would have made me uncomfortable if my Dad did this. |
It's not weird, but you're gonna make it weird. |
| I think it's inappropriate. |