DH slapping butts of DD 15 and DD 20

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know what's up with these girls but my girls lay out in the sun with their tops off including my wife. They come inside with just a g string like its natural. Come up to me and ask me "do I look tan" then open the fridge to get a cold drink and walk back outside.

Not art all the same as smacking a teen and young adult daughters butt.

Exactly. Keep the hands off including playful smacks on the butt. Creepy.

[Anonymous]

He's a pedophile.

[Anonymous]

You guys have lost it! My DH and DD poke or squeeze each others butts when they walk by once or twice a day. It's all in good fun. How can you possibly think there is something sexual about it when it's family?! Gross.

[Anonymous]

I also think it’s inappropriate. Sorry. I would tell him to stop, in private.

[Anonymous]

My grandfather used to do this and it made me so. damn. uncomfortable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You guys have lost it! My DH and DD poke or squeeze each others butts when they walk by once or twice a day. It's all in good fun. How can you possibly think there is something sexual about it when it's family?! Gross.

Wow - just re-read what you wrote.

Many victims of sexual abuse report that the abuser IS FAMILY!!

Having said that, I don't think the OPs husband is abusing his daughter. My main concern is that he is normalizing this behavior and making it seem okay to his daughter that unwanted touching is okay. This has far reaching impacts on future relationships

[Anonymous]

I can’t believe anyone thinks this is normal. Wtf

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You guys have lost it! My DH and DD poke or squeeze each others butts when they walk by once or twice a day. It's all in good fun. How can you possibly think there is something sexual about it when it's family?! Gross.

Your daughter squeezes your husband’s (her father’s) butt? And all three of you this is acceptable?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You guys have lost it! My DH and DD poke or squeeze each others butts when they walk by once or twice a day. It's all in good fun. How can you possibly think there is something sexual about it when it's family?! Gross.

Your daughter squeezes your husband’s (her father’s) butt? And all three of you this is acceptable?

Mom, you’re in denial. Not normal for Dad to squeeze his daughter’s sure.

[Anonymous]

Your husband is trapped in the 70s, when this was more common.

If your daughters would prefer he not do this, then he should stop.

[Anonymous]

You married scuz
- not sure we can help

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't know what's up with these girls but my girls lay out in the sun with their tops off including my wife. They come inside with just a g string like its natural. Come up to me and ask me "do I look tan" then open the fridge to get a cold drink and walk back outside.

Can’t imagine this is ok in most families. Even though no touching is involved.

[Anonymous]

I’m much more chill about etiquette, rudeness, etc than most people here but I think your DH is a creep.