I’d also add you’re conflating “overbearing” with having high expectations. Dog whistle a blowin |
Yep. I left at the end of SY 19-20 and got a $20k raise to do corporate training. |
I’m sorry that you’re frustrated, but my observations come from extensive (5+ Years) in both situations. On one side, a majority of families consider themselves an integral part of a team; on the other side you have families that think their tax dollars equal ownership over your life I'm the PP you are replying to and I'll end by saying I'm highly skeptical of this reply. And, I wonder what biases you are bringing to this EOTP school. At the Title I schools where I've worked we haven't had families many, if any at all, families considering themselves an integral part of the team. We have families we can't reach more than anything else. And while the party line has always been we need to get these families involved, the other side of the coin seems to be what you're saying ... only if that involvement supports what the leadership and teachers want to do. Not if it asks questions and even makes demands. (I am not saying 4 emails a day and constant nitpicking is appropriate. But asking questions about why schools weren't reopening as they were around the country may feel pushy and entitled but seems fair to me.) |
"integral part of the team" = don't do anything to rock the boat. |
Good lord stop the teacher bashing. The only thing I’ve demanded of our union this year was to stop throwing up roadblocks to reopening schools. It is unhelpful to throw around cheap shots like that. And if you think $75K/year is extremely well-paid for a highly-effective teacher with 8 years of experience, living in DC, I’m not sure what you would consider a reasonable salary. I consider it adequate, but would be making twice as much if I’d remained in my previous field. MANY of us felt poorly represented by the WTU this year. |
DP here, but why did you leave your previous field then? Also keep in mind that teacher salaries are for 10 months of the year, so your $75K would be $90K if full-time. That's actually a very good salary for someone with only 8 years experience. You could earn more money over the summer if you choose to work full-time instead of the just the 10 month teacher contract with summers off. |
So if you love 99% of your families, why are you changing schools? And you didn’t answer the question about the lack of in-person learning. Any thoughts? |
Sure: teachers don’t set the terms of their employment. I teach in person 7 hours per day but due to restrictions set in place by DC DOH and DCPS students can only be in school some of that time. Your beef isn’t with teachers |
Fellow teacher here who appreciates the term “hot potato”. It is so true that obnoxious parents earn a reputation among teachers at a school and NOBODY wants their kid in their class. Parents should know that the lack of respect you might choose to show teachers ends up impacting your child negatively. As much as we all try to put blinders on to spare the child any negative feelings we might have toward their parent, we’re only human. And we DEFINITELY don’t want to have to deal with YOU on a daily basis. So even if your child is wonderful we still hope they’ll end up in someone else’s class. |
| I should add that most parents are wonderful, supportive, and kind in my experience. But there are some doozies out there who think of you as their personal hired help (it’s their tax dollars, after all, they say). |
nice threat there. and you wonder why more vulnerable/less savvy parents EOTR keep their mouths shut? Due to explicit or implicit threats like this. I have no choice but to advocate for my kid. It’s my job. And if parents had stayed silent this year our school would still be closed, and DL would have been even more if a sh*tshow that it was. |
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Cush gig. That’s hysterical. And west of the park schools are not necessarily better managed. And then there’s still IMPACT, the extremely punitive evaluation instrument whose creator has chosen not to use it at his district because it creates a “climate of fear”. |
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My SO is thinking about it. He’s been a teacher for almost 20 years and it’s the only thing he ever wanted to do. The students are great. But the parents are ridiculous. Teaching isn’t customer service. I have a portfolio of clients and they treat me better and with more respect for my competency and time than these parents treat my SO. |