I had a 5 year affair with a gorgeous woman who’s 17 years younger (and I’m not rich) - AMA

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op Here: We were 50 and 33 when we started. She has no interest in ever getting married (to anyone). My HHI was about $300k at the time we met. Many men find her attractive (5’ tall but very shapely) but yes, it is somewhat subjective. It started out emotional and about a year later transitioned to physical.

Meh. My 49-year old husband makes $500k and bangs me good.

5” is a midget, btw.

Wow, that was uncalled for.

- signed a 5' woman

You didn't mind the post calling the 5' woman a bowling ball or the numerous other derogatory statements?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op Here: We were 50 and 33 when we started. She has no interest in ever getting married (to anyone). My HHI was about $300k at the time we met. Many men find her attractive (5’ tall but very shapely) but yes, it is somewhat subjective. It started out emotional and about a year later transitioned to physical.

Meh. My 49-year old husband makes $500k and bangs me good.

5” is a midget, btw.

Wow, that was uncalled for.

- signed a 5' woman

You didn't mind the post calling the 5' woman a bowling ball or the numerous other derogatory statements?

NP it's all derogatory. It definitely is easier to gain weight at this height, but I see plenty of really tall fat people as well. How about not judging so much.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Women don’t believe these stories because we were all young and hot once and not wasting our time at hotels with old married dudes. At a minimum an old married dude would have to be taking me somewhere nice.

Women with good emotional health can’t relate. Unfortunately there are some damaged people out there who make easy targets for people like OP to take advantage of. It’s truly sad.

Op Here: She initiated and pursued me. I really showed no interest in her initially because I didn’t think she was attainable and she is very culturally different.

You sound racist.

How am I racist? I’m having consensual sex with a woman who was born elsewhere. She pursued me. She can stop this at any time (and may have already). She has no interest in marriage.

Why not get a divorce? Does your marriage vows mean nothing? You are a first class asshole and I hope your wife finds out and divorces you

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Op Here: We were 50 and 33 when we started. She has no interest in ever getting married (to anyone). My HHI was about $300k at the time we met. Many men find her attractive (5’ tall but very shapely) but yes, it is somewhat subjective. It started out emotional and about a year later transitioned to physical.

Meh. My 49-year old husband makes $500k and bangs me good.

5” is a midget, btw.

Wow, that was uncalled for.

- signed a 5' woman

You didn't mind the post calling the 5' woman a bowling ball or the numerous other derogatory statements?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women don’t believe these stories because we were all young and hot once and not wasting our time at hotels with old married dudes. At a minimum an old married dude would have to be taking me somewhere nice.

Women with good emotional health can’t relate. Unfortunately there are some damaged people out there who make easy targets for people like OP to take advantage of. It’s truly sad.

Op Here: She initiated and pursued me. I really showed no interest in her initially because I didn’t think she was attainable and she is very culturally different.

You sound racist.

How am I racist? I’m having consensual sex with a woman who was born elsewhere. She pursued me. She can stop this at any time (and may have already). She has no interest in marriage.

Why not get a divorce? Does your marriage vows mean nothing? You are a first class asshole and I hope your wife finds out and divorces you

And is AP gives birth to his bowling balls!! She’ll really turn into a butterball after pregnancy at 5 feet and “curvy”.

[Anonymous]

Did someone piss in your Cheerios, 10:24? Do you have some kind of obsession with short folk?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Man here and I'm curious about the logistics. Do you charge the hotels on her card so you dont' get caught? Do you go out at all like to dinner, or just hang in the hotel room the whole time?

What excuse do you use to account for the time you're with her?

I have a credit card she doesn’t know about that does paperless billing (and I pay all the bills). Due to the type of jobs we have, we would often travel together. During travel, we would eat all meals together. In town, we would just work “remotely” at a local hotel.

Another man here. I thought of doing it that way but then if that credit card bill _does_ fall into the wrong hands, it's a full accounting of what went on. What I've done is use my hotel frequent guest points and for restaurant bils put them on my usual credit card where it gets mixed up among the 2 pages of other charges I usually have for other stuff. As long as the restaurant location lines up with my alibi.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Women don’t believe these stories because we were all young and hot once and not wasting our time at hotels with old married dudes. At a minimum an old married dude would have to be taking me somewhere nice.

That’s a good point. I don’t know anyone who sold out like this in their 20s or 30s. Not saying it doesn’t happen, but I don’t think it’s that common. Why waste time on a losing game when you can invest in being a winner.

OP said affair partner is short and fat so maybe she settled.

I said short and shapely (by no means fat)

Enjoy this while it lasts I guess (she certainly should!) because this is the fast track to super dumpy real quick.

Fast track meaning 5 feet tall and already "curvy."

He said shapely. Not sure why everyone jumps to the conclusion she must have belly fat rolls. I workout daily, am 20% body fat with clearly defined arms and shoulders and a bubble butt. I consider myself shapely too, just because weight lifting gave me a shape, not because I carry excess fat.

[Anonymous]

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Why not get a divorce? Does your marriage vows mean nothing? You are a first class asshole and I hope your wife finds out and divorces you

Not OP but _why_ should he get a divorce? His DW is not providing sex, and what do marriage vows say about that.

He might as well keep this up as long as possible. If divorce happens, might as well delay it. What benefit is there to him of doing it sooner rather than later?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Women don’t believe these stories because we were all young and hot once and not wasting our time at hotels with old married dudes. At a minimum an old married dude would have to be taking me somewhere nice.

That’s a good point. I don’t know anyone who sold out like this in their 20s or 30s. Not saying it doesn’t happen, but I don’t think it’s that common. Why waste time on a losing game when you can invest in being a winner.

OP said affair partner is short and fat so maybe she settled.

I said short and shapely (by no means fat)

Enjoy this while it lasts I guess (she certainly should!) because this is the fast track to super dumpy real quick.

Fast track meaning 5 feet tall and already "curvy."

He said shapely. Not sure why everyone jumps to the conclusion she must have belly fat rolls. I workout daily, am 20% body fat with clearly defined arms and shoulders and a bubble butt. I consider myself shapely too, just because weight lifting gave me a shape, not because I carry excess fat.

Remember on DCUM, the hens will staunchly defend any body size ("you go girl!") unless it's the OW. Then, this woman is fair game for all kinds of attacks on her body.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op Here: We were 50 and 33 when we started. She has no interest in ever getting married (to anyone). My HHI was about $300k at the time we met. Many men find her attractive (5’ tall but very shapely) but yes, it is somewhat subjective. It started out emotional and about a year later transitioned to physical.

Meh. My 49-year old husband makes $500k and bangs me good.

5” is a midget, btw.

Wow, that was uncalled for.

- signed a 5' woman

You didn't mind the post calling the 5' woman a bowling ball or the numerous other derogatory statements?

NP it's all derogatory. It definitely is easier to gain weight at this height, but I see plenty of really tall fat people as well. How about not judging so much.

I'm the "uncalled for" poster.. I have not read through the entire thread. I only saw the "midget" post.

A short person can do nothing about their height. That's how they were born. That pp was being mean for no other reason than lashing out at the OP who, btw, is an ahole for cheating. But the PP is also an ahole for calling short people names, too.

You both suck.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women don’t believe these stories because we were all young and hot once and not wasting our time at hotels with old married dudes. At a minimum an old married dude would have to be taking me somewhere nice.

That’s a good point. I don’t know anyone who sold out like this in their 20s or 30s. Not saying it doesn’t happen, but I don’t think it’s that common. Why waste time on a losing game when you can invest in being a winner.

OP said affair partner is short and fat so maybe she settled.

I said short and shapely (by no means fat)

Enjoy this while it lasts I guess (she certainly should!) because this is the fast track to super dumpy real quick.

Fast track meaning 5 feet tall and already "curvy."

He said shapely. Not sure why everyone jumps to the conclusion she must have belly fat rolls. I workout daily, am 20% body fat with clearly defined arms and shoulders and a bubble butt. I consider myself shapely too, just because weight lifting gave me a shape, not because I carry excess fat.

Remember on DCUM, the hens will staunchly defend any body size ("you go girl!") unless it's the OW. Then, this woman is fair game for all kinds of attacks on her body.

+1 spot on.

-signed a short female

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here and I'm curious about the logistics. Do you charge the hotels on her card so you dont' get caught? Do you go out at all like to dinner, or just hang in the hotel room the whole time?

What excuse do you use to account for the time you're with her?

I have a credit card she doesn’t know about that does paperless billing (and I pay all the bills). Due to the type of jobs we have, we would often travel together. During travel, we would eat all meals together. In town, we would just work “remotely” at a local hotel.

Another man here. I thought of doing it that way but then if that credit card bill _does_ fall into the wrong hands, it's a full accounting of what went on. What I've done is use my hotel frequent guest points and for restaurant bils put them on my usual credit card where it gets mixed up among the 2 pages of other charges I usually have for other stuff. As long as the restaurant location lines up with my alibi.

my cheater bought visa gift cards at cvs or whole foods. there are several hotels in the area that will accept those. no hotel charges will show up on the bill.

[Anonymous]

What is the point of AMA if you won't answer all the questions? Put up or shut up.

[Anonymous]

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Why not get a divorce? Does your marriage vows mean nothing? You are a first class asshole and I hope your wife finds out and divorces you

Not OP but _why_ should he get a divorce? His DW is not providing sex, and what do marriage vows say about that.

He might as well keep this up as long as possible. If divorce happens, might as well delay it. What benefit is there to him of doing it sooner rather than later?

Exactly. His affair is saving the marriage that his sexless wife wants to stay in (otherwise SHE would divorce).