Does he want his ex back? I’m flying out to spend Valentine’s Day with him tomorrow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not that you'll accept anyone's advice, I think you should completely ditch him. Find things to do in whatever city you're visiting. Get a hotel. Ghost him.

Agree. Pack your *sh while he is at the store and go to a hotel. Sign up for Tinder, meet someone for dinner. Repeat tomorrow. Then go home.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Guys, OP just wants to hear that this is going to work out so she can justify continuing to sleep with him.

I’m genuinely asking...what exactly in my OP makes it seem like he wants her back? I’m not trying to argue, I’m genuinely confused because all I’m seeing is that he’s made a few innocuous posts. So again, I want to know exactly in the OP shows that he wants her back.

OP, how do you explain the gorilla glue/MED post?!

NP

MED
Me every day
Must eat donuts
My excessive d*ckheadedness
Me extra drunk
My egos down
More elephant dung
Make everyone demeaned
My every dream
Must educate dummies


The possibilities are endless!

#MED

[Anonymous]

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So I got here early this morning, about 5 hours ago. He’s out at the store right now. I saw him out the corner of my eye go look at her Instagram story before he headed out.

Are you willing to admit now that we were right? He’s not into you and wants to be with his ex.
How does this show that he’s not into me?

if you are really this dense and argumentative, OP, then you will end up with what you deserve. honestly folks, time to stop responding.

I said this at the beginning of the thread. stop responding to troll OP

This. Late night pathetic troll comes out on a weekly basis. Remember when she claimed that her BF packed condoms for a guys ski trip and then told her to move out before she left? Same trolly OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here’s the gorilla glue post. I think seeing it makes more sense than describing it.

https://imgur.com/a/kEieRFm

There is no way in hell I would be flying out to see a guy who posted that about his ex. Have some respect for yourself!!!!

Just like the idiot who put gorilla glue on her head, he is a tool. 🦍 maybe a wrench 🔧 Op is a nut. 🔩

[Anonymous]

You are also caught in a catch-22. If he doesn’t post a picture of you doing stuff this weekend, he’s trying to hide you and not let her know he’s f-ing someone else.
But if he does post a picture of you, he’s just trying to make her jealous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here’s the gorilla glue post. I think seeing it makes more sense than describing it.

https://imgur.com/a/kEieRFm

There is no way in hell I would be flying out to see a guy who posted that about his ex. Have some respect for yourself!!!!

Well I’m my defense. I didn’t see and I had already booked my flight before my cousin told me.

OP, stop trying to “defend” yourself. There is a lot of value in allowing yourself to change your mind. You might at one point have been lead to believe this guy was into you. It is clear now he is not.

Instead of defending yourself, try doing what is best for you. What is best for you is to spend time with people who genuinely care for and respect you. You owe it to yourself, regardless of your emotional maturity, to do that for yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Guys, OP just wants to hear that this is going to work out so she can justify continuing to sleep with him.

I’m genuinely asking...what exactly in my OP makes it seem like he wants her back? I’m not trying to argue, I’m genuinely confused because all I’m seeing is that he’s made a few innocuous posts. So again, I want to know exactly in the OP shows that he wants her back.

OP, how do you explain the gorilla glue/MED post?!

So I know the meme is based on the gorilla glue girl and she had to have surgery. So MED is medical?

I see her that he started following her other social media in the last 2 weeks...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Guys, OP just wants to hear that this is going to work out so she can justify continuing to sleep with him.

I’m genuinely asking...what exactly in my OP makes it seem like he wants her back? I’m not trying to argue, I’m genuinely confused because all I’m seeing is that he’s made a few innocuous posts. So again, I want to know exactly in the OP shows that he wants her back.

OP, how do you explain the gorilla glue/MED post?!

So I know the meme is based on the gorilla glue girl and she had to have surgery. So MED is medical?

I see her that he started following her other social media in the last 2 weeks...

LOL. MED is the ex’s initials, which has already been established.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I (27/f) met a guy (30) about a month ago through my cousin. My cousin went to school with him and they became best friends, like brother and sister actually. Anyways, I moved back to my hometown about 2 months ago and started hanging out my cousin again. We all hung out as a group and I developed an interest in this guy. We eventually exchanged numbers. My cousin found out and warned me that he had just gotten out of a serious relationship. I asked for more details (how long ago, length of the relationship, etc.)

So the backstory - he was with her for almost 2 years, she was his first very serious adult relationship, he wanted to marry her. They broke up in October but officially stopped talking in December - they had planned for him to spend Xmas with her family. Apparently, he was kind of being jackass towards the end of the relationship and so she said that either they go to couples counseling or he could walk. He told her he wasn’t going to go. So she just told him “okay” then left. They haven’t talked since (December).

As I mentioned he and my cousin are like brother and sister so they hang out quite a bit and he confides in her. My cousin told me that he watches her stories every single time she posts. He liked a post 2 weeks ago that said, “the person you’re stressing over, well they’re f**king someone else, let it go.” Or just a few days ago, “don’t lose your mind over someone who doesn’t mind losing you.” My cousin also told me that it was the ex’s mom’s birthday on the 31st, well he texted the mom happy birthday. My cousin noted that he and the mom weren’t extremely close. Got along, but not close.

He was out a few days ago and got some free merchandise (beenie hats) from a law firm that happened to be the ex’s name. He posted a story saying “oh I got free merchandise from *insert law firm/ex’s name”. My cousin thought he did this on purpose to get her attention, I however just thought it was coincidence and he wanted to show off the free merchandise. Two nights ago he posted a meme that said, “Are you gorilla glue because I can’t can’t get my mind off of you” then with the letters/caption MED under the post. My cousin said the ex’s full name is (changed for post), Mary Elizabeth Donaldson - the ex’s initials are MED. Is that just coincidence?

So after my cousin told me all of this I confided in my best friend. My best friend said she believes he still wants to be with his ex. I disagree, if he still wanted to be with her he wouldn’t forming other relationships with women, aka me. I do, however, still think he’s just grieving the relationship. You can still care about someone and not still want to be with him (why he told her no to counseling) and I’m flying out to spend the Valentine’s Day weekend with him. If I’m with him this weekend it clearly means he doesn’t want her back, IMO.

So does he still want to be with his ex?

OH my gosh YES! you are a fool. These are a lot of red flags for heaven's sake

[Anonymous]

In Op defense, I’d say she’s 27. She still has some little room for immaturity. 

I wouldn’t be that bad that Op’s boyfriend(?) is contacting his ex’s mom if they had a great relationship. When I broke with my ex of two years, I sent his mom a surprise birthday gift that year. I even though I don’t want to see my ex ever again. No even on Tv. I think I see him on TV, and I will break it into a thousand pieces. Lol

She kept in contact with me, and I was "ok" with that because she was nothing but fantastic to me.
I cut(changed my phone number)  communication with her when I got that feeling that my ex was texting me from his mom's phone on her behalf to find out what was going with my life. 

Op, he's desperately (and immaturely) trying to get her (ex's) attention. They did not break up that long ago. And from your post, it doesn't look like it was a contentious breakup. SO there is a high possibility that they will get back together.

You will have to literally fight and put in a lot of work to get him over his ex. Is the Instagram guy that worth it?  

I always jokingly say to my family, the day you see me devaluing myself for a man, please kill me.

[Anonymous]

OP, why are posting here if you’re automatically rejecting analysis of your situation and advice?

[Anonymous]

He is eating his cake.

[Anonymous]

Pandemic, anyone?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Pandemic, anyone?

Can trolls get COVID?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Pandemic, anyone?

Can trolls get COVID?

I’m not a troll
Plenty of people are flying