Does he want his ex back? I’m flying out to spend Valentine’s Day with him tomorrow.

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Anonymous wrote:Most middle schoolers have distorted perception and can be a bit disconnected from realty. Emotions and impulses rule behavior so drama is “normal.”
The dramatic behavior usually simmers down in the later teenage years as people begin to mature. The relationship middlemen (such as the cousin) lose their jobs, face-to-face interaction becomes more solid, it becomes less necessary to play emotional games. By the late 20’s it is possible to have a meaningful relationship - no middlemen, no drama, no insipid BS.
I suspect OP is in middle school.

Nah. These are exactly the kind of women that are in affairs in midlife. Drama is their middle name. Look up 'histrionic personality disorder'.

Jerry, Jerry, Jerry!!!!!!

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Anonymous wrote:You aren't from DC, are you? I am genuinely asking because most 27 year olds in DC are more mature than this. This sounds like some white trash Teen Mom social media drama bullshit.

No, I’m not. I just moved to the area not that long ago. I’m from Chattanooga.

Of course you are, sweetie.

what is that supposed to mean?

It means you're not as sophisticated and worldly as most Washingtonians are in their late 20s. If you've spent a few years here you have a savviness about you by your age, but you're over here acting like some B-list reality show star with the drama and the laundry being aired out for all of the internet to see.

Just a heads up, this isn't some cute "will he or won't he" thing. He won't. He's pathetic and obsessed with the ex and you're pathetic for tolerating this.

And I would say I’m pathetic for reading it, but as a worldly Washingtonian I have that privilege pass that I’m gingerly leaving here before my sentence ends.

What does this even mean?

Bump the thread in 2 years and maybe I’ll divulge at that time.

Op won't make it two years here. She'll be in prison for stalking in whatever town her boo thang lives in.

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Op, you sound like me in my early 20s. Therapy helped a lot. Good luck!

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Anonymous wrote:You aren't from DC, are you? I am genuinely asking because most 27 year olds in DC are more mature than this. This sounds like some white trash Teen Mom social media drama bullshit.

No, I’m not. I just moved to the area not that long ago. I’m from Chattanooga.

Of course you are, sweetie.

what is that supposed to mean?

It means you're not as sophisticated and worldly as most Washingtonians are in their late 20s. If you've spent a few years here you have a savviness about you by your age, but you're over here acting like some B-list reality show star with the drama and the laundry being aired out for all of the internet to see.

Just a heads up, this isn't some cute "will he or won't he" thing. He won't. He's pathetic and obsessed with the ex and you're pathetic for tolerating this.

I 1000% agree OP is pathetic. However, I doubt this dude is “obsessed” with his ex if he’s in another woman’s inbox the next day and she’s blocked, right?

I don't think he's obsessed w/ her or he wouldn't have let her go, lol. He sounds like an indecisive man child who is afraid to be alone. Can't be with the ex but can't be by himself, so he finds someone dumb enough to basically be an on-call hole for him when he gets too lonely.

Op, he's scared to spend the night alone. Move along.

I disagree. He isn’t the one letting her go. It’s the other way around. I saw somewhere in the thread that during their breakup he bought tickets to a concert in the spring, where he knew the ex would be in hopes he’d run into the ex.

Oh lord. I can't keep up with op and her messiness. Regardless, everything I said about op being a warm hole still stands. He's afraid of being alone so he has op at his beck and call to keep him from feeling too lonely while he waits to see what comes of his attempts to get back with MED.

While we're here, can we also discuss how annoying op is? Someone gives her an honest answer and her response to everything is "What do you mean?" We mean he doesn't love you, idiot. Move it.

MED ON MA HEAD 🙉

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No, I’m not. I just moved to the area not that long ago. I’m from Chattanooga.

Of course you are, sweetie.

what is that supposed to mean?

It means you're not as sophisticated and worldly as most Washingtonians are in their late 20s. If you've spent a few years here you have a savviness about you by your age, but you're over here acting like some B-list reality show star with the drama and the laundry being aired out for all of the internet to see.

Just a heads up, this isn't some cute "will he or won't he" thing. He won't. He's pathetic and obsessed with the ex and you're pathetic for tolerating this.

I 1000% agree OP is pathetic. However, I doubt this dude is “obsessed” with his ex if he’s in another woman’s inbox the next day and she’s blocked, right?

I don't think he's obsessed w/ her or he wouldn't have let her go, lol. He sounds like an indecisive man child who is afraid to be alone. Can't be with the ex but can't be by himself, so he finds someone dumb enough to basically be an on-call hole for him when he gets too lonely.

Op, he's scared to spend the night alone. Move along.

I disagree. He isn’t the one letting her go. It’s the other way around. I saw somewhere in the thread that during their breakup he bought tickets to a concert in the spring, where he knew the ex would be in hopes he’d run into the ex.

Oh lord. I can't keep up with op and her messiness. Regardless, everything I said about op being a warm hole still stands. He's afraid of being alone so he has op at his beck and call to keep him from feeling too lonely while he waits to see what comes of his attempts to get back with MED.

While we're here, can we also discuss how annoying op is? Someone gives her an honest answer and her response to everything is "What do you mean?" We mean he doesn't love you, idiot. Move it.

Ha! Yes, very annoying!

I don’t think OP thinks he loves her (hopefully). I think she’s convinced that he likes her.

I agree. She's extremely annoying. I'm 28 and her posts remind me of myself at 22. This has to be some kind of delayed adolescence like Kimmy Schmidt or something.

LMAO Kimmy S. is the perfect description! OP has clearly been living in a doomsday bunker.

I’m sure I’ll get yelled at for saying this...but I can kind of see why she thinks he likes her

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Wait. This thread was hard to keep up with so I missed this - you're actually 22? Ooh lord that's even more sad. So this 30 year old man had a 22 year old at his apartment for the weekend and instead of bonking her brains out he...played video games and walked his dog? LMFAO. Honey, this is so pathetic, please just run.

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You've been posting this all over hell's half acres. What's your plan for when he finds one of these posts lmfao.

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OP is clearly on the non-plan plan.

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Did I miss something? There's a huge gap between 2/14 and 3/2. What happened in that timeframe?

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OP is not real. Stop entertaining this thread. Somehow she only responds to questions that don’t matter and doesn’t react to the 90% of people telling her she is crazy and to get help.

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Aw come one cut OP some slack. I was pretty....remedial....when it came to dating at 22 as well. I can see why this guy may like her.

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Anonymous wrote:Did I miss something? There's a huge gap between 2/14 and 3/2. What happened in that timeframe?

Yea, you missed OP saying we were all wrong....

“So you all were wrong.

he started following me again on IG last night and I followed him back too. Not long after I get a message from his ex saying he got mad at her yesterday and just followed me to strike back at her. That he told her all about me and how he supposedly said he couldn’t wait for me to leave, texted her on vday, asked to go dinner the moment I left. She said he was posting things about her days before I came to see him. Said she had pictures of proof. All this other stuff. She ended it by saying he’s got issues and he’s judging me as a means to hurt her. She just wanted to warn me that so that I wouldn’t get hurt and wished me good luck.

I never looked at the pictures she sent me as “proof”. Just deleted him. I told him and he just said she’s just a jealous crazy ex who got upset when she heard about me. Then I blocked her

I’m clearly the one that he wants. I’m starting to think he just made up “working things out with my ex” because he got cold feet and came to his senses about me.”


Then followed by this...


“ Apparently he begged for her to stay....

my cousin just gave me the rundown of their fight. So he got really angry and hurt that she slept with someone else. Said he still wanted to marry her but said some mean things to her. The ex said him being so angry with her when he did the same thing was hypocritical. Apparently l he begged her to stay and asked that she give him time until the end of the week to see a therapist. She walked out. Then he got really angry with her and then started following me.”

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For the love of G--, please don't get pregnant. Can you imagine a child brought into this mess?

OP, he's just not that into you.

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OP, he's just not that into you.

Then why is he talking to me again if he’s not into me?

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OP, he's just not that into you.

Then why is he talking to me again if he’s not into me?

Did you not read my previous response to you? You have two holes, don't you?