Plain young women vs attractive older woman. Which would men in their 30s and up choose?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are plenty of hot silver foxes out there. DH is my age but I’ve dated older men in the past. I don’t think it’s an issue. I also think it depends on age. A 40 yr old woman and a 60 year old guy is fine. A 20 yr old woman and a 40 year old man is creepy.

PP here, 23:43 on 12/26.

I've had both, a girlfriend in her very early 20's in my late 30's. You think that's creepy and gross? She didn't, at all but that's you.

Tell you what, as a 25 year-old man, I had a 40 year-old girlfriend. She was great and it was a lot of fun.

Do you think that was creepy? Of which party?

[Anonymous]

If you put your real age you will get either much older men who don’t want kids thinking you’re getting past the fertility years or much younger men who only want relationships with women they don’t need to worry about supporting and good sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are plenty of hot silver foxes out there. DH is my age but I’ve dated older men in the past. I don’t think it’s an issue. I also think it depends on age. A 40 yr old woman and a 60 year old guy is fine. A 20 yr old woman and a 40 year old man is creepy.

PP here, 23:43 on 12/26.

I've had both, a girlfriend in her very early 20's in my late 30's. You think that's creepy and gross? She didn't, at all but that's you.

Tell you what, as a 25 year-old man, I had a 40 year-old girlfriend. She was great and it was a lot of fun.

Do you think that was creepy? Of which party?

DP. I think you as an older guy dating a 20 something means you're immature or insecure and we think she's either a golddigger/naiive/insecure or all 3.

As a younger guy dating an older woman we think you're a golddigger/lazy/only good for sex and companionship and she's insecure and naiive getting taken for her money by a younger man.

[Anonymous]

Goodness Grief, reading this only reminds me why I haven't looked at or posted here for a long time.

I remember what my dad told me as a very young man, calling me be name.

"Anonymous, you can't listen to any of their bull shit."

He was talking about girls and women. Carry on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've not read the whole thread, but it's typical DCUM. Older women, petrified of the attraction that younger women provide to men.

I also think this is anti-feminist, insofar as DCUM does not accept that fully adult, young women may experience physical attraction and make their own choices as to whom they will spend time with or be involved with.

Only menopausel women will decide for them and ironically, not a single one of you as young adults gave a crap about what older women thought.

I can't say it better myself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've not read the whole thread, but it's typical DCUM. Older women, petrified of the attraction that younger women provide to men.

I also think this is anti-feminist, insofar as DCUM does not accept that fully adult, young women may experience physical attraction and make their own choices as to whom they will spend time with or be involved with.

Only menopausel women will decide for them and ironically, not a single one of you as young adults gave a crap about what older women thought.

I can't say it better myself.

Let me guess, you’re a man? No one said that young women weren’t capable of making a choice. Just that that choice to date a much older man is not typically based on sexual attraction, it’s based on other factors (money, status, etc). You can pretty much guarantee that if you are the man in that situation she does not love you and you do not turn her on. She probably doesn’t like sex much. Other factors are simply more important to her and she’s not desirable enough to get everything she wants. On the flip side, we also know that chasing youth is the most important thing to the man, which is creepy and desperate.

And when I was in my 20s (I’m mid 30s now) I didn’t care what older women OR men thought because they were both kinda invisible. Just not on my radar beyond family members, coworkers, and family friends. I did care what I thought though - older men just don’t get the juices flowing and felt sleazy when they approached me. I did care what my friends thought though and I would have been mortified to be dating some old dad. Most girls can do better.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I'm a man and "most girls" get to decide for themselves what they want. You don't get a vote.

You said you "cared what your friends thought." Really?

That's pathetic. As a man, I never cared one wit what my "friends thought." And I never kissed and told, because it was none of their damned business.

[Anonymous]

Youth always wins.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Youth always wins.

+1

I think few young women understand they rule the world. They can have anything they want from men.

They only figure this out in menopause, when the start posting to DCUM and realize they can't have that back.

It freaks them out, but it is what it is.

Which is why every world leader and CEO is a young woman. Being fu--able isn't power. Especially since that power disappears in a few years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Youth always wins.

+1

I think few young women understand they rule the world. They can have anything they want from men.

They only figure this out in menopause, when the start posting to DCUM and realize they can't have that back.

It freaks them out, but it is what it is.

Which is why every world leader and CEO is a young woman. Being fu--able isn't power. Especially since that power captures. in a few years.

Exactly. And its only valuable being a thin attractive young woman. Statistics show slim attractive white women are the most likeable and make the most money. Big or big muscular woman don't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Youth always wins.

+1

I think few young women understand they rule the world. They can have anything they want from men.

They only figure this out in menopause, when the start posting to DCUM and realize they can't have that back.

It freaks them out, but it is what it is.

Which is why every world leader and CEO is a young woman. Being fu--able isn't power. Especially since that power captures. in a few years.

Exactly. And its only valuable being a thin attractive young woman. Statistics show slim attractive white women are the most likeable and make the most money. Big or big muscular woman don't.

And none of these men who say that young women are "powerful" because men want them would EVER view their son as "powerful" if his son were 25 and sleeping with a rich older man. Funny how that works.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I'm a man and "most girls" get to decide for themselves what they want. You don't get a vote.

You said you "cared what your friends thought." Really?

That's pathetic. As a man, I never cared one wit what my "friends thought." And I never kissed and told, because it was none of their damned business.

There’s no voting here, just popping your delusional bubble. Yes, I would be embarrassed to date you, grandpa. I wouldn’t want people to think I was a gold digger, had daddy issues, or that I couldn’t do better. You think people think highly of melania?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Youth always wins.

+1

I think few young women understand they rule the world. They can have anything they want from men.

They only figure this out in menopause, when the start posting to DCUM and realize they can't have that back.

It freaks them out, but it is what it is.

Which is why every world leader and CEO is a young woman. Being fu--able isn't power. Especially since that power captures. in a few years.

Exactly. And its only valuable being a thin attractive young woman. Statistics show slim attractive white women are the most likeable and make the most money. Big or big muscular woman don't.

Right? And young women don’t feel so powerful being the subject of unwanted harassment, stalked, kidnapped, abused, and murdered simply because of their bodies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I'm a man and "most girls" get to decide for themselves what they want. You don't get a vote.

You said you "cared what your friends thought." Really?

That's pathetic. As a man, I never cared one wit what my "friends thought." And I never kissed and told, because it was none of their damned business.

There’s no voting here, just popping your delusional bubble. Yes, I would be embarrassed to date you, grandpa. I wouldn’t want people to think I was a gold digger, had daddy issues, or that I couldn’t do better. You think people think highly of melania?

Holy crap. What a creep. Creep 101.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Youth always wins.

+1

I think few young women understand they rule the world. They can have anything they want from men.

They only figure this out in menopause, when the start posting to DCUM and realize they can't have that back.

It freaks them out, but it is what it is.

Which is why every world leader and CEO is a young woman. Being fu--able isn't power. Especially since that power captures. in a few years.

Exactly. And its only valuable being a thin attractive young woman. Statistics show slim attractive white women are the most likeable and make the most money. Big or big muscular woman don't.

Right? And young women don’t feel so powerful being the subject of unwanted harassment, stalked, kidnapped, abused, and murdered simply because of their bodies.

Maybe that is Ivanka posting or one of her Trump man trolls.