Plain young women vs attractive older woman. Which would men in their 30s and up choose?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Yeah, the poor married harpies here just don't want to believe that guys like us are able to enjoy younger women. It's a threat to their self worth as they get older and want to tell themselves that their husband's couldn't do any better should the marriage break up so they have to stay and endure whatever misery she wants to dish out.

Thank you for that chuckle. This poor married harpy sees exactly who you are and I get a kick watching your dates do the mental gymnastics required to be near you. The ego on you is truly overcompensating.

Do you do mental gymnastics to be near your husband? You’re basically saying all old guys are gross. He’s just like these other single older guys...

NP but no. When I was in my 20s I was attracted to men in their 20s. In my 30s I’m attracted to men in their 30s. I’m sure when I’m in my 40s I’ll be attracted to men in their 40s and so on. Don’t be that creepy old guy in his 30s (or worse his 40s or 50s!) at the college bar that in my 20s my girlfriends were making fun of and circling around each other to protect ourselves from you. Seriously, we’re laughing at you. Seems like the old guys in this thread are looking for a young lady with low self esteem to “pick off” and take advantage of. So gross. Dude, she isn’t actually sexually attracted to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a young looking 39. So I put up a dating profile without my age listed and men in their 30s and 40s have been creepy by telling me if I'm nervous about dating an older man or calling me sweetie and other pet names. So my question is if I put up my age would men still be attracted? Or are these just would be pedos?

Why don't you post your photo here and let us decide?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am a young looking 39. So I put up a dating profile without my age listed and men in their 30s and 40s have been creepy by telling me if I'm nervous about dating an older man or calling me sweetie and other pet names. So my question is if I put up my age would men still be attracted? Or are these just would be pedos?

Why don't you post your photo here and let us decide?

Obviously I wouldn't to stay anonymous in an anonymous forum

[Anonymous]

I'm 53 and give me an attractive older woman my age over a plain young woman any day of the week. Attractive isn't just defined by looks even if it starts there. Intelligence, sense of humor and enjoying sex are all part of being attractive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:[Dude, she isn’t actually sexually attracted to you.

Well damn, that's a revelation. She's been faking all that hot sex all those years? If so, she doing a great job and I hope she never stops.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:[Dude, she isn’t actually sexually attracted to you.

Well damn, that's a revelation. She's been faking all that hot sex all those years? If so, she doing a great job and I hope she never stops.

Yep. Let me guess, you think porn is realistic, too? Face it - many (most?) women don’t like sex and so are willing to starfish for your “enjoyment” while they enjoy the stability of being with an older man if they can’t get a successful man their age. Women who love sex seek out sexually attractive men. And yes, older is less sexually attractive to women, too, it’s just that many women aren’t interested in sex so aren’t driven by it. Why do you think so many men are desperate to keep their hair and stay fit? Baldness and weight gain are some of the most telling signs of age in a man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:[Dude, she isn’t actually sexually attracted to you.

Well damn, that's a revelation. She's been faking all that hot sex all those years? If so, she doing a great job and I hope she never stops.

Yep. Let me guess, you think porn is realistic, too? Face it - many (most?) women don’t like sex and so are willing to starfish for your “enjoyment” while they enjoy the stability of being with an older man if they can’t get a successful man their age. Women who love sex seek out sexually attractive men. And yes, older is less sexually attractive to women, too, it’s just that many women aren’t interested in sex so aren’t driven by it. Why do you think so many men are desperate to keep their hair and stay fit? Baldness and weight gain are some of the most telling signs of age in a man.

Yep, we are all prostitutes for the most part

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:[Dude, she isn’t actually sexually attracted to you.

Well damn, that's a revelation. She's been faking all that hot sex all those years? If so, she doing a great job and I hope she never stops.

Yep. Let me guess, you think porn is realistic, too? Face it - many (most?) women don’t like sex and so are willing to starfish for your “enjoyment” while they enjoy the stability of being with an older man if they can’t get a successful man their age. Women who love sex seek out sexually attractive men. And yes, older is less sexually attractive to women, too, it’s just that many women aren’t interested in sex so aren’t driven by it. Why do you think so many men are desperate to keep their hair and stay fit? Baldness and weight gain are some of the most telling signs of age in a man.

You really have a sad view of women. Fortunately, not all women are like you and many enjoy sex as much as any man. And some. of those women prefer older men to men their age. I'm no more stable than a man in his 50s or 40s.

Yep, we are all prostitutes for the most part

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:[Dude, she isn’t actually sexually attracted to you.

Well damn, that's a revelation. She's been faking all that hot sex all those years? If so, she doing a great job and I hope she never stops.

Yep. Let me guess, you think porn is realistic, too? Face it - many (most?) women don’t like sex and so are willing to starfish for your “enjoyment” while they enjoy the stability of being with an older man if they can’t get a successful man their age. Women who love sex seek out sexually attractive men. And yes, older is less sexually attractive to women, too, it’s just that many women aren’t interested in sex so aren’t driven by it. Why do you think so many men are desperate to keep their hair and stay fit? Baldness and weight gain are some of the most telling signs of age in a man.

You really have a sad view of women. Fortunately, not all women are like you and many enjoy sex as much as any man. And some. of those women prefer older men to men their age. I'm no more stable than a man in his 50s or 40s.

Yep, we are all prostitutes for the most part

No, I’m one of the women who enjoys sex. That’s why I married a man my age who I am sexually attracted to! Much older men are invisible to me. If you think I’m wrong about women being interested in sex, check all the threads about women who stop having sex with their husbands and husbands asking what they can do to get their wives to have sex with them once a month. If most women enjoyed sex as much as men you would see more male strip clubs, porn would be totally different, men wouldn’t have to try to hard to pick up women, etc. It’s a tale as old as time. If being with a woman who likes sex is important to you, I’d suggest you find one who finds you sexually attractive. 9.5 times out of 10, that means not being 10 years older than her.

[Anonymous]

This reminds me of a date I went on where the guy started calling me his daughter in the middle of sex. I never hopped out of a bed that fast.

He just got married this year, I hope they don’t have kids.

[Anonymous]

Youth always wins.

[Anonymous]

I've not read the whole thread, but it's typical DCUM. Older women, petrified of the attraction that younger women provide to men.

I also think this is anti-feminist, insofar as DCUM does not accept that fully adult, young women may experience physical attraction and make their own choices as to whom they will spend time with or be involved with.

Only menopausel women will decide for them and ironically, not a single one of you as young adults gave a crap about what older women thought.

[Anonymous]

There are plenty of hot silver foxes out there. DH is my age but I’ve dated older men in the past. I don’t think it’s an issue. I also think it depends on age. A 40 yr old woman and a 60 year old guy is fine. A 20 yr old woman and a 40 year old man is creepy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are plenty of hot silver foxes out there. DH is my age but I’ve dated older men in the past. I don’t think it’s an issue. I also think it depends on age. A 40 yr old woman and a 60 year old guy is fine. A 20 yr old woman and a 40 year old man is creepy.

I’m a 40 yo woman, a 60 yo man is within 3 years of my fathers age. That’s a squicky nope.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This reminds me of a date I went on where the guy started calling me his daughter in the middle of sex. I never hopped out of a bed that fast.

He just got married this year, I hope they don’t have kids.

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