Plain young women vs attractive older woman. Which would men in their 30s and up choose?

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Anonymous wrote:I love that these gullible people are responding when OPs actual question had nothing to do with the topic.

Sorry, you don’t look young enough at 39 to pass for a minor. I’m sure you’re angry that these younger women are not “ plain”.

The real issue is you need therapy. Asking if men who messaged you are pedos is comical. You sound completely delusional and need help.



I expected a lot of stung people with rude and snarky replies. Sorry BUT YOU DO NOT KNOW HOW I LOOK SO YOU DON'T GET TO SAY IF I LOOK YOUNG OR NOT. ONLY THE MEN WHO SAW ME AND MISTOOK ME FOR YOUNGER DO BECAUSE THEY ACTUALLY SAW ME.

I've met plenty of plain younger women. Why would I be angry? The jealousy seems to come from you man.

Why would it be comical? Would you like to be called sweetie at first text or asked if you're nervous about dating an older man?


I stand by what I say. Even if you do look younger, there is no way you look young enough to be under 18. Calling these men pedos is wrong. Maybe you don’t really know the definition?

Men creepy men call women sweetie and say stuff like that. That doesn’t make them pedos.

You seem fixated on your looks, which makes me think you don’t look as young as you think. I don’t get your reasoning for saying you’ve met younger plain women. So? There are many hot younger women and plain older ones. Your title has absolutely nothing to do with your topic.

Stop playing games. I’m wondering if you think these men are pedos because it makes you feel like you just look so young. It could be that your maturity level is that of a teenager. It’s really delusional.


+1. Huge red flags with OP. I’m sure it’s some weird fetish she has about thinking she looks young.

+1. Bet someone left her for a younger woman and she’s trying to cope.


Nice try. I know you're the same poster posting minutes apart. Dcum is full of weirdos like you.
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Anonymous wrote:It seems to me that there have been about three threads started around the same time about young women/old men dating scenarios.

Someone has a real fetish about this.


And he keeps asserting his prowess. It’s creepy, Gpa.
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Anonymous wrote:It's a perfect age for me. I date late 30s to 40s but I'm in my early 60s.


You are too old for anyone under 55.
55 is too old for me, sorry. 50 is pushing it for most women. Early 40s is the sweet spot.


Old guys always think they are able to pull young. It’s comical.

I have no reason to lie or care what you think of this nameless guy on this forum. I've been pulling the younger ones for ever 15 years. It's not as easy as for a younger guy for sure as the percentage of women who will date much older is small. But their are still enough of them out there and I've learned how to find them.


52M y/o here, not sure why this guys claims are so hard to comprehend. I can't vouch for the over 55 to 60+ ages, but my close group of divorced guys which is 5 guys and include the other guys who go out w/ them who are also casual friends of mine ( so this is a group of at least 8-10, 50-55 year old men) Almost every single one of them dates girls close to 12-15 years younger... two guys date girls 10 years younger, one dates a girl only 5 years younger, the remainder date 13/14 years younger. nothing comical about it many of these guys have only dated girls in this age group.


Haha key word is “date.” They aren’t actually interested in these men. They are looking for a short term pay out. Are you that naive?
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Anonymous wrote:It's a perfect age for me. I date late 30s to 40s but I'm in my early 60s.


You are too old for anyone under 55.
55 is too old for me, sorry. 50 is pushing it for most women. Early 40s is the sweet spot.


Old guys always think they are able to pull young. It’s comical.

I have no reason to lie or care what you think of this nameless guy on this forum. I've been pulling the younger ones for ever 15 years. It's not as easy as for a younger guy for sure as the percentage of women who will date much older is small. But their are still enough of them out there and I've learned how to find them.


52M y/o here, not sure why this guys claims are so hard to comprehend. I can't vouch for the over 55 to 60+ ages, but my close group of divorced guys which is 5 guys and include the other guys who go out w/ them who are also casual friends of mine ( so this is a group of at least 8-10, 50-55 year old men) Almost every single one of them dates girls close to 12-15 years younger... two guys date girls 10 years younger, one dates a girl only 5 years younger, the remainder date 13/14 years younger. nothing comical about it many of these guys have only dated girls in this age group.


Haha key word is “date.” They aren’t actually interested in these men. They are looking for a short term pay out. Are you that naive?
Guy in early 60s. Current GF is 14 years younger and we've been together going on 8 years. Moving in together in a few months, talking marriage.
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Anonymous wrote:It's a perfect age for me. I date late 30s to 40s but I'm in my early 60s.


You are too old for anyone under 55.
55 is too old for me, sorry. 50 is pushing it for most women. Early 40s is the sweet spot.


Old guys always think they are able to pull young. It’s comical.

I have no reason to lie or care what you think of this nameless guy on this forum. I've been pulling the younger ones for ever 15 years. It's not as easy as for a younger guy for sure as the percentage of women who will date much older is small. But their are still enough of them out there and I've learned how to find them.


52M y/o here, not sure why this guys claims are so hard to comprehend. I can't vouch for the over 55 to 60+ ages, but my close group of divorced guys which is 5 guys and include the other guys who go out w/ them who are also casual friends of mine ( so this is a group of at least 8-10, 50-55 year old men) Almost every single one of them dates girls close to 12-15 years younger... two guys date girls 10 years younger, one dates a girl only 5 years younger, the remainder date 13/14 years younger. nothing comical about it many of these guys have only dated girls in this age group.


Haha key word is “date.” They aren’t actually interested in these men. They are looking for a short term pay out. Are you that naive?
Guy in early 60s. Current GF is 14 years younger and we've been together going on 8 years. Moving in together in a few months, talking marriage.


52M Prior poster, sorry semantics at play here.. these guys "dated" this age ever since they became bachelors and are dating aka have girlfriends that they have been together with for 1-5 years in all the cases of the friends I mentioned
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Yeah, the poor married harpies here just don't want to believe that guys like us are able to enjoy younger women. It's a threat to their self worth as they get older and want to tell themselves that their husband's couldn't do any better should the marriage break up so they have to stay and endure whatever misery she wants to dish out.
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Anonymous wrote:Yeah, the poor married harpies here just don't want to believe that guys like us are able to enjoy younger women. It's a threat to their self worth as they get older and want to tell themselves that their husband's couldn't do any better should the marriage break up so they have to stay and endure whatever misery she wants to dish out.


Women who aren't insecure know men are going to prefer youth. Same as how secure men know that penis and wallet size and a full head of hair are all female preference. Just is.

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An average 20s female is generally more sexually attractive 40s female.

If looking to have kids and a family, I would choose younger. If looking to date casually, whomever I had better chemistry with. Since I am not currently looking for something serious, I date all ages
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Anonymous wrote:It's a perfect age for me. I date late 30s to 40s but I'm in my early 60s.


You are too old for anyone under 55.
55 is too old for me, sorry. 50 is pushing it for most women. Early 40s is the sweet spot.


Old guys always think they are able to pull young. It’s comical.

I have no reason to lie or care what you think of this nameless guy on this forum. I've been pulling the younger ones for ever 15 years. It's not as easy as for a younger guy for sure as the percentage of women who will date much older is small. But their are still enough of them out there and I've learned how to find them.


52M y/o here, not sure why this guys claims are so hard to comprehend. I can't vouch for the over 55 to 60+ ages, but my close group of divorced guys which is 5 guys and include the other guys who go out w/ them who are also casual friends of mine ( so this is a group of at least 8-10, 50-55 year old men) Almost every single one of them dates girls close to 12-15 years younger... two guys date girls 10 years younger, one dates a girl only 5 years younger, the remainder date 13/14 years younger. nothing comical about it many of these guys have only dated girls in this age group.


Haha key word is “date.” They aren’t actually interested in these men. They are looking for a short term pay out. Are you that naive?
Guy in early 60s. Current GF is 14 years younger and we've been together going on 8 years. Moving in together in a few months, talking marriage.


And? That doesn’t contradict anything I wrote. Sorry, grandpa, it’s a pretty efficient market. If she is with a much older man, it is either because no one her age range is interested or because she is using him for money/success. There is no romantic love or attraction. I see a sexless future for you. The only way I could hold my nose at marrying a guy 15 years older is if I didn’t have to have sex with him.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It's a perfect age for me. I date late 30s to 40s but I'm in my early 60s.


You are too old for anyone under 55.
55 is too old for me, sorry. 50 is pushing it for most women. Early 40s is the sweet spot.


Old guys always think they are able to pull young. It’s comical.

I have no reason to lie or care what you think of this nameless guy on this forum. I've been pulling the younger ones for ever 15 years. It's not as easy as for a younger guy for sure as the percentage of women who will date much older is small. But their are still enough of them out there and I've learned how to find them.


Pulling the younger ones????? You've learned how to find them???

I just vomited in my mouth. You sound like a serial killer.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It's a perfect age for me. I date late 30s to 40s but I'm in my early 60s.


You are too old for anyone under 55.
55 is too old for me, sorry. 50 is pushing it for most women. Early 40s is the sweet spot.


Old guys always think they are able to pull young. It’s comical.

I have no reason to lie or care what you think of this nameless guy on this forum. I've been pulling the younger ones for ever 15 years. It's not as easy as for a younger guy for sure as the percentage of women who will date much older is small. But their are still enough of them out there and I've learned how to find them.


Pulling the younger ones????? You've learned how to find them???

I just vomited in my mouth. You sound like a serial killer.

OMG I know. Sounds like a fetish. Sure, if she is the only thing you care about you can find SOMEONE willing to put up with you. She’s mean, unemployed, and unattractive but she’s 22! I’m the man!
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Youth always wins.
Anonymous
This is sad. Who cares, the comparison is not valid. Men want young women if they are looking for a family. Plain young will always win over older. Truth hurts, dust the webs off and find someone for yourself.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Yeah, the poor married harpies here just don't want to believe that guys like us are able to enjoy younger women. It's a threat to their self worth as they get older and want to tell themselves that their husband's couldn't do any better should the marriage break up so they have to stay and endure whatever misery she wants to dish out.


Thank you for that chuckle. This poor married harpy sees exactly who you are and I get a kick watching your dates do the mental gymnastics required to be near you. The ego on you is truly overcompensating.
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Anonymous wrote:Yeah, the poor married harpies here just don't want to believe that guys like us are able to enjoy younger women. It's a threat to their self worth as they get older and want to tell themselves that their husband's couldn't do any better should the marriage break up so they have to stay and endure whatever misery she wants to dish out.


Thank you for that chuckle. This poor married harpy sees exactly who you are and I get a kick watching your dates do the mental gymnastics required to be near you. The ego on you is truly overcompensating.


Do you do mental gymnastics to be near your husband? You’re basically saying all old guys are gross. He’s just like these other single older guys...
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