Plain young women vs attractive older woman. Which would men in their 30s and up choose?

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Anonymous wrote:Women like to date men who have been with other attractive women. My former wife is hot and I know that women I date now google her.

This is so stupid

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:53 yo man here. I would ALWAYS choose an older woman who has stayed in shape over her younger self.

Must be a fatty

[Anonymous]

I love that these gullible people are responding when OPs actual question had nothing to do with the topic.

Sorry, you don’t look young enough at 39 to pass for a minor. I’m sure you’re angry that these younger women are not “ plain”.

The real issue is you need therapy. Asking if men who messaged you are pedos is comical. You sound completely delusional and need help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love that these gullible people are responding when OPs actual question had nothing to do with the topic.

Sorry, you don’t look young enough at 39 to pass for a minor. I’m sure you’re angry that these younger women are not “ plain”.

The real issue is you need therapy. Asking if men who messaged you are pedos is comical. You sound completely delusional and need help.

I expected a lot of stung people with rude and snarky replies. Sorry BUT YOU DO NOT KNOW HOW I LOOK SO YOU DON'T GET TO SAY IF I LOOK YOUNG OR NOT. ONLY THE MEN WHO SAW ME AND MISTOOK ME FOR YOUNGER DO BECAUSE THEY ACTUALLY SAW ME.

I've met plenty of plain younger women. Why would I be angry? The jealousy seems to come from you man.

Why would it be comical? Would you like to be called sweetie at first text or asked if you're nervous about dating an older man?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's a perfect age for me. I date late 30s to 40s but I'm in my early 60s.

You are too old for anyone under 55.

55 is too old for me, sorry. 50 is pushing it for most women. Early 40s is the sweet spot.

Old guys always think they are able to pull young. It’s comical.

I have no reason to lie or care what you think of this nameless guy on this forum. I've been pulling the younger ones for ever 15 years. It's not as easy as for a younger guy for sure as the percentage of women who will date much older is small. But their are still enough of them out there and I've learned how to find them.

52M y/o here, not sure why this guys claims are so hard to comprehend. I can't vouch for the over 55 to 60+ ages, but my close group of divorced guys which is 5 guys and include the other guys who go out w/ them who are also casual friends of mine ( so this is a group of at least 8-10, 50-55 year old men) Almost every single one of them dates girls close to 12-15 years younger... two guys date girls 10 years younger, one dates a girl only 5 years younger, the remainder date 13/14 years younger. nothing comical about it many of these guys have only dated girls in this age group.

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Anonymous wrote:It's a perfect age for me. I date late 30s to 40s but I'm in my early 60s.

You are too old for anyone under 55.

55 is too old for me, sorry. 50 is pushing it for most women. Early 40s is the sweet spot.

Old guys always think they are able to pull young. It’s comical.

I have no reason to lie or care what you think of this nameless guy on this forum. I've been pulling the younger ones for ever 15 years. It's not as easy as for a younger guy for sure as the percentage of women who will date much older is small. But their are still enough of them out there and I've learned how to find them.

52M y/o here, not sure why this guys claims are so hard to comprehend. I can't vouch for the over 55 to 60+ ages, but my close group of divorced guys which is 5 guys and include the other guys who go out w/ them who are also casual friends of mine ( so this is a group of at least 8-10, 50-55 year old men) Almost every single one of them dates girls close to 12-15 years younger... two guys date girls 10 years younger, one dates a girl only 5 years younger, the remainder date 13/14 years younger. nothing comical about it many of these guys have only dated girls in this age group.

It’s both that it’s unbelievable. It’s the immature self image. You’re still old, closer to being their dad.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:53 yo man here. I would ALWAYS choose an older woman who has stayed in shape over her younger self.

Must be a fatty

Dead wrong. Single digit body fat.

[Anonymous]

I'm confused. So, you don't want to put your age because you don't want people turned off by how old you are, BUT you also don't want people thinking you're younger than 39?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love that these gullible people are responding when OPs actual question had nothing to do with the topic.

Sorry, you don’t look young enough at 39 to pass for a minor. I’m sure you’re angry that these younger women are not “ plain”.

The real issue is you need therapy. Asking if men who messaged you are pedos is comical. You sound completely delusional and need help.

+1. The title has nothing to do with OP's situation. Also, there are plenty of attractive younger women on dating sites. It's not like these men just have a choice between beautiful older women and "plain" younger women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women like to date men who have been with other attractive women. My former wife is hot and I know that women I date now google her.

This is true. Following my divorce, all of my ex husband's gfs were oddly unattractive. It seriously had me questioning my attractiveness level.

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Anonymous wrote:Women like to date men who have been with other attractive women. My former wife is hot and I know that women I date now google her.

This is true. Following my divorce, all of my ex husband's gfs were oddly unattractive.
It seriously had me questioning my attractiveness level.

Maybe he was dating them for the sex?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I love that these gullible people are responding when OPs actual question had nothing to do with the topic.

Sorry, you don’t look young enough at 39 to pass for a minor. I’m sure you’re angry that these younger women are not “ plain”.

The real issue is you need therapy. Asking if men who messaged you are pedos is comical. You sound completely delusional and need help.

I expected a lot of stung people with rude and snarky replies. Sorry BUT YOU DO NOT KNOW HOW I LOOK SO YOU DON'T GET TO SAY IF I LOOK YOUNG OR NOT. ONLY THE MEN WHO SAW ME AND MISTOOK ME FOR YOUNGER DO BECAUSE THEY ACTUALLY SAW ME.

I've met plenty of plain younger women. Why would I be angry? The jealousy seems to come from you man.

Why would it be comical? Would you like to be called sweetie at first text or asked if you're nervous about dating an older man?

I stand by what I say. Even if you do look younger, there is no way you look young enough to be under 18. Calling these men pedos is wrong. Maybe you don’t really know the definition?

Men creepy men call women sweetie and say stuff like that. That doesn’t make them pedos.

You seem fixated on your looks, which makes me think you don’t look as young as you think. I don’t get your reasoning for saying you’ve met younger plain women. So? There are many hot younger women and plain older ones. Your title has absolutely nothing to do with your topic.

Stop playing games. I’m wondering if you think these men are pedos because it makes you feel like you just look so young. It could be that your maturity level is that of a teenager. It’s really delusional.

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Anonymous wrote:I love that these gullible people are responding when OPs actual question had nothing to do with the topic.

Sorry, you don’t look young enough at 39 to pass for a minor. I’m sure you’re angry that these younger women are not “ plain”.

The real issue is you need therapy. Asking if men who messaged you are pedos is comical. You sound completely delusional and need help.

I expected a lot of stung people with rude and snarky replies. Sorry BUT YOU DO NOT KNOW HOW I LOOK SO YOU DON'T GET TO SAY IF I LOOK YOUNG OR NOT. ONLY THE MEN WHO SAW ME AND MISTOOK ME FOR YOUNGER DO BECAUSE THEY ACTUALLY SAW ME.

I've met plenty of plain younger women. Why would I be angry? The jealousy seems to come from you man.

Why would it be comical? Would you like to be called sweetie at first text or asked if you're nervous about dating an older man?

I stand by what I say. Even if you do look younger, there is no way you look young enough to be under 18. Calling these men pedos is wrong. Maybe you don’t really know the definition?

Men creepy men call women sweetie and say stuff like that. That doesn’t make them pedos.

You seem fixated on your looks, which makes me think you don’t look as young as you think. I don’t get your reasoning for saying you’ve met younger plain women. So? There are many hot younger women and plain older ones. Your title has absolutely nothing to do with your topic.

Stop playing games. I’m wondering if you think these men are pedos because it makes you feel like you just look so young. It could be that your maturity level is that of a teenager. It’s really delusional.

+1. Huge red flags with OP. I’m sure it’s some weird fetish she has about thinking she looks young.

[Anonymous]

It seems to me that there have been about three threads started around the same time about young women/old men dating scenarios.

Someone has a real fetish about this.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I love that these gullible people are responding when OPs actual question had nothing to do with the topic.

Sorry, you don’t look young enough at 39 to pass for a minor. I’m sure you’re angry that these younger women are not “ plain”.

The real issue is you need therapy. Asking if men who messaged you are pedos is comical. You sound completely delusional and need help.

I expected a lot of stung people with rude and snarky replies. Sorry BUT YOU DO NOT KNOW HOW I LOOK SO YOU DON'T GET TO SAY IF I LOOK YOUNG OR NOT. ONLY THE MEN WHO SAW ME AND MISTOOK ME FOR YOUNGER DO BECAUSE THEY ACTUALLY SAW ME.

I've met plenty of plain younger women. Why would I be angry? The jealousy seems to come from you man.

Why would it be comical? Would you like to be called sweetie at first text or asked if you're nervous about dating an older man?

I stand by what I say. Even if you do look younger, there is no way you look young enough to be under 18. Calling these men pedos is wrong. Maybe you don’t really know the definition?

Men creepy men call women sweetie and say stuff like that. That doesn’t make them pedos.

You seem fixated on your looks, which makes me think you don’t look as young as you think. I don’t get your reasoning for saying you’ve met younger plain women. So? There are many hot younger women and plain older ones. Your title has absolutely nothing to do with your topic.

Stop playing games. I’m wondering if you think these men are pedos because it makes you feel like you just look so young. It could be that your maturity level is that of a teenager. It’s really delusional.

+1. Huge red flags with OP. I’m sure it’s some weird fetish she has about thinking she looks young.

+1. Bet someone left her for a younger woman and she’s trying to cope.