It's too bad our country won't use this guidance at the national level. You have schools opening in the south that are way above the tipping point. And the only way to get to <1 and stay there is to keep everything else shutdown- like back to early spring. As soon as you start opening things back up at all and allowing gatherings it's going to go up. So if this is what local officials are going to use, they need to be honest with people that they chose the "everything else" over schools. I just don't see a path to having both. A lot of countries in Europe are not really testing, so I'd be skeptical of their numbers. My friend who currently lives in Estonia said that no one is wearing masks or distancing anymore. They never had much of an outbreak to begin with but chances are if it does creep back in there, there will be widespread community transmission before they even know it. |
We have had subpar take out since March. Everyone keeps saying that we need to continue to support local restaurants and should understand that there will be a difference from our prepandemic experience. |
But you'd be cool with me only performing 50% of my cybersecurity job from home, right? What could go wrong? |
Find new restaurants- I've had many good meals. |
You probably only do 1/3rd of your job now - like it’d make a difference
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Yeah, but the problem is that the old restaurant that gave us food poisoning still has our credit card and keeps charging us for meals that they don't even deliver any more! They just keep sending us hastily scribbled recipes and say it's our responsibility to cook for ourselves now. |
No she isn’t. Her point is that parents with kids going to school are just as likely to die as teachers (not very). |
I like this analogy, I honestly think the teachers on here taking hard line stances are trolls or otherwise not serious. Any teacher, particularly of young elementary, who says with a straight face that they have a telework job is being obtuse. Despite how much chaos it has caused for me, I do support schools being closed. Just don't gaslight me to tell me that this is an acceptable situation, rather than the best of all of the terrible options that exist right now. |
+1. Also the loudest voices tend to be the ones heard. There is one teacher on my local moms listserv who is constantly flooding it with anti-open posts but I get the sense that literally nothing will make her happy. She has a hysterical answer to anyone who dares to bring up a counter point. I think she’s posted on here to as I recognize some of the same arguments. Most of the teachers I know IRL have a more nuanced view of it and would go back if asked. |
I wrote that a majority don’t think it’s safe - question 6. 56% |
The teachers' position that they don't want to return to their dreadful commutes or have childcare issues is not understandable at all. |
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Because parents don't have to see what the conditions are like in the schools. They don't have to deal with how filthy or understocked schools are. Parents don't have to contend with the incredibly unrealistic expectations that children will sit still for seven hours a day in a mask. They won't be the ones trying to control a classroom full of kids who are frustrated and bored and restless from a day with no gym, no recess, no games, and none of the things that keep kids motivated to do academic work. They don't have to watch twenty kids without a break while simultaneously educating them, assessing them, and keeping them safe from a deadly virus.
My district is going back. If it is a nightmare, then I will leave. I don't have the emotional bandwidth to teach my special education students in this dystopian nightmare. None of my colleagues do. I know that none of this will work for my students, but we are supposed to smile and pretend that it will. I can't plan because they have given us absolutely no information about who, what, or how we will be teaching. The summer has been so full of anxiety and dread. On top of that, I see parents pitching fits about how they want teachers to be fired and an enormous amount of vitriol being expressed towards us. It's discouraging and it is starting to impact my mental health, on top of all the stress and uncertainty we are ALL experiencing. |
| OP's question has a false premise and is trying to set up and us v. them; when really people have mixed feelings on all sides. |
The best survey I saw showed that only 13 percent of parents wanted schools to reopen full time. The rest wanted them closed or wanted them open on a hybrid model with lots of protections. But the logistics of that hybrid model and those protections are very complicated. I want schools to reopen, but only if they can do so safely for kids and staff. And that means that community spread needs to be stamped out, which it could be if bars, indoor dining, and other indoor activities with high risk of transmission were closed. But we can't eat our cake and have it, too, so here we are. |
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Mixed feelings yes, but there are not just 2 solutions. In person or DL.
There are a million things in between and how disappointing it is as a parent that schools are only providing these 2 options as if there are not other options. You can have highschool DL while have grade schools in person. You can restructure classes to make them smaller and utilize support staff in new ways who may not be needed (librarians for example). You can offer new school hours or new locations (like high schools not being used). You can offer outdoor classes as weather permits. All we parents here are excuses and that DL is amazing yet what we have been shown in Spring was far from amazing and was quite frankly, phoned in at best (were there a rare few good ones? Don't know, every parent i know only had 1 zoom meeting a week to play games or do show and tell). Why not try DL for a month and if certain benchmarks aren't met then it is not working. Or better yet, try in person with some modifications that aren't thrown together like we are back in March. They have had months to figure this out. For teachers to say Parents need to parent. I agree. But my job as a parent is not to be the sole educator of my children. If you think it is then we need to reevaluate where our tax dollars are going because schools will never be needed again. |