How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?

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No. I bet the sexless marriage guy posted this because he thinks all women has sex because his wife doesn't want to have sex with him.

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Maybe if you all weren't used up by so many men before marriage, you would want to have sex with your husband. Don't marry if you want to never have sex, or complain when he gets it elsewhere.

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Anonymous wrote:No. I bet the sexless marriage guy posted this because he thinks all women has sex because his wife doesn't want to have sex with him.

Most people are in sexless marriages because the women decide or it was bait and switch. They give it to every man before marriage, but won't have sex with the man they chose to spend their lives with and the man they supposedly love.

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Anonymous wrote:The person equating evolution to less sex is an absolute moron. The level of social darwanistic bullshit that goes into that belief is nothing short of extraordinary. Go on. Feel evolutionarily superior, but you’re just a frigid asshole.

Have another drink Karen

You failed in your use of that meme.

No you just don’t get it Karen.

Not the pp but you are way off...you are more Karen vs the poster you are calling Karen...Karen.

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Anonymous wrote:The person equating evolution to less sex is an absolute moron. The level of social darwanistic bullshit that goes into that belief is nothing short of extraordinary. Go on. Feel evolutionarily superior, but you’re just a frigid asshole.

Have another drink Karen

You failed in your use of that meme.

No you just don’t get it Karen.

Not the pp but you are way off...you are more Karen vs the poster you are calling Karen...Karen.

Sit down boomer.

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Anonymous wrote:No. I bet the sexless marriage guy posted this because he thinks all women has sex because his wife doesn't want to have sex with him.

You can’t credit one guy for all these different women (most respondents) who are agreeing.

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Not me. Been with my love 10 years and we still get it on 2- 5 times a week- often very passionately. However, I was married once before, and when I started resenting and feeling badly towards him, sex became no fun. That's the key, for me- it's not how long were together, its how connected we are. 10 years in and we still talk well, no resentment or big issues. I need mental connection and compassion in my relationship. Seems hard to find.

I did, however, keep having sex with my ex DH until we separated.

I will note that in my current marriage, our kids are grown- children can really mess up a sex life.

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Anonymous wrote:No, I’m 64 and I still really like that my husband wants to pound the mattress with me at least once a week. It may be for his pleasure but I get off on it too.

Gross

Why gross?

NP, trying to get the visual out of my head of senior citizens "pounding mattress"

Ummm, what's so terrible? You will get there someday. I'm in my 50s and boyfriend is 62. He is HOT and puts all previous lovers to shame. No pills needed either. God, he's hot!

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Anonymous wrote:No, I’m 64 and I still really like that my husband wants to pound the mattress with me at least once a week. It may be for his pleasure but I get off on it too.

Gross

Why gross?

NP, trying to get the visual out of my head of senior citizens "pounding mattress"

Ummm, what's so terrible? You will get there someday. I'm in my 50s and boyfriend is 62. He is HOT and puts all previous lovers to shame. No pills needed either. God, he's hot!

That’s so sweet. Former PP has weird hangups. She probably believes storks bring babies.

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Anonymous wrote:Married 22 years. We’re finally slowing down after 24 years together of having sex every other day except for post-partum. I’d say we’re about 3x a week now. We need it physically or we both get grumpy. I have GF’s who could say goodbye to sex forever and be fine. I don’t get it but I appreciate their feelings.

So you were grumpy all of past Partum. Are you spoiled teens?

Why are people on this Board so obnoxious?! No, we weren’t grumpy all of post partum. We were exhausted from lack of sleep and adjusting to parenthood. Sex was the last thing on our minds. But, as soon as our kids start sleeping reliably and we got a handle on parenthood we resumed our active sex life. But, yes, if/when we’ve gone a week or more without sex we crave it and get grumpy. Sorry you have no sex drive.

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Anonymous wrote:Married 22 years. We’re finally slowing down after 24 years together of having sex every other day except for post-partum. I’d say we’re about 3x a week now. We need it physically or we both get grumpy. I have GF’s who could say goodbye to sex forever and be fine. I don’t get it but I appreciate their feelings.

So you were grumpy all of past Partum. Are you spoiled teens?

Why are people on this Board so obnoxious?! No, we weren’t grumpy all of post partum. We were exhausted from lack of sleep and adjusting to parenthood. Sex was the last thing on our minds. But, as soon as our kids start sleeping reliably and we got a handle on parenthood we resumed our active sex life. But, yes, if/when we’ve gone a week or more without sex we crave it and get grumpy. Sorry you have no sex drive.

Why are people so ignorant on this site.

So your grumpiness is a choice .. postpartum you chose to not focus on sex. But otherwise any grumpy response is an unhealthy choice.

Idk about you but I was going at it before the doctor even recommended it. Post partum.... I don’t blame my grumpiness on my H when he can’t deliver the goods.

You need a good toy, you sound grumpy now... maybe your I’s aren’t doing it... more like hiccups. It happens post kids.

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We’ve been married 37 years and I still enjoy sex about once a week. Last night my husband gave me such a wonderful massage that I fell asleep. So this morning I made sure to repay the kindness. I could live without sex if something were to happen to my husband but as long as he’s ready, willing and able I love being a very active participant.

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Anonymous wrote:No. I bet the sexless marriage guy posted this because he thinks all women has sex because his wife doesn't want to have sex with him.

Most people are in sexless marriages because the women decide or it was bait and switch. They give it to every man before marriage, but won't have sex with the man they chose to spend their lives with and the man they supposedly love.

No- we just aren’t into it with our middle- aged, pot- bellied husbands. I prefer my AP.

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Anonymous wrote:No. I bet the sexless marriage guy posted this because he thinks all women has sex because his wife doesn't want to have sex with him.

Most people are in sexless marriages because the women decide or it was bait and switch. They give it to every man before marriage, but won't have sex with the man they chose to spend their lives with and the man they supposedly love.

No- we just aren’t into it with our middle- aged, pot- bellied husbands. I prefer my AP.

ok, guy.

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Anonymous wrote:The person equating evolution to less sex is an absolute moron. The level of social darwanistic bullshit that goes into that belief is nothing short of extraordinary. Go on. Feel evolutionarily superior, but you’re just a frigid asshole.

Have another drink Karen

You failed in your use of that meme.

No you just don’t get it Karen.

Not the pp but you are way off...you are more Karen vs the poster you are calling Karen...Karen.

Sit down boomer.

Okay Karen