How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m in my late 30s and my sex drive has really ramped up.
-DW

Yep this happens right before it dies.

That’s what happened to me. Off the chart high libido, then nothing. However, I think a lot of it is because I’m not into sex with DH. He’s beginning to have trouble with ED but won’t see a doctor about it. I’m so tired of all the extra work to try to keep him going so I can almost feel good before he loses it and then pouts for 2 days because he didn’t get to finish either. We’re down to 1 or 2 positions that help but that gets boring. There’s only one thing he likes that always does the trick but I don’t enjoy it so I don’t want to do it. At this point, I’d be so much happier if we could each take care of our own needs, but he keeps wanting to try with me and not succeeding, or only having minimal success. When he pouts about being unfulfilled it brings gloom down onto the entire family. Nobody needs that. And to think, it would all be fine if he’s just get out of his head and go to the doctor. Instead, he’s become unapproachable to the kids during those periods and he’s gotten me to the point where I don’t even want to try anymore.

Your marital problems seem to go way beyond a semi-erect unit.

Why can't DH go see a doctor about it? I would seriously like to know the one thing "that always does the trick" that she doesn't enjoy. BJ, anal, what is it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If your DH truly did not care, and it would have no negative impact on your marriage, would you be fine to never have sex with your husband again?

Yes. He’s become incompetent, fat, mean, selfish and has an autism Dx= unattractive sexually.

[Anonymous]

I replied on the other thread, raises hand, 45 year old female and I think we are in the silent majority.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I replied on the other thread, raises hand, 45 year old female and I think we are in the silent majority.

Yes it's not something most women would admit. There's a reason there are so many happy widows versus widowers. The ones I know are financially secure and they are so happy to be rid of all the obligations.