How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?

[Anonymous]

No, I’m 64 and I still really like that my husband wants to pound the mattress with me at least once a week. It may be for his pleasure but I get off on it too.

[Anonymous]

I have a lot drive dh - if never having sex with him again meant I could have sex with others, sure! But I’m not giving up the only source of sex I have!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, I’m 64 and I still really like that my husband wants to pound the mattress with me at least once a week. It may be for his pleasure but I get off on it too.

Gross

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yep. I do it once a week to keep him happy, but I could 100% live without it.

without it or without it with him?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, I’m 64 and I still really like that my husband wants to pound the mattress with me at least once a week. It may be for his pleasure but I get off on it too.

Gross

gross that she's healthy enough to enjoy sex at 64? repressed much?

[Anonymous]

Absolutely I’d go without! I love my husband and our marriage dearly, but sex is not something I enjoy/need/want. I’m 33/married 11 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow, all this duty sex is making me sad. You could never convince me to get married again. I love having a GF with nearly the same sex drive as me. If there came a time when she didn't want sex, she wouldn't do it anyway "for the sake of our marriage," or to not break my heart. She just wouldn't do it and I'd move on to the next. If there is one thing I've learned from this board, if you don't want to get stuck in sexless marriage, don't get married. You have all scared me straight and I thank you for that.

Same here brother!

If you found a girl who enjoys frequent intimacy, you should lock that down! I’m a DW, married 10 years and would like 3-4x a week (work full time and have a baby and toddler at home). I have higher drive than DH, who is happy at 1x week. So, we keep it at 1x week. I also have some girlfriends who are similarly higher drive than their DH - we exist!

[Anonymous]

No I want it more often than DH

[Anonymous]

no, I like the feeling of connection and intimacy, as well as the physical release. It feels good.

[Anonymous]

I think the “never” part of subject question is really skewing the results. Rephrase this as “twice per year” and 90% of women would happily agree. My wife definitely! Yet she still plays along twice per week for my sake.

[Anonymous]

NO. I like being intimate with my husband, would not want to give that part of our relationship up.

[Anonymous]

No! I initiated today and it was awesome. Usually DH initiates, so he loved the change of pace.

I'd go insane without sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would you want to have sex with someone else?

Yes Yes Yes

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would you want to have sex with someone else?

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I'd be fine without it and wish I cared more. Love him. 35, married 10 years.