Teen is all over his sister

[Anonymous]

If I knew OP’s IP address, I’d report to authorities.
Otherwise, the 10 year old will continue getting assaulted.

Anyone else feel the same way?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OK, fine. This is going to cost me a friendship whether I'm right or wrong.

The behavior YOU HAVE OBSERVED DIRECTLY is not acceptable behavior. Grow up, OP. It isn't about you. IT ISN'T ABOUT YOU.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:missed some of it. Crap

His mom thinks it's just brother sister love but it looks weird to me. The still sleep in the same room.

Today we hung out together at the pool and he would just pick her up and hold her close to his body and touch her like she's his toy the whole time we were there.

We apparently have at least three (probably more) complicit adults here: the parents and OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If I knew OP’s IP address, I’d report to authorities.
Otherwise, the 10 year old will continue getting assaulted.

Anyone else feel the same way?

She felt bothered enough to post but I don't know if she will call. I have to think she will because I feel sick thinking about what is happening to that poor girl.

What you have seen is enough to call, OP. It is wrong. What you have seen is very wrong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OK, fine. This is going to cost me a friendship whether I'm right or wrong.

How many more “friends” do you have who help their sons rape their daughters?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: , "This is what I was talking about, Mary looks unhappy

That the thing though, she doesn't look unhappy. She mildly objects but she's learned that her brother will get his way anyway. He always does.

So the mom doesn't think she's unhappy. But I'll talk to her anyway.

OP, you need to step in, since the mother is clueless. If you want to be gentle, tell the mom that now that her son has reached puberty, he needs to learn how to maintain and respect personal space and that lesson starts at home. While he may love his sister, the touching is inappropriate. If neither parent has had the talk about the birds and bees, they are several years too late and need to do that immediately. They need to make sure that the boy understands how to respect women/girls and their bodies and that includes his sister. If you think they are really that clueless, you can offer to help talk to him about appropriate personal space after they've had the discussion about sex and reproduction.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, but I don't have proof that he's raping her. What if I'm mistaken and it's not sexual, just rough housing. This is serious accusations.

Is it ever normal for kids this age to share the room willingly?

OP you don't need to know for sure what's going on. You don't have to have proof. By reporting it you're allowing someone with the right training and expertise to investigate and make the call.

If you don't report it, you are prioritizing the needs of everyone else over those of this little girl. Who cares if it's uncomfortable for you or your friend. Who cares if they are inconvenienced or have to hire a lawyer. What matters is that this little girl is safe, and right now you have good reason to believe that she isn't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If I knew OP’s IP address, I’d report to authorities.
Otherwise, the 10 year old will continue getting assaulted.

Anyone else feel the same way?

She felt bothered enough to post but I don't know if she will call. I have to think she will because I feel sick thinking about what is happening to that poor girl.

What you have seen is enough to call, OP. It is wrong. What you have seen is very wrong.

I will call.

[Anonymous]

Geez, people. Of course I'm not letting him abuse her. What kind of person do you think I am? I have a child the same age.

I found out the number to call already.

For what it's worth the parents are good, middle class parents who love their kids so I'm surprised they haven't acted on it.

[Anonymous]

The boy has been allowed to forcibly kissed his younger sister, “pick her up”, and “touch” her inappropriately in public.

Anyone with half a brain knows he’s raping her at night, considering the fact that he’s alone with her every. single. night.

This family must get emergency professional help. These parents are CLEARLY not capable of responsible parenting.

Get off your a**, OP, and get this family IMMEDIATE help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If I knew OP’s IP address, I’d report to authorities.
Otherwise, the 10 year old will continue getting assaulted.

Anyone else feel the same way?

She felt bothered enough to post but I don't know if she will call. I have to think she will because I feel sick thinking about what is happening to that poor girl.

What you have seen is enough to call, OP. It is wrong. What you have seen is very wrong.

I will call.

Thank you. Please let us know that this little girl will be safe from rape tonight.

[Anonymous]

At 13 he has been taught about personal space and unwanted touching already. He knows! This teaching starts in daycare/preschool. He has also learned he can get away with it at home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If I knew OP’s IP address, I’d report to authorities.
Otherwise, the 10 year old will continue getting assaulted.

Anyone else feel the same way?

She felt bothered enough to post but I don't know if she will call. I have to think she will because I feel sick thinking about what is happening to that poor girl.

What you have seen is enough to call, OP. It is wrong. What you have seen is very wrong.

I will call.

Thank you. This thread is heartbreaking and so disturbing to me. My kids are these kids' ages. My heart breaks for this little girl.

[Anonymous]

She is 10. If he's raping her every night she would have physical problems that would be evident at home and checkups. Isn't it? So I can't say 100% certainty that he's raping her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She is 10. If he's raping her every night she would have physical problems that would be evident at home and checkups. Isn't it? So I can't say 100% certainty that he's raping her.

But it's also not my call to make. That's why they investigate. I don't have to be certain.