Baby sitter’s daughter looks like DHs side of the family

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP you wanted a child so bad that you adopted. Yet the thought of your DH actually fathering one only leads you to be concerned about your own kids inheritance.

Not one concern about the other kid in this mess expressed. Sad all around.

+1

Why the hell should she be concerned about the affair kid?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The girl is 4. She does not look like DH, but like DHs mother, exactly.
The supposed father is a redhead. The child is not a redhead, not a hint of red.
I’m 60, DH is 55. Our child is adopted because of infertility.
I’m not being paranoid. Just wondering about fallout....

First of all red hair is recessive you nitwit.

Second, what irresponsible a$$hole agency allowed a 51 & 56yr old to adopt a child? You two are as old as dirt. Super irresponsible. She is an only child and has parents with one foot in the grave. Must be awesome having a mom in menopause.

Are you twelve? Or is that just your IQ?

[Anonymous]

I think you are stirring up trouble where there is none. I am not a redhead but I have an incredibly common look. I am an only child and at least once a month I am stopped at a store, in a line, at an event with my kids for someone to tell me they know me, they know my mom, they know my sibling, etc. I am an only child. I did not grow up in this area. I just have a really generic face that people can take place.

[Anonymous]

On the off chance you're not a troll....

Please confront the sitter and her husband about your theory. Report back to us at how hard they laugh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The girl is 4. She does not look like DH, but like DHs mother, exactly.
The supposed father is a redhead. The child is not a redhead, not a hint of red.
I’m 60, DH is 55. Our child is adopted because of infertility.
I’m not being paranoid. Just wondering about fallout....

First of all red hair is recessive you nitwit.

Second, what irresponsible a$$hole agency allowed a 51 & 56yr old to adopt a child? You two are as old as dirt. Super irresponsible. She is an only child and has parents with one foot in the grave. Must be awesome having a mom in menopause.

STFU. Your ignorance is showing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The girl is 4. She does not look like DH, but like DHs mother, exactly.
The supposed father is a redhead. The child is not a redhead, not a hint of red.
I’m 60, DH is 55. Our child is adopted because of infertility.
I’m not being paranoid. Just wondering about fallout....

First of all red hair is recessive you nitwit.

Second, what irresponsible a$$hole agency allowed a 51 & 56yr old to adopt a child? You two are as old as dirt. Super irresponsible. She is an only child and has parents with one foot in the grave. Must be awesome having a mom in menopause.

STFU. Your ignorance is showing.

PP is an a$$hole for putting it that way -- such ugly words about aging (PP, you’ll get old some day too, if you’re lucky) — but I can’t imagine an adoption agency accepting parents in their 50s. That’s far from ideal for a new baby; they are the age of grandparents.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The girl is 4. She does not look like DH, but like DHs mother, exactly.
The supposed father is a redhead. The child is not a redhead, not a hint of red.
I’m 60, DH is 55. Our child is adopted because of infertility.
I’m not being paranoid. Just wondering about fallout....

First of all red hair is recessive you nitwit.

Second, what irresponsible a$$hole agency allowed a 51 & 56yr old to adopt a child? You two are as old as dirt. Super irresponsible. She is an only child and has parents with one foot in the grave. Must be awesome having a mom in menopause.

STFU. Your ignorance is showing.

PP is an a$$hole for putting it that way -- such ugly words about aging (PP, you’ll get old some day too, if you’re lucky) — but I can’t imagine an adoption agency accepting parents in their 50s. That’s far from ideal for a new baby; they are the age of grandparents.

OMG. OP didn’t say they adopted recently. For all we know their adopted child is already in their teens. OP could have done a better job explaining in the beginning because much of this is nonsensical and confusing.